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I now headcanon Nico to be enby such as he goes by He/him pronouns but doesn't use terms like son or boy so he goes by nonbinary terms
Son of hades=child of hades, Brother=sibling, Boyfriend=partner or significant other you get the idea
I hope this makes sense and that you guys like it
Special thanks to @m3lth3ph4nt0m for filling my head with solangelo brain rot and giving me this idea β~β
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uhhhhh maybe new gender reveal???? I was doing more gender deep diving (ugh, because OF COURSE I have to do more gender questioning just when I thought I was clear what my gender is) and I found these cool identities, and they kinda clicked for me. may need to do more questioning and research. quoiby/umbraquoi still fits for me, but I wanna find a term that is BOTH nonbinary and agender, because that fits me too (if anyone has a term that fits that pls tell me!)
chat how do we feel about "enne" as like. a nb standin for girl/boy thats Actually One Syllable
Lovely interaction I had the other day:
Me: hey, mom, what do you call (Sparky)?
Mom: β¦their name?
Me: yeah, but, like, me and (Lotus) are your sons
Mom: mhm?
Me: so what would they be?
Mom: β¦child?
Dad, popping out of nowhere: SPROG
Sparky, on the couch: YES
Moral of the story is that parents should call their nonbinary child their sprog
Othran flag because I realized I didn't make one yet!
Othran is a nonbinary alternative for woman or man. The term was created on July 1st 2023, by me. Note that "nonbinary alternative" does not mean it's "unisex/gender neutral" meaning it could refer to anyone of any gender, it is explicitly for nonbinary people who are not women or men in any way.
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Reminder to nonbinary folks that if you personally want to be considered in a gay man's or gay woman's attraction, that it's totally fine and ultimately up to you.
I feel like most folks talk about the side were not all nonbinary folks want to be included in labels like mlm or wlw, which is 1000% fine but it's also fine if you want to be included as well. Multigender nonbinary folks who consider themselves wlw and mlm exist. Non aligned nonbinary folks who use sapphic or veldian (and words that are similar) in a way that communicates that they're fine being included in gay men's and gay women's attraction, also exist. This also goes for man-aligned nonbinary people who aren't men but use mlm and woman-aligned nonbinary people who aren't women but use wlw.
It's literally all comes down to what a nonbinary individual is comfortable with. Nonbinary folks who want to be included in labels like wlw and mlm aren't misgendering ourselves, nor are we the reason why our community is so misunderstood, neither are we "making the community look bad". That being said, respect both sides wishes. Don't automatically assume that every nonbinary person uses mlm, wlw, nblw or nblm. But don't knock any nonbinary people that don't use those labels.
Nonbinary Terms 101
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Instead of using Dad/Mom/Father/Mother, use:
- Parent
- Guardian
Instead of using sister/brother, use:
- Sibling
Instead of using girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband, use:
- Partner
- Lover
- Significant Other
- Spouse
- Enbyfriend
Instead of using niece/nephew, use:
- Neiphew
Instead of using uncle/aunt/auntie, use:
- Auncle
Instead of using boy/girl, use:
- Enby
Instead of using men/women, use:
- Enben
Instead of using man/woman, use:
- Enban
Instead of using grandmother/grandson, use:
- Grandparent
- Grandchild
Note: These are terms for Nonbinary people to use, but Nonbinary people can use any term they'd like! If one wants to be called a "wife", they are still nonbinary and valid! These are just androgynous terms for us to use. Some of these terms are more exclusive for only nonbinary people to use, like enbyfriend and enban/enben/enby. Most of these are just for nonbinary people to use but anyone can use them for themselves.
"You shouldn't identify as [blank] because it might confuse the cis/straights"
Honey with as much kindness as can be conveyed through text, that kinda sounds like the fault of the cis/straight people.
The world is filled with complex people and experiences and we don't actually help anyone by saying it isn't. Its the job of the oppressors to clear up their misunderstandings. Not the job of the marginalized to somehow become... not... themselves.
