Some aros reject the concept of love altogether and others redefine it for themselves. Neither of these is the wrong way to go about it. The wrong way to go about it is being an asshole.

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@non-sam-aro
Some aros reject the concept of love altogether and others redefine it for themselves. Neither of these is the wrong way to go about it. The wrong way to go about it is being an asshole.

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Aegosexual flag with ao3 logo…
My people
if you ask 10 aros about love you’ll get 27 responses
aro culture is being nonSAM aro ‼️‼️‼️ i love being nonSAM aro ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
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"how do you feel about labels as a queer person?"

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(Image description: the asexual, aromantic, queer chevron, polyamory, pansexual, intersex, leather, more color more pride, trans, and genderqueer pride flags with the words “the future of pride is radically inclusive” centered in white text.)
Happy Pride Month!
Consider creating art this month in support of the LGBTQ+ community. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Amazing awesome but please…. please remove the polyamorous flag and the leatyer pride flag…. having multiple, opposite sex partners does not make a person LGBT and kink does not make someone LGBT…. it just makes me really uncomfortable to see kink flags mixed in with LGBT flags…
If this post makes you uncomfortable, I feel like I should warn you about what frequently happens at Pride events….
Kinky and polyamorous queer people exist and there is great overlap between the histories of the communities. I won’t be removing the flags from this post and I won’t stop including them in the future, obviously.
The leather flag is older than all of the other flags on this post— including the trans flag.
Ah, yes, I see someone has fallen into the age-old trap of believing that the LGBTQ+/Queer movement is about certain specific types of people, types of people that they like and approve of, getting better treatment.
No.
The LGBTQ+/Queer movement is about breaking down the cisheteropatriarchal monoculture which believes that there is One Right And Good Way To Be.
According to the Traditional Values camp, there is exactly one way of living your life. That is, you will conform to Your Gender, and it will define you. You will have the socially accepted amount of sex with the socially accepted partner for your gender, and you will do it within the socially accepted type of relationship. You will date a single person of the opposite gender until you either break up or get married (and if you break up, you will immediately begin looking for your next partner). Any sex you have will be “normal” sex–not kinky or daring or boundary-pushing in any way. You will get married and have kids. You will put your spouse above all other relationships except your kids. At all times, everything about your relationships and your gender and your way of living in the world will be Normal And Good.
If you do not live your life according to this model, you are Bad and Wrong.
The Traditional Values camp hates the poly people and the “straight” kinksters exactly as much as they hate lesbians, gays, transgender, aro, and intersex people.
If you want to determine which kinds of “not normative” people are Good and deserve better treatment, all you are doing is replicating the Traditional Values camp, but with a rainbow flag pasted on.
HAPPY PRIDE to Black Aros on this site btw. Whether ur Aroallo aroace non-SAM loveless etc I hope your pride month is a good one
Ist das aus Amatonormativität, dass ich bei allen fucking Buchungsplattformen immer erst mal die Personenzahl von 2 Erwachsene auf 1 verstellen muss? Nervt mich jedenfalls.
Als Einzelperson/Single zu reisen, ist oft einfach mal doppelt so teuer, weil es gar nicht so viele richtige Einzelzimmer gibt und man dann alleine das Gleiche bezahlt wie ein Pärchen. Vor allem bei organisierten Reisen ist der Preis fast immer danach berechnet, dass sich zwei Leute ein Doppelzimmer teilen. Das ist definitiv Amatonormativität.
Von regulärer Miete wollen wir gar nicht erst anfangen.
Es wird einfach mit nichts gerechnet, was irgendwie vom Standard eines Paares auf Urlaub abweicht. Dreibettzimmer für drei Erwachsene sind ähnlich rar wie echte Einzelzimmer. Wenn, dann sind es oft Suiten, weil die ein zweites Zimmer haben, in denen dann ein Sofabett steht. Proportional zahlt man dann auch wieder pro Person deutlich mehr als man pro Person in der normalen Zimmerkategorie zahlen würde. Man braucht aber doch deshalb nicht zwingend ne Suite, sondern einfach nur ein größeres Zimmer mit mehr Betten. Die gibts auch, aber halt sehr selten.
Wenn man mal ein echtes Einzelzimmer kriegt, dann sind das oft auch die letzten Löcher - schlecht geschnitten, noch schlechter durchdacht eingerichtet. Es ist einfach nervig.
why is the combined ace aro flag different colours to the ace and aro flags
my square #mysquare
Pride Squid Emojis! Enjoy~

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happy pride month!!
did you know? the lgbtq tag regularly trends on tumblr! this is because it gets constantly spammed by multiple porn bots trying to catfish using the same stolen pictures from the same trans woman on the same trending tag page hashtag lgbtq positivity hashtag sissy crossdresser
here's tumblr letting someone blaze sissy hypno captions and a post with multiple gifs of fully naked people fucking center frame with tens of thousands of notes that despite being a visual depiction of a sexually explicit act only has the sexually explicit flag applied to a transfem's contentless reblog of it as well as said sex gifs in the trending tags thumbnails
and here's tumblr flagging my screenshots of the posts but not the posts themselves as mature content
Aro culture, before fully understanding you're aro and what that means, is attempting to write romance but getting completely stuck not even that far in and wondering why you can't think of how to properly describe anything or what the characters are feeling. So you try some cliches based on what you know but they just don't feel right at all. And then you go "but I read romantic things often enough and I really ship these characters, why can't I write for them?" And then you realize later on it's because you've never felt or wanted those things yourself even if you like them in fiction, so it's hard to imagine what it's like in first person
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On the subject of love.
There is something striking and aro to having words and panel layouts but no panel contents. You can clearly see the shape of it, and it’s emotive and expressive and powerful, but some people would dismiss it at a glance as incomplete or uninteresting due to all the “blank space”. But they’re wrong; the words and panel layouts are enough to drown in it. In my opinion, the best aro art isn’t just about aromanticism, it’s aro on multiple levels simultaneously.
Happy pride!
Let me know in my inbox if there are any other flags you would like to see me draw :]
Edit: I’m gonna turn off my asks temporarily while I go through my requests bc if I get any more I fear I may explode 😭😭 (I’ll turn my asks back on after I finish all of them though!)
“there are always more fish in the sea!” babe no offense but i just really sincerely do not want to go fishing
from some of the comments i am seeing about having a hard time with fishing or wanting to fish in a specific way or looking for a white whale or wanting to skip the fishing and go straight to having a fish i feel i need to clarify the metaphor. this is not about the fishing itself to me as much as the fish. there’s this whole societal thing that pushes people to feel like they should be eating fish all the time and while fish are awesome for some people!! and while some people Want fish but don’t like the pressure about it!! i do not like fish i do not want fish and in fact i often feel as if i may exhibit an allergic reaction to seafood

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diversity win! this garden burger does not experience romantic attraction!
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happy june everybody i hope you get fucked and/or sucked this month
what if we don't wanna be?
then i hope for peace