Observant Kitty

The rationalization of ‘I had it worse’ doesn’t make sense.  If something bad happened to you, are you now allowed to do a version of that bad thing to someone else, and you’re right to do it? In that case, anyone in the world who’s been through something bad, would have the ultimate right to inflict that same, or similar thing to anyone else living on earth, yet they don’t. Because they know…

I think people are unaware of this, since not everyone will experience it for themselves, but gaslighting, isn’t always about making you seem crazy. It can be about making you seem imposing or aggressive. I definitely think that many more people have experienced this form of gaslighting than the one that calls you crazy. A lot more people are afraid of being morally evil or wrong, or scary. A…

Once you stop responding to the Ops’ every taunt, every insult, and every verbal abuse along with any other emotionally and mentally manipulative tactics, you become an even bigger threat because now they can no longer figure you out. The tactics they’ve used for years to drain your energy become useless, now they have to think up other ways to try and get under your skin because for the narcs…

Man, I have to work 36 times harder to protect my softie heart cos if I don't, I'm literally gonna die because of heartbreak like seriously. If I walk around 'unguarded', I'm gon be deads in less than a month hahahaha

We need to stop normalizing flakiness. It’s not “ethical” or “upstanding” to be a grown adult who can’t follow through with plans and waste other people’s time. It seems like this generation has completely lost all sense of accountability towards others and then they wonder why their relationships never flourish healthily and why they are so hungry for outside validation and attention all the…

It is easy for people to trust you, and you weaponized that. So disgusting.

“We see faces, we don’t see hearts” has always been one of my favorite quotes because it truly encapsulates the dichotomy of people, and how much we shouldn’t take others as face value when we don’t know what their true motives may be behind an unknown façade. Some religious folks, and I say religious lightly, have absolutely diminished the true essence of spiritually and divinity. Instead of…

Hi, I haven't posted in a while because I had to take a break and retreat from everyone. It's late but, thank you to everyone who came to the event and joined the activities. To my friends, new friends and mutuals, it was brief but I was really happy to meet and chitchat with you all.

I’ve been thinking if I should tell the story of me getting bullied (harassed) by UA teacher and students at the event. People have become too comfortable mistreating me and scapegoating me just because I never retaliate. I could cuss out right now, but, hmmm I better not. Lolz If you’re curious about me,It’s surprising but I m still sane. I had to tend to my own wounds and heal from a lot of…

There’s nothing wrong with receiving compensation for your talents and ideas. Most people (especially women) have been conditioned to feel ashamed for receiving. They have been disconnected to their femininity, which causes them to view receiving as ‘sinful’ ‘scamish’ or ‘impure’. This negative viewpoint denies them the access to attain what they desire and deserve. It’s in a woman’s innate…

And now, I’m being able to walk away from things I know are not life-giving, and have come into my space to harvest my energy, without such deep attachment and suffering.

The more positive light I embody or spread.. through awareness and presence, and being of service to others — especially on social media.. the more I attract these energy vampires disguised as perfectly nice people, but all they do is bring me heartache and divert me from my purpose. Emotions can become such a distraction especially as a highly sensitive person. I’m learning that my mind needs to…

Originality Isn’t Dead, It’s Just… Different

Here’s the thing about the modern internet: every single platform is just eating the leftovers of another platform. Pinterest screenshots on facebook. Tiktok reels reposted on facebook. TikToks on YouTube Shorts. X posts screenshot and plastered everywhere. Somewhere out there is the same joke that has been recycled so many times it’s evolved into a whole new meme ecosystem. And yet, we eat it…

Don't kill the Buzzzzzz. It's not a Trick, it's a Collaboration Magic! Good morning everyone! sprinkles2 ✨✨

Society seems to value genuine people/opinions less and less as time goes on. It’s funny, society has become both more accepting and less accepting as time goes on. More accepting, less tolerant. If you have thoughts and opinions that doesn’t align with the majority, then people who are trying to appeal to the opinions of the majority will not like you because they’ll be threatened by…

The reason why people are so anxious and are getting ahead of themselves is because they have been following external measures. These external measures are cumulative patterns in the collective conscience that decide whether a person reaches a mark of perfection – whether they deserve something or not. This means that since the beginning of humanity, we have been attuned to ideals and behaviors…

Ugh

I received an insight ‘What if I no longer played any roles?’. As I realized this, I felt the weight of my emotional responsibilities diffusing into thin air. We all are so accustomed to projecting people playing different roles, concerning us. We forget that they are individuals in their own right. For one, I would meet myself where I am, as I am, not needing to pretend I’m normal. Respecting,…

The past few days have been filled with lots of talk about conflict. Both internal and external. I guess I'm not the only human that dwells with the complexity of intention and its consequences.

The past few days have been filled with lots of talk about conflict. Both internal and external. I guess I’m not the only human that dwells with the complexity of intention and its consequences. So what exactly is “intention”? Is it the feeling behind the action? Is it the expected result? Is it selfish or selfless? Should it be judged or understood? I guess I’m just a little confused as to how…

Hi, I want to greet everyone a happy new year. I am so grateful to everyone who interacts with my stuff. To everyone who enjoys my stuff. To all the other authors and artists who interact with me on their own blogs. It makes my heart so so warm. I hope that in 2025 you get to take more walks, read more books, connect with more people whom you love and who love you, achieve your goals, even if…

BAM!!!!

BAM!! Gotcha! My friend, Sometimes self-care is very simple: it is about doing the one thing your body needs most: is it eating? sleeping? a shower? watching something funny to laugh? venting? whatever it is, don’t deprive yourself of it. I hope you get all the rest you need. Even if you spent a quieter day and didn’t feel productive, please allow yourself to rest without guilt or shame for…

My birthday feels genuinely momentous and celebratory. The fuck. I must be a hero in my past life. This almost feels like a fantasy holy smokes. Thank you, God. Thank you, team.

Most things in life are not black and white. People can do terrible things and can also have the capacity to love deeply and to be incredibly generous and to even be heroic sometimes. And likewise, people that we think are amazing, can sometimes do terrible things, make horrible mistakes, they’re fallible, they have their fears, have their jealousies, their pettiness…. We all are a blend. And I…