~Adventures In Wonderland~

not to be all "these two words will change your life" or whatever, but I promise you, programming in "good catch!" as your response to people correcting you/pointing out errors or whatever removes so much friction from interactions, and comes with a delightful happy meal toy of "not hating yourself so much for making mistakes"

I use "I stand corrected" a lot. The mild silliness of the outdated language makes it work for me.

GRABS you by the THROAT. stop using "narcissistic", "slow", "depressed", "bipolar", "schizophrenic" and the literal R slur (i'm not saying it.) etc etc etc as insults. I don't care if you're neurodivergent and doing this you're still an ableist prick

i feel so defensive and protective of people with ARFID like if i had a disorder that made my brain register 90% of food as poison for no reason and i had a bazillion people on the internet constantly calling me a manchild who needs to just grow up and stop being a picky eater i would start killing people

people with ARFID and people with very few autism safe foods and people with contamination OCD and people in ED recovery and everyone else with a complicated relationship with food that no one takes seriously GET BEHIND ME!!!!!!!

started book 2 and its so funny that remy still isnt on first name basis with malekh. you can call him zidan i promise....

I like Bones a lot because the title character is a woman who is often rude, imperious, and socially inept in a way that is off-putting and Not Cute and she is still treated like a valid human being with positive qualities and friends and colleagues who Get her even when she is being extremely annoying. It's not something one sees often.

I bring a real 'actually people who are pregnant do deserve some special consideration because they are effectively at least temporarily disabled if not permanently after some complications' vibe to the party that a lot of people don't seem to like

This is real. Also, I had periods for about a decade pre-transition, and those can be debilitating, too, and should be given special consideration if the person having them experiences things like severe pain, heavy bleeding, issues with things like cysts, extreme nausea or fatigue, etc.

if yuo are, , in my "notifciations," i see you therue. i see you. im watching,. and i love you

hamlet’s “i did love you once” and ophelia’s “indeed, my lord, you did make me believe so” is such an underrated gut punch. it’s betrayal it’s heartbreak it’s vulnerability it’s so over. truly no one is doing it like shakespeare

all vampires are bisexual but aroace and kinky but polyamorous but queerplatonic. you understand

the bite is a metaphor for sex. vampires can't have sex because they're dead. vampires can have sex but the bite is so much better than sex that sex is basically irrelevant. the vampiric understanding of relationships is so complex you mortals cannot comprehend it. yes we are gay keep scrolling