How can I (M19) ask my girlfriend (F19) to quit vaping?
So we’ve been going out officially for around a month, but been speaking for a few. Now one of my biggest pet peeves in life is vaping, I can’t stand it. Idk why I feel so strongly about it, but I just hate it. Now I knew getting into the relationship that she vaped a bit. We had a conversation where she was saying how she’s stopped vaping lots since she had laryngitis recently, and only really does it socially. I’ve never really batted an eyelid since she doesn’t ever do it when it’s just us. But she was telling me the other night that normally when she’s been vaping it can give her a sore throat / cough stuff up, and to add to this, we were out with a mate and she was doing it then. For some reason seeing her do it just made me view her so differently - I don’t want this to affect it because she’s so great, and I don’t want to be that controlling person who says what she can and can’t do just because I don’t like it. But the fact that it’s clearly having a bad effect on her health annoys me - it really annoys me that she will continue to do this despite it clearly not being good for her. I’m aware we’ve not been going out long so it’s not my place to say what she can and can’t do, but i really see this going somewhere and I really don’t know how I feel about her carrying on despite it being bad for her. Any help is appreciated.
It's been one month and you want her to quit an addictive substance for you. Bruh, just break up. You date to find out if you like dating a person and it's worth continuing. You've figured out early on that it's not. Don't make this miserable when you could just maturely go your separate ways.
