FIREBREAK

The dog:

Mfs seeing a slightly feminine non binary: Yep that's a woman.

It's a lot ik 💔

Its been a very very long path

Doesn't know what LGBTQIA+ is

Knows only what gay and lesbian are and I guess I supported it I never thought about it but I never thought bad about it. Also my "Ew love is disgusting it's like a virus" phase but I didn't know what was aromantic

Started to like a girl (Also the same girl I like now I never stopped) - "Am I lesbian?!" So I guess I was a questioning lesbian

Did some research and came out as Bisexual (But I liked girls more) and I was a proud bisexual for a good 8 months

Did some more research to find out about the other labels and came out as Pansexual :D I actually thought I was set.

A lil bit of questioning if I was trans ftm. Was questioning my gender for a good 1 or 2 months before finally coming out as Gender-fluid :D And was a proud Pansexual Gender-fluid for a good 4 months

Came out as Transmasc (This was actually pretty recent like around April or May)

3 DAYS AFTER COMING OUT AS TRANSMASC I came out as Panromantic Asexual :D

And that's me now :D An EXTREMELY PROUD Panromantic Asexual, Transmasc, and Gender-fluid person (They/Them) :D

Homophobic (yea idk, my childhood was weird as shit and me and little me do NOT align on like anything) > she/her straight + ace > she/her lesbian + ace > she/her pan + ace > she/they pan + ace > she/they/he pan + demiromantic + ace > she/they/he (identified as trigender) abrosexual + demiromantic + ace > she/they/he abrosexual + aroace > they/them lesbian > they/them bi > they/them pan > he/they aroace > he/him abroromantic + aroace > he/they abroromantic + aroace > he/they (with neos) abroromantic + aroace spectrum

:D yea idk a lot of these were weird in-between phases but like… had their time

basically just a lot of questioning if i was bi or not at the beginning

open tags! (who i'm tagging below the cut) :) /nf

Accidentally homophobic bc i didnt know what it was -> she her straight girl -> sher her bi girl -> she her "I can't be asexual I want to kiss someone" girl -> she her "oh people just refuse to separate asexual and aromatic and are misleading because of this" asexual girl -> she her asexual neptunic -> she they "I cant just go they them even tho it feels right theyll think im just doing it for attention" asexaul neptunic kid -> 4 years pass and I forget about the whole gender criss -> she they "wiat people mean it when they sing about love at first sight?!?! People will just go on dates with people from apps not as a joke?!?!" Asexual demiromantic neptunic person -> they them asexual Demi-romantic Neptunic forest creature.

so yeah. Straight and Cis to agenderfluid asexual demineptunic. And im still not completely sure about everything and thats okay

she her straight girl -> sister explains what queerness is -> had a bit where I was mildly transphobic because I didn't understand it -> solid five or six years of this -> hmmm maybe I'm bi? I feel the same for boys and girls -> nah I'm definitely pan -> back and forth on bi and pan for like a solid year -> wait there's this thing called aromantic? -> watched jaiden animation's video (it's a canon event for aroace people) -> immediately went yup that's me! -> hmm I'm probably ace as well but I think I'll just wait until after puberty or whatever -> now that sexuality is out of the way got slammed in the face by the gender crisis -> hmm I don't feel entirely like a girl? she/they aro (I don't think I was using those pronouns publicly at that point but I honestly can't remember) -> I'll try out they them maybe that's right? they/them aro also I think not publicly -> nah I'm genderfluid (I might still have been using she/they tho publicly at school I genuinely don't remember) aro -> ohhhhh any is an option! any/all aro -> nah I'm not genderfluid but any pronouns are still fine aro -> ohhhh I think I'm trans hmmmm he/him internally but still any/all cuz I didn't want to come out aro -> also at some point I went fuck it I'm probably ace but I don't remember when -> hmmm maybe he/they? I don't feel entirely like a boy aroace (still publicly any/all) -> oh I am genderfluid! it's called genderfaun that's so cool! aroace

wow that went better than expected also I should mention I am out to most people now just to clarify

I think I'm also technically genderflux which I figured out at some point but I don't really identify like that so whatever

she/her straight girl -> she/her whoa what the fuck girls are hot girl -> she/her bi girl -> she/they bi girl -> she/they pan girl? -> she/they berrisexual girl -> ohhhh boy. why boy feelings? he/him unsure boy? -> nope nope nope repression repress so hard you forget you have this awakening she/they berrisexual girl -> they/them berrisexual girl -> they/them bi girl -> they/them bi nonbinary with neopronouns -> they/them bi boy questionmark with neopronouns? -> ohhh shit. he/him bi boy -> he/him bi boy with some neopronouns and wow im so much happier! -> wait am I even bi? I haven’t really felt any attraction to girls since my awakening. he/him unsure boy with some neopronouns -> no im def bi he/him boy with some neopronouns. -> he/him bi boy with all neopronouns!!! yay gender is weird.

there was probably other things between these that I just don’t remember too

edit: oh wait this is a tagging game

she her straight/cis as ya do —> “I think I’m 1/3rd gay” she/her bisexual —> she/her lesbian —> she/her bisexual —> she they lesbian (I think???) —> I’m guessing now they she lesbian —> they she bisexual (stuck with this for a while) —> OH FUCK OH FUCK OH FUCK GEMBR —> literally do not remember bc depression got in the way -> they/he bisexual uhhhh demiboy ig??? —> stayed bi for the rest of the time (makes that 7 years now) but went thru different gender labels that I can’t remember —> bi gender-fluid (for the past 3 years) —> bi gender-fluid/genderqueer (pretty sure genderqueer but feels weird to change the term after so long Yk)

Uhhh moots do this if u want love ya

EDIT/ FORGOR PROVERBS SORRY