so i got it on this vintage chinese fashion site i mentioned before, and i bought this dress and these pants
it's not one singular brand, it's a storefront that aggregates multiple brands with the same vibe, so quality varies across items. it's better to order an item that has detailed reviews, or from a brand that tends to have good reviews, at least (since lots of items have no reviews at all)
my dress is from the brand momo qipao, and i would soooo recommend it. the dress is, in my opinion, absolutely perfect. i wanted a looser fit, cause that's what i find pretty in their more vintage qipaos + i hate it when clothes cling to my hips. in eu sizes, i usually buy XS/S, but here i got an L ; if, like me, you're not straight up and down, and have very different measurements for your hips/waist/bust, i would suggest looking at the size chart carefully, and choosing based on your largest measurement + a couple centimeters if you want to be safe. the material is not stretchy at all, so if it doesn't fit, it might really not fit! i like how the fabric feels to the touch, feels like nice, light cotton. i am no expert seamstress, but it seems very well constructed from what i can tell. i like that it closes with these cute ties, but also little snaps so it sits nicely. i would say it's high quality all around, and looks just it does like the pictures. i would order from this brand again :-)
the pants, less good : the lace isn't super nice, and they're very short. now, that last one is on me, i did get and S and they did say the S were only 75 cm long ; but i've always been short, i've never considered there would be pants too short for me! i have learnt now. not a huge deal anyway, i can wear them lower on the hips and that's fine. but i dont super recommend them anyway. i like the effect of the pants under the dress a lot, but i think they're too expensive for the quality of the fabric
also be warned that shipping is expensive, and i also had to pay extra taxes when it actually got to me, but that will vary based on where you are in the world
sooooo... yay. very happy with my dress, i am endorsing momo qipao. momo qipao, please endorse me back. i'll do anything