existential female despair

I keep on seeing this one post floating around talking about how becoming a radfem made them miserable and I wanna be nice but... take the L ladies. Life's so much better when I can put a name to misogyny. Or cutting ties with porn supporting male friends. I'm more will I need to call out things that make me uncomfortable, I'm actually excersising(mostly because the prospect of endometriosis has put the fear of god into me), I'm generally more extroverted... I'd need a control group to prove my theory but being able to call out misogyny just makes everything in life better. The only thing I've lost from being outspokenely a radical feminist is one or two male friends and like... is that even a great lost? Feeling worse just seems like a skill issue here.

in the increasingly conservative-leaning global sociopolitical climate that we live in it's important to remember that "subversive" does not automatically equal "good" or even "better" lest ye become what i like to call a Temporarily Embarrassed Contrarian

more women with short spiky hair plz

Women who depict our oppression as inevitable, natural, and DESIRABLE characterize this depiction as acceptance. They act like it’s a clear-eyed recognition of reality, that they are acquiescing to ancient forces beyond our control. 100% it’s a form of avoidance. Avoiding the brutality of acceptance. It simply makes no sense that accepting that men are stronger than us and have massive webs of power to control us and that they are vicious and sadistic, often, in interpersonal relationships and on a mass scale towards women alike. Would culminate in some freeing passive bliss. It’s just a way for women to cope. They want to pretend like what is happening is okay. Like if you’re abusing substances, it’s easy to lie to yourself that you do so because you recognize how things are and accept who you are. What differentiates addicts in recovery vs active addiction is whether they’re coping by pretending the cruelty of their circumstances gives them access to some unique bliss, or whether they accept they’ve been coping with punitive circumstances via self harm.

this man is unspeakably vile, but I feel like what is being slept on is the other men who showed up to a stranger’s house ready to (supposedly fake) fucking rape her without ever having interacted in any real or meaningful capacity. like i find cnc disgusting and amoral but fundamentally there are couples in the world who do it and there isn’t really much i can do about that, but these are people who have met and interacted in real life and agreed to do this. these men showed up to that woman’s HOUSE never having seen her or heard her voice, going off of fucking tinder messages, which any child can tell you can be easily faked. like they knew that there was a significant chance this was dodgy, they just didn’t care, they wanted plausible deniability to do what they wanted to do anyway.

The guys who do CNC are the same ones capable of this kind of atrocity. There's no world where you're aroused by rape and raping the person you supposedly love while being a respectable person whose suicide wouldn't benefit society. Stop kidding yourselves with this "consent" nonsense who excuses everything; your suffering gives him an erection.

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Interesting how the average person needs to be shown countless studies, surveys and statistics to (maybe) start considering porn as an evil woman-hating industry, like “teen whore gets what she deserves”, “forced oral” or “latina abuse” doesn’t ring any bells

What I cannot understand is these SAME people will call for a show to get cancelled for the slightest misuse of woke language/clumsy attempt at inclusion/a problematic tweet from someone adjacent to the show from 5 years ago, but continue to defend porn.

The P*rn industry is the most racist, misogynistic and everything -phobic thing there is on this world but hey, it helps ppl jerk off, it can’t be more harmful than that tweet that celebrity made 10 years ago.

Men prioritise their orgasm and lie that there is such a thing as ethical porn.

i eat your grandads clothes

Macklemoth

no i dont think women starving themselves and reconstructing their entire faces with makeup and plastic surgery is feminism and female empowerment

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