no longer romance neutral. i crave violence

I love vague labels that make people go "but that's confusing" or "but that could mean anything" Good. Keep guessing lol

"Queer doesn't actually tell me anything" who says I wanted to tell you anything. Who even are you.

as much as I understand why the recent wave of trans solidarity posts are being made (to fight off radfems trying to turn transmascs and transfems against each other) I do find it frustrating that nonbinary people are mentioned only very briefly, if at all. and in that brief mention we're rarely mentioned rarely by name, it's usually written like "transmascs and transfems and all trans people", which... I understand, begrudgingly. being nonbinary isn't a monolith and nor is it a "third option" to trans men and trans women. but sometimes I do feel like people really do keep forgetting that trans people exist outside the transmasc/transfem false dichotomy.

you can make anything aromantic. as a matter of fact, you should

“there are always more fish in the sea!” babe no offense but i just really sincerely do not want to go fishing

from some of the comments i am seeing about having a hard time with fishing or wanting to fish in a specific way or looking for a white whale or wanting to skip the fishing and go straight to having a fish i feel i need to clarify the metaphor. this is not about the fishing itself to me as much as the fish. there’s this whole societal thing that pushes people to feel like they should be eating fish all the time and while fish are awesome for some people!! and while some people Want fish but don’t like the pressure about it!! i do not like fish i do not want fish and in fact i often feel as if i may exhibit an allergic reaction to seafood

[ID: a picture of a menue in which the first item reads "Hunters chicken burger \n chicken breast, barbecue sauce, bacon, cheese, chips. 17.95" and the second item reads "aromantic garden burger \n pea, spinach and potato burger, burger garnish, vegan mayonnaise, chips. 16.95. End ID]

we need to normalize a tradition where nonpartnering aros are like "hey, i'm officially never getting married, please come to this party and give me whatever kitchenware you would have bought me for a wedding"