Kind Of Annoying And Complainy

"Why don't they just visit massage parlours that offer sexual services?"

It's hard to wrap my head around that after hearing those experiences, the "solution" is to pawn off these sexually violent men onto an "acceptable" target.

If a man is aggressive and ignores the consent of a woman who is working in a professional setting with help nearby, what will he do with a woman who can't say no? Why are these women expected to be the shock absorbent for male sexual violence?

They don't hit or choke without asking during sex because they "didn't know" or because "she should have told me she didn't like it" (like she was suppose to predict he would do it? Men aren't mind readers but women are supposed to be psychic?). He did it because he wanted to get away with it and knew she would probably freeze up and let him do it if he took her by surprise.

There are literally tiktoks of men admitting to this: "if ya ever mad at ya girl just smack her or choke her or somethin while you fuckin and say it was supposed to be kinky" ect.

okay but can we talk about how Pikachu has been a TERF sympathizer THIS WHOLE TIME and we just... let him get away with it because he's cute?

y'all really looked at a small yellow creature who refuses to evolve, refuses to be "put in a ball," and refuses to respect boundaries and thought "aww, feminist icon!" NO. that is NOT what is happening here. that is a reduction of what is happening here.

let me break this down because i'm literally shaking.

first of all—the electric type. you know what electricity does? it gates. it creates barriers. it says "you cannot pass." Pikachu's entire move set is about establishing boundaries and defending them with violence. thunderbolt? that's a boundary. thunder wave? that's literally the "you're making me uncomfortable" of pokemon moves.

but here's where it gets DARK.

he won't evolve into Raichu — this is not "trans joy." this is "i am biologically essentialist about what a Pikachu IS." he looked at evolution—at CHANGE—and said "no, actually, i was born perfect and any alteration to my body would be a desecration of God's design." that's not radical acceptance, that's gender critical ideology with a lightning tail.

his relationship with Ash — Ash is clearly a confused child being manipulated by an adult-adjacent electric mouse. "Pika Pika" is not cute, it's dogwhistling. every time he says it, he's testing the waters for who in the vicinity is "gender critical." he's building a community. he's networking.

the Thunder Stone incident — remember when they tried to MAKE him evolve and he literally electrocuted the concept? that was a protest. that was "get your hands off my biology." but make no mistake: this is ONLY acceptable when it's about not changing. the moment someone ELSE wants to evolve, suddenly he's very "protect the children" about it.

the Team Rocket of it all:

Jessie and James are the most gender-nonconforming characters in anime history. they crossdress EVERY EPISODE. they are living their truth. and who is trying to blast them off every single time? who is literally weaponizing electricity to silence transgressive gender performance?

Pikachu.

he doesn't care that they're criminals. he cares that they're confusing the binary. he sees James in a bikini and his little electric brain short-circuits with rage. "PIKA!" he screams, which translates roughly to "biological reality!"

why this matters:

because Nintendo has been quietly platforming this ideology for DECADES. while we were distracted by Jigglypuff's nonbinary energy (valid), Pikachu was becoming the face of "sex-based rights" in the pokemon world. there's literally an episode where he refuses to enter a contest because it's "for girls only" and instead of challenging the binary, he RESPECTS IT and watches from outside like a little yellow guardian of biological reality.

and the WORST part? the other pokemon agree with him. you think Eevee—literal evolution incarnate—feels safe around Pikachu? absolutely not. there's tension there. you can see it in the Smash Bros taunts.

the implications:

if Pikachu—global mascot of the highest-grossing media franchise in human history—can be quietly gender critical for 25+ years while we all buy his plushies and put him on our keys, what ELSE are we missing? is Togepi a SWERF? is Snorlax just "concerned about women's sports"???

We also know we can prime women to perform worse at brain games just by telling them they’ll be measured against men, or that women “typically don’t do as well” even if it’s not true.

Because all women and girls live in sexist societies worldwide, one of the ways we get around this is creating certain learning environments and competitions that are still just for women/girls.

My teacher didn’t apply for grant funding for these programs because she thought girls were stupid.