Bloopers are movie aftercare and it’s fucked up that we got rid of them

#if you read the book thinking about how much Beshelar loves Maia#all the moments when Beshelar is making cranky noises behind Maia become instead#“noo you're to good and kind to have such low self esteem”#and “you did nothing wrong and you have to stop apologizing for existing”#and “chavar hates you so why are you spending time so publicly with his son?”#(but also hashtagJusticeForNurevis) (via @dont-stop-her-now) YES! With a bonus 'noooo stop going places that I haven't secured beforehand where I don't know the sightlines and can't review the list of guests PLEASE Serenity you're going to get ASSASSINATED SERENITY'.

No matter how shitty it might feel in the moment, most of the time when someone comes to you to communicate a boundary or a need or a negative feeling about something you did, it is actually a compliment. They are telling you BECAUSE they care about you and want it to work between you and because they trust you to care to do better. If they didn't care about you, they'd just avoid you. That uncomfortable convo is in fact a declaration of love and trust. Or at least intention of friendship. If they didn't like you, they'd just try to avoid you whenever possible. They wouldn't care to have The Talk (which is often scary and uncomfortable for them also). So try to treat their trust with care, even if it really upsets you to learn that you've accidentally hurt them

today i took the worst photo of a loon one can possibly take while remaining identifiably a loon

man sometimes friendship really is just "I saw this and knew it would give you psychic damage. please respond with agony" and then they do. and it's great

i think fat girls should walk around in crop tops booty shorts buzzcuts dyed hair piercings no bra killing and maiming all who stand in their way with weapons before sitting down for some yummy ice cream and so forth. it's the only way.

american blackbirds are icterids but european blackbirds are thrushes but american robins are thrushes but european robins are flycatchers and they are named robin because (checks notes) brits in the 1400s called them "robert" on account of they are just some familiar guy who shows up in your yard. hold on post canceled is that really why they are called that? what the fuck. they did this with jackdaws and magpies too? i can't even be annoyed. how human. "who's that? that's bob." fuck dude it sure is.

hobbits are kind of like gay uncles

studying history is like. here's to another beautiful day of not being pregnant and of having no obligation to ever be. thank you women who fight for abortion and contraception and independance from men for another beautiful day of not being pregnant and of having no obligation to ever be