#individuality

Helping your body help you

Celebrating your physical abilities

Getting in touch with your strengths and weaknesses so you can be more well-rounded

Improving to reach your natural potential

Feeling healthy and strong

Fitness is not:

Hating your appearance

Punishing your body

Rejecting your naturally unique self

Conforming to an external standard

Pick a pile: What Opinion Are You Absolutely Not Going To Listen To?

(✨scroll down to the bottom to see overall message after you choose a pile.✨)

Hey guys! Here's today's reading! 😊✨

Pick the pile that calls out to you and your message will be in the comments below. 💜

Also, if my pick-a-piles aren't your thing, that's completely okay! Feel free to scroll on or block me. 😜 I enjoy making these, and plenty of lovely people seem to enjoy them too.

Thank you very much for inspiring today's pick-a-pile though!🩷 😂✨

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📌 Pile 1: "Yeah...I'm Still Doing It."

This pile feels like advice that sounds sensible on paper but completely misses the point. People might be telling you to sit still, calm down, wait your turn, be more realistic, lower your expectations, or stop making things harder for yourself.

The thing is...you're not ignoring them because you're stubborn. You're ignoring them because deep down you know their advice wasn't made for you.

There's a playful energy here.

You're not trying to cause problems. You're just not interested in doing everything by the book. I can see the sun card which makes me feel like the opinion you're ignoring comes from people who think they're protecting you, but in reality they may be projecting their own fears.

📻 Pile 2: "Stop Rushing Me."

The opinion you're absolutely not listening to is: "You should be further along by now."

Nope.

This pile feels like you've got your own rhythm and you're tired of people acting like life is a race. The funny thing is I don't even think you're moving slowly. I think you're moving at a pace that actually works for you.

Other people just keep comparing your timeline to theirs. There's also something about being underestimated here.

People see the snail and assume "slow. Meanwhile you're quietly getting where you need to go.

🧱 Pile 3: "I Didn't Ask."

This pile is blunt. 😂 Damn.

The opinion you're ignoring feels completely unsolicited.

Nobody asked.

Nobody requested it.

Nobody sent out a survey.

Yet somehow somebody appeared with a detailed explanation of what you should be doing. This pile feels like you're protecting your peace more than anything. You're learning that not every opinion deserves equal weight.

I keep seeing a brick wall and it is a little funny because the advice may as well be bouncing off the wall. (Boing!)😂

Not because you're closed-minded.

Because you've already made your decision.

👑 Pile 4: "That Sounds Like A You Problem."

I love this🩷😁

Because the opinion you're ignoring feels oddly specific.

Like somebody looked at your life and decided they knew exactly what was best for you. Meanwhile they're not the one who has to live it.

There's a strong theme of individuality here.

You don't want somebody else's version of success.

You don't want somebody else's personality.

You don't want somebody else's life plan.

YOU WANT YOURS.

Im seeing a lot of spots and Dalmatians!!!

This, dalmatian energy, it's making me think you're perfectly happy being the odd one out if it means staying authentic.

(Also, the song, Live More and Love More - Cat burns. 🎵🎶If there's something you wanna do, just do it. Don't let your head stop your heart from moving.🎶🎵 I'm hearing repeatedly, do check it out if you want!💙)

👉The overall message for all these piles is this:

💙Not every opinion deserves a seat at your table, lovely.

Sometimes people genuinely want to help. Sometimes they're sharing their own fears, preferences, or assumptions and presenting them as facts.

At the end of the day, you're the one who has to live your life, make your choices, and deal with the consequences of those choices, not the people watching from the sidelines.

Listen, reflect, stay open-minded, but don't feel obligated to accept every opinion that comes your way.