Centering the feelings of the partner who was not pregnant in any discussions about abortion is so gross and scummy. So many women have been harmed or killed by male partners that adding ammunition to the fire and treating another personβs abortion like a traumatic event for men is nasty and it has gotten people killed. Iβm going to be honest, if you are crying and shitting and puking and sobbing because your partner decided they wanted to terminate their pregnancy, youβre not ready to be a parent anyway and you need to work on yourself instead of focusing on how hurt you are by your partner or abortion in general.






















