America has a weird relationship with cults where theyāre terrified of small cults (or organizations they think are cults) but completely normalized massive cults that hurt many more people (eg: LDS Church, Jehovahās Witnesses, the Amish, Scientology, most Megachurches)
To anybody asking if the Amish are a cult, the answer is yes, very much so.
Theyāre a high control group that isolate you from society. The cult decides how you dress, how you behave, who you marry and how. They control what you know, blocking all information from the outside world. They control how you feel and what youāre allowed to think with threats of both social and supernatural harm. Theyāre a cult.
The best method to determine if a group is a cult, in my opinion, is Steven Hassanās (cult expert and former cult member himself) BITE model.
BITE stands for Behavior Control, Information Control, Thought Control, and Emotional Control.
The more points a groupĀ āscoresā on the model, the more of a cult it is.
I think this model is the best one for several reasons:
Itās more nuanced thanĀ ācultā orĀ ānot cultā and doesnāt make false equivalences between groups
Itās versatile, applying to groups big and small, and cults of all kinds, religious, political, financial, etc.
It focuses on whatās important, which is what the cult does to its members, and those membersā experiences, and not on irrelevant details like how uncommon their doctrines are or whether they have a charismatic leader
This is a great example of Thought Control used by cults whenever theyāre confronted with criticism.
#you might notice that there are a lot of similarities between cult techniques and those of abusive partners#and that is an important thing to be aware of
yah that goes in the post
The creator of the BITE Model considers abusive relationships to be two-person cults.
Itās important to note that almost every sect of evangelical christianity in the US today fails the BITE Model.
This was the post that lead to breaking my JW mindset. Been a while since I seen it.
Iām glad I could help in your deconstruction, if only a little bit. I wish you all the luck in your journey moving forward.
And to highlight a key aspect of the ātwo-person cultā dynamic:
Not all high-control groups are religious. Secular cults exist.
Iād strongly recommend reading this brief bio of Janja Lalich. Sheās a deprogramming therapist, but sheās also a cult survivor from a political cult.
high control groups can also form in friend groups and online! any social group can theoretically be a high control enviroment thatās abusive. any group can be a cult if someone uses that group to control and abuse others.

































