quit telling people I'm dead!

1. The puppygirl was able to make herself a sandwich and buy herself little treats and play games. Therefore the puppygirl is physically and mentally capable of performing small menial tasks. The puppygirl can clean, to some extent. The puppygirl has mental energy she could theoretically put towards helping the household, to some extent. The puppygirl is absolutely choosing not to do that work. I am not saying the puppygirl can do all the things perhaps expected of the average person but she can definitely do some things that she is choosing not to. And I'm sorry I'm sorry but feeling anxious is not a good reason not to clean up after yourself. Feeling unloved isn't either. At some point in life you have to do things that are inconvenient or uncomfortable or boring or scary and people having expectations of that is not unreasonable or hurtful

2. If you have a breakdown when something comes up that is incredibly distressing to you that's just life. If you have a breakdown EVERY TIME IT IS MENTIONED, to the extent that your partners can't even ask you to stack the fucking dishwasher, you are being completely unreasonable and it is a very valid reaction for them to stop accepting your meltdowns as currency. Part of the lot of living with anxiety is learning ways to engage with things that don't set you off. Maybe the puppygirl could message. Maybe she could write letters. She needed to actually try. A meltdown does not excuse you from life.

3. This is a controversial take but I'm gonna say it anyway. Actually preface first: the puppygirl is NOT a uniquely trans phenomenon. She is the sister of "girl math" and "damn bitch you live like this?". This is where I disagree with tara because I do not think the puppygirl is toxic masculinity I think she's toxic femininity. I think she's a girl that's asked herself what the girliest girl possible looks like and come up with the answer of "helpless". She's just a girl. Just a stupid girl. The puppygirl is acting out the worst version of womanhood and calling it her identity. The puppygirl is a fucking tradwife, minus the housework.

the most dogshit useless decimated search engine in the entire world:

1. The court holds Google responsible for statements made by its AI, considering them Google's statements (search engines have limited liability for results in their engine as they're the words of other sites/companies/people), meaning when their AI lies/hallucinates they're liable for the defamation/harm resulting from those statements.

2. Google's defense that customers are generally aware of the lack of reliability and are responsible for fact checking was dismissed. As the court pointed out, that would "significantly diminish" AI Search's stated purpose and it can't be distinguished from Google's business practices/statements as a search tool.

3. Studies have found about 91% of Google's everyday AI responses are accurate, leaving millions of searches per HOUR with potential liability for falsehoods. 56% of correct responses weren't supported by the sources the AI listed. Both of which mean Google is now liable for a LOT more AI "errors."

4. Google was held liable for 80% of court costs in this case and this precedent is expected to reverberate around the world. This is a massive shift from the 3rd-party search provider role Google has previously played and it comes right as they've tied ALL searches to their AI search.

Big finish can do you new adventures of any number of Doctor Whos

They can even give you Jo Martin

If you're looking for a new era w a new Doctor then I would recommend jumping into the Eighth Doctor audios as there's loads of them. You can start with Storm Warning for a more classic who esque experience OR The Eighth Doctor Adventures S1 for a more new who esque experience

If you're after a totally new thing to get into there's Gallifrey (has some prerequisites. If this appeals to you I imagine you will work it out)

If you're after new stuff that's less classic who oriented another potential jumping in point is actually the Sixth Doctor audios. Due to a quirk in continuity (actually bcos the show was nearly cancelled) he has an almost fully open ended canon and a whole range of expanded universe companions including OG Big finish companion Evelyn Smythe

1. The puppygirl was able to make herself a sandwich and buy herself little treats and play games. Therefore the puppygirl is physically and mentally capable of performing small menial tasks. The puppygirl can clean, to some extent. The puppygirl has mental energy she could theoretically put towards helping the household, to some extent. The puppygirl is absolutely choosing not to do that work. I am not saying the puppygirl can do all the things perhaps expected of the average person but she can definitely do some things that she is choosing not to. And I'm sorry I'm sorry but feeling anxious is not a good reason not to clean up after yourself. Feeling unloved isn't either. At some point in life you have to do things that are inconvenient or uncomfortable or boring or scary and people having expectations of that is not unreasonable or hurtful

2. If you have a breakdown when something comes up that is incredibly distressing to you that's just life. If you have a breakdown EVERY TIME IT IS MENTIONED, to the extent that your partners can't even ask you to stack the fucking dishwasher, you are being completely unreasonable and it is a very valid reaction for them to stop accepting your meltdowns as currency. Part of the lot of living with anxiety is learning ways to engage with things that don't set you off. Maybe the puppygirl could message. Maybe she could write letters. She needed to actually try. A meltdown does not excuse you from life.

3. This is a controversial take but I'm gonna say it anyway. Actually preface first: the puppygirl is NOT a uniquely trans phenomenon. She is the sister of "girl math" and "damn bitch you live like this?". This is where I disagree with tara because I do not think the puppygirl is toxic masculinity I think she's toxic femininity. I think she's a girl that's asked herself what the girliest girl possible looks like and come up with the answer of "helpless". She's just a girl. Just a stupid girl. The puppygirl is acting out the worst version of womanhood and calling it her identity. The puppygirl is a fucking tradwife, minus the housework.

After The Clouds Clear

The local Malagasy people are dealing with extreme poverty and food insecurity, with nearly half of children under five years old suffering from chronic malnutrition. The local people have always subsisted on hunting wildlife for food, and as Madagascar’s wildlife population declines, the people who rely on so-called bushmeat to survive are struggling more and more. People are literally starving.

Our conservation team thought about this a lot. They had initially intended to focus efforts on education but came to understand that this is not an issue arising from a lack of knowledge. For these people it is a question of survival. It doesn’t matter how many times a foreigner tells you not to eat an animal you’ve hunted your entire life, if your child is starving you are going to do everything in your power to keep your family alive.

So the vets changed course. Rather than focus efforts on simply teaching people about lemurs, they decided to try and use veterinary medicine to reduce the underlying issue of food insecurity. They supposed that if a reliable protein source could be introduced for the people who needed it, the dependence on meat from wildlife would greatly decrease. So they got to work establishing new flocks of chickens in the most at-risk communities, and also initiated an aggressive vaccination program for Newcastle disease (an infectious illness of poultry that is of particular concern in this area). They worked with over 600 households to ensure appropriate husbandry and vaccination for every flock, and soon found these communities were being transformed by the introduction of a steady protein source. Families with a healthy flock of chickens were far less likely to hunt wild animals like lemurs, and fewer kids went hungry. Thats what we call a win-win situation.

This chicken vaccine program became just one small part of an amazing conservation outreach initiative in Madagascar that puts local people at the center of everything they do. Helping these vulnerable communities of people helps similarly vulnerable wildlife, always. If we go into a country guns-blazing with that fire for conservation in our hearts and a plan to save native animals, we simply cannot ignore the humans who live around them. Doing so is counterintuitive to creating an effective plan because whether we recognize it or not, humans and animals are inextricably linked in many ways. A true conservation success story is one that doesn’t leave needy humans in its wake, and that is why I think this particular story has stuck with me for so long.

(Source 1)

(Source 2- cool video exploring this initiative from some folks involved)

But on top of that, you know who the most ardent conservationists are once security has been achieved? The people who had once been forced to poach or slash-and-burn to survive. You know who’s great at tracking down gorilla poachers? Ex-poachers. Who’s good at understanding and advocating for people forced to do these things to survive? Ex-poachers. Who can convince others to take a chance on finding a better way to survive? Same answer.

The former illegal fishers are now sought-after experts, because they know how to spot the arapaima and tell juveniles apart from adults. They get to keep practicing the fishing skills that were passed down to them. The actual process of fishing is easier because they can work together and don't have to sneak around. The profits are higher because they can sell the fish openly to restaurants and to the public. The fishing organization members make sure that other people in their communities don't fish illegally. And the numbers of arapaima keep going up and up, so there's plenty to go around even as more people join the fishing organizations.

If you click all the way through to the report from the conservation org that started the fishing organizations project, there are quotes from fishing organization members:

"We built a second house and I'm putting my oldest two kids through college on the money we get from fishing."

"Nowadays you have young people walking around with pockets full of cash saying "I got 6,000 from fishing this year!" It used to be you wouldn't even get 50 reais of pocket money."

As a severely disabled person with severe mental health problems, has a caretaker partner, and is trans, using your disability or mental health to get out of your bad behavior is just pathetic. Those can make things occur yes. But YOU still did it. YOU still need to apologize and take accountability. The puppygirl only ever used that to manipulate her partners. This whole debate is ridiculous.

I have been on a journey to better myself, but you have to actually put the work in and listen to your loved ones. You can be mad about this person detailing a long history of that puppygirl abusing people, with several other people saying the same things about the abuse, but that just makes you a bad person. If it was a man would you say the same thing?

And if you relate to the puppygirl that much you have a lot of work to do on yourself, and you need to think about how your actions affect others.

Be better, try harder, remeber to apologize and take accountability.