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i should be nicer to anons calling me an egg maybe it's their first time seeing someone even slightly gnc
i have to ask actually. what happens when you go in someone's inbox and go "omg you should try being a girl i bet you're actually a closeted girl" and it's a trans man. does that ever happen. what then
auaahhauhghhh awful awful awful
if you claim that masculinity is always rewarded, i will just assume you’ve never listened to women or girls talk about their experiences being even slightly gnc. women aren’t even allowed to exist in their natural bodies, with body hair and no makeup, without being socially punished for being masculine
gender conformity is what is rewarded. living in the strict box assigned with one’s sex is what is rewarded. being cishet and falling in line with the patriarchy is rewarded. masculinity is only rewarded in the people patriarchy wants to have power.
(and this isn’t even getting into the way race can play into it)
This is true in the sense 90% of people attempting it have absolutely no business doing it, and end up acting in a way more consistent with the logic of the abuser than anything actually helpful.
Most people's instinctive knee jerk reactions to these situations actually just make shit worse. And people don't take the potential damage seriously enough when encouraging each other to take on this role.
Acting like you know someone's identity better than they do, their words can't be trusted, and they can't make their own decisions because they're doing it wrong - This is operating from the logic of the abuser. I don't care if you think you're right. If you think you've seen the same situation a million times. If you think you do know better and they would be happier listening to you. You are not helping, this is not how effectively helping people works.
You ALWAYS have to keep this in mind and make a concerted effort to act in ways consistent with logic that oposes abuse. This means: 1. Remembering and reinforcing autonomy 2. genuinely listening in an open, curious, compassionate manner 3. Treating them as someone who deserves to make their own decisions, and can be trusted to choose what's best, because they are the expert in their individual circumstances.
Of course you can share resources, mention options, talk about your own experiences, etc. While keeping all of those things in mind. The fact is most people don't, though, especially online and dealing with strangers. It's hard to let go of the desire for control, particularly when it's coming from a place of wanting to help.
theres a reason u associate east asians with femininity and black people with masculinity and it has nothing to do with actual masculine or feminine “behavior” and everything to do with race science 😭 u have been taught race science, u haven’t unlearned race science 😭😭😭😭 READ A BOOK ABOUT RACISMMMM

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This just happened at the end of SF trans march
That foreboding sense. Happened right at the end as we were DANCING. they pushed past us as we were leaving, batons and those non-lethal guns alr out. Whatever their story they were alr sending trucks up the backway on McAllister. Actually i dont remember even seeing any vehicles other than trans bikers cus thats our destination every time.
Multiple trans ppl arrested after being assaulted w/ no explanation. Whoever was left was pushed out of the Trans District or out of the march area.
Anyways everyone be careful this weekend if this is how it’s starting.
just a heads up. im gonna do a big curse soon
okay so honestly i wasn’t expecting they’d be able to hide the body for this long
LINDSEY GRAHAM ?
for real tho it feels exhausting that ive seen this whole "woman should be allowed to abstain from X beauty standard" -> "i perform X beauty standard, am i evil? do you think im evil? please forgive me i came up with a dozen excuses 🥺" since like 2015 (and i know its been going on longer than that) like girl thats not the poiiiiint
look me in the eyes. repeat after me. "i face societal pressure to perform this beauty standard. i should not face that pressure. i conform to this standard. i am rewarded for performing to this standard. i need to respect women who do not perform this standard. this is not about whether or not i am a sinner for wearing makeup."
ik nobody's talking about these songs anymore but I've been thinkin about this ship ever since ERB came out so... I call this "Confessions of a Rotten Ego Renegade Boy" because it's dumb and it fits them
genuinely obsessed w this concept now might draw these gay sillies more
Nope. Not a purist at all. Not sure why you think it is appropriate to ask a minor if they plan to have sex before marriage though??? 😭😭 also I feel like I’ve got an ask like this before like a month ago I actually am not someone who personally would endorse pre-marital sex no, sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone and people just go around doing it with strangers? Hookup culture is a virus
hey so what do you think of aromantic allosexuals. think fast chucklenuts
No idea what the hell allosexual is but aromatic people it’s their choice, I said that I personally don’t think premarital intimacy is healthy and would not indulge, but other people can do what they want I don’t care
you know what aromanticism is but not allosexuality?
anyway if having premarital sex and casual sex is unhealthy then i’m a sicko but i don’t think you should imply all people who do so are
Well it’s not healthy to go around every night get intoxicated and then go have intercourse with someone you don’t know, it’s literally not good for your body, that is a fact..
brother no one mentioned intoxication until. no aroallo person is slamming twenty shots and then having a shag, thats not what casual sex is
I said hookup culture was the disease, not casual sex, hookup culture involves drinking. I do not have a problem with casual sex as long as it is done safely 😭😭 I don’t think it’s good for your mental health but it’s not my place to tell someone what they can do. Someone asked me my opinion on premarital sex so I answered with what I believe for myself
you sound like: 1) a misogynist 2) you believe in porn addiction and have no grasp of actual human psychology 3) arophobic 4) someone who has big opinions for someone who isn't even old enough to drink (hookup culture implies no such thing, actually) 5) someone whos mom is gonna fuck me tonight after a night of drinking
also censoring the anon saying "no masturbation" lmfao
What? I’m uncomfortable with answering that why is that a problem?? 😭😭 how did you even know it said that did you send it?
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OP absolutely sounds like a puritan.
You’ve never talked to a real puritan then 😭
I went to catholic school.
If yiu think there's something morally wrong with 'sex outside of a romantic eelationship' then you are a puritan.
How do you feel about polyamory?
I go to catholic school and I have to attend church like three times a week you’re not special 😭😭
I support polyamory, it’s their choice
"I go to catholic school and I have to attend church like three times a week"
Well, that explains why you're like this.
I hope you can leave the church and unlearn shame eventually. Good luck.

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Nope. Not a purist at all. Not sure why you think it is appropriate to ask a minor if they plan to have sex before marriage though??? 😭😭 also I feel like I’ve got an ask like this before like a month ago I actually am not someone who personally would endorse pre-marital sex no, sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone and people just go around doing it with strangers? Hookup culture is a virus
hey so what do you think of aromantic allosexuals. think fast chucklenuts
No idea what the hell allosexual is but aromatic people it’s their choice, I said that I personally don’t think premarital intimacy is healthy and would not indulge, but other people can do what they want I don’t care
you know what aromanticism is but not allosexuality?
anyway if having premarital sex and casual sex is unhealthy then i’m a sicko but i don’t think you should imply all people who do so are
Well it’s not healthy to go around every night get intoxicated and then go have intercourse with someone you don’t know, it’s literally not good for your body, that is a fact..
brother no one mentioned intoxication until. no aroallo person is slamming twenty shots and then having a shag, thats not what casual sex is
I said hookup culture was the disease, not casual sex, hookup culture involves drinking. I do not have a problem with casual sex as long as it is done safely 😭😭 I don’t think it’s good for your mental health but it’s not my place to tell someone what they can do. Someone asked me my opinion on premarital sex so I answered with what I believe for myself
you sound like: 1) a misogynist 2) you believe in porn addiction and have no grasp of actual human psychology 3) arophobic 4) someone who has big opinions for someone who isn't even old enough to drink (hookup culture implies no such thing, actually) 5) someone whos mom is gonna fuck me tonight after a night of drinking
also censoring the anon saying "no masturbation" lmfao
What? I’m uncomfortable with answering that why is that a problem?? 😭😭 how did you even know it said that did you send it?
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OP absolutely sounds like a puritan.
You’ve never talked to a real puritan then 😭
I went to catholic school.
If yiu think there's something morally wrong with 'sex outside of a romantic eelationship' then you are a puritan.
How do you feel about polyamory?
Nope. Not a purist at all. Not sure why you think it is appropriate to ask a minor if they plan to have sex before marriage though??? 😭😭 also I feel like I’ve got an ask like this before like a month ago I actually am not someone who personally would endorse pre-marital sex no, sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone and people just go around doing it with strangers? Hookup culture is a virus
hey so what do you think of aromantic allosexuals. think fast chucklenuts
No idea what the hell allosexual is but aromatic people it’s their choice, I said that I personally don’t think premarital intimacy is healthy and would not indulge, but other people can do what they want I don’t care
you know what aromanticism is but not allosexuality?
anyway if having premarital sex and casual sex is unhealthy then i’m a sicko but i don’t think you should imply all people who do so are
Well it’s not healthy to go around every night get intoxicated and then go have intercourse with someone you don’t know, it’s literally not good for your body, that is a fact..
brother no one mentioned intoxication until. no aroallo person is slamming twenty shots and then having a shag, thats not what casual sex is
I said hookup culture was the disease, not casual sex, hookup culture involves drinking. I do not have a problem with casual sex as long as it is done safely 😭😭 I don’t think it’s good for your mental health but it’s not my place to tell someone what they can do. Someone asked me my opinion on premarital sex so I answered with what I believe for myself
you sound like: 1) a misogynist 2) you believe in porn addiction and have no grasp of actual human psychology 3) arophobic 4) someone who has big opinions for someone who isn't even old enough to drink (hookup culture implies no such thing, actually) 5) someone whos mom is gonna fuck me tonight after a night of drinking
also censoring the anon saying "no masturbation" lmfao
What? I’m uncomfortable with answering that why is that a problem?? 😭😭 how did you even know it said that did you send it?
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OP absolutely sounds like a puritan.
imagine you're a child, you learn your queer and your parents are extremely bigoted. you have some friends on Roblox who are very kind, they're in their early 20s and they sympathize as they went through the same things as a kid. they offer to use your correct name and pronouns, maybe some even offer to buy you a binder or help you find hrt or support groups local to you
roblox rolls out their age group system, and you can no longer talk to any adults on the platform. you can only talk to people in person, i.e. your parents, who are horrid. now you're back at square one, being helplessly abused. to make it worse, you're homeschooled, as I was. you can't reach out to anyone at school for support either.
or maybe you're not homeschooled, and you ask your pronouns to be used at school. it goes well for a while, and you feel some relief.
then your state passes a bill that requires forced outing. your teachers report to your parents that you've been trying out a different name and pronouns.
they pull you from school, send you to boarding school or conversion therapy, and force you to attend private schools in the future that match their values.
you are entirely under their control. you could've made connections with other adults, ones willing to help you out. to treat you like a human, give you access to life saving care. and it's stripped away, you're alone, and everything feels hopeless.
this is the reality for many children. this is almost exactly what I went through as a child. it is not a mere hypothetical, it happens regularly. please stop falling for this moral grandstanding, it's about control- it's always been about control.
Confession time; while I may have started making my girlfriend lunches purely because I love her there’s now a little bit of gay spite involved as well. I want the straight girls she works with to see what they’re missing and hold their men to higher standards.
Operation Gay Spite has claimed its first straight relationship! I’m not sure I’ve ever been prouder of anything in my life!
If making lunch broke them up it was never a good one in the first place
He gets it.
I’m genuinely curious how the lunches caused the breakup to happen, and I fully support the Gay Spite lunches
Literally since my bf saw this he’s started doing other things to model relationship goals for other guys. He’s always been lovely to me, but he’s made more of a point to show off the things we do for each other and raise people’s standards. He told his friend that we make dinner for each other every night and that guy went home and made his gf enchiladas. He posted about doing my laundry while I was at work (he does stuff like that all the time but usually isn’t public about it) and 2 other guys cleaned stuff up before their ladies came home.
Basically what I’m saying is that @solarpunkarchivist has started a chain reaction of straight people doing better and setting better examples and we appreciate it.
My dad has always sung to my mom on their birthday*, their anniversay, and the winter solstice because that’s her least favorite day of the year. He did this well before they got married, and he kept doing it after they started working in the same office building, walking over to her cubicle a few times a year with a dozen roses and singing a love song from broadway or an operetta. More often, he came over with a hot takeout lunch, or fresh salad or a dessert and would double-check who was picking me up today and what Mom wanted him to make for dinner if he was getting home first.
Some men gave him shit about doing that, bitching and moaning about “Maaaaaan you’re raising the bar!” or “Isn’t picking up the kids your wife’s job?” and so on.
But more men- many more men- came to him for advice. “Where did you learn to sing?” “My wife’s allergic to flowers and doesn’t like chocolate. What should I get her for her birthday?” “How did you get time off to pick up your kids early?” “I wanna do something nice for our anniversary, but it’s right before tax day and I never remember and I feel like an ass. How do you remember?” Net, he thinks setting a good example like that ended two relationships and saved five.
Setting a good example is a good idea to inspire people to realize they deserve better, but even better is that there are lots of people out there who want to do better and will glady take notes from you.
*they have the same birthday 4 years apart.
"The youth will save us." A frighteningly large number of them are puritanical, pearl clutching, nuance free, fascist regime loving Nazis. I'm beginning to doubt that very much.
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i’m gonna say something that will probably piss some people off
i do not think “kill all men” is a good or productive thing to say in any situation
B-but people with micropenises are my emotional support minority to bully!! 🥺🥺 B-but it's funny that their penises are small!! 🥺🥺 B-but I only make fun of BAD people by calling their penises small!! 🥺🥺 I have good reason to make fun of people with micropenises!! 🥺🥺 It's not intersexism if it's funny!! 🥺🥺 It's sooo funny because their penises are small!! 🥺🥺 Guys it's sooo funny come on!! 🥺🥺
Aaand here's some of the lovely comments under this post:
I think I hate tumblr.
Anyways BLOCKED!!!
There is no feminist way to participate in toxic masculinity, and mocking people for having fragile masculinity is toxic masculinity, point blank period. Its fundamentally patriarchal.
The idea that "having fragile masculinity" is inherently a personality defect or moral failing is patriarchal. So much of this kind of bullshit is people taking fundamentally patriarchal ideas of manhood (for example, that men being vulnerable is a defect or moral failing) and defining it around slightly more feminist values.
Like, the only thing that is different from bog standard patriarchy here is the inclusion of "macho." But like, the idea that there are "fragile" men who fail to be "real men" with unshakeable firm masculinity, and they also secretly have small penises and are biologically less manly compared to "real men" whose real manhood can be located in their large penises... babe that's just toxic masculinity. The same "macho" shit you hate those men for, you yourself engage in, just a little to the left.
Fragile masculinity is not a moral failing, and it doesn't intrinsically make someone a worse person. And tbh I think talking about "fragile masculinity" like this is kind of disgustingly individualistic, and doesn't do much to encourage conversation about how patriarchy constructs manhood and masculinity as tools of control and oppression (what some feminists might call misandry).
#in the 00s a friend of mine decided to rail again the micropenis thing#and just announced to people that he had a small dick#I have no idea how big his dick is but I assume average cos it was never a genuine topic#but his announcing having a small dick whenever it came up was so interesting#people's responses were very telling#there were ones who commiserated which like. at least you're kind but also it's not that bad a thing#and there were ones who kept making fun of him and had to handle the whole room turning on them#I thought it was a great power play#we were teens so dick size came up quite a bit lol
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