while we're emptying the nuclear queer discourse takes magazine:
if your "queer space" doesn't allow cishet men i don't trust you to be normal about and respectful towards (especially pre/early-transition) trans women. some trans women look like men. if you don't let people who look like men in at all, your space is exclusionary towards trans women, and if you don't let them in unless they tell you they're trans women you're forcing girls out of the closet to access safe spaces. stop that
(this also applies to queer spaces where they allow people who look like men but they're Weird About It the whole time you're in there if you do)
















