I am trying to be better.

problem solving steps

A similar vibe to the notfic, but for podfic fandom particularly, is the oral not!fic - a delightful experience of oral storytelling where you "yes, and" your way through a plot simply by talking it out loud:

And you can find a whole bunch on the AO3:

What was he thinking to try

Roaming the lands pouring salt on god’s creatures

i was incredibly dysphoric about my round face and softer features until i started looking at the faces of hispanic men and realized that those features weren’t feminine at all, they were ethnic features white supremacy had conditioned me to see as less masculine

There was one episode with a trans woman getting different gender-affirming operations, including breast implants. It showed the procedure, and (what I found so fascinating that it's stuck with me for decades), as soon as the doctor put the implant in, a censor blur popped up on the nipple.

And you just know there was a meeting between the TLC lawyers and the editors and producers of the show to discuss what the difference was between a "man nipple" (can be shown) and a "woman nipple" (no no must obscure, 'tis naughty). And they decided that as soon as the implant goes in and the nipple has more mass behind it, that's the moment when it becomes a woman's nipple and must be hidden to comply with TV rules.

But it's the same nipple. On the same person. I know what it looks like; I just saw it. But TV and obscenity rules are rules, and the rules say woman nipple = sexual and therefore explicit, but man nipple = neutral, just fine.

here's Chapter 9 of me reading Twilight to my wife, in this chapter, i almost make Anne Marie spit her coffee out from laughing, if you'd like to listen, my patreon is $5 a month