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You can tell how disconnected someone is from other people if they by default assume someone does not have an experience unless they volunteer the information to all at all times

I notice this a lot with sexual abuse in particular like do you know how common it is to experience that you have to either be genuinely dumb or trying to intimidate people into silence to expect people to divulge that information to you before talking

I think being literal is a plague in music right now. I don’t really want to hear songs that refer to concepts like “emotional labor” or “narcissism” by name. Step around the issue. Make me feel it from an angle that isn’t purely expository!

Yesterday I heard a song that went (with not as much exaggeration as you would think) "you can get into my car. It's a BMW 350 with a 3.0-liter inline six and optional leather trim and a manual transmission and it can drive on the road or the highway because I have a license to drive my car. you can get into the passenger seat which is where a passenger goes because I want you to get into my car. and we can go to Berlin or Hamburg or Osnabrück or Recklinghausen or Mülheim an der Ruhr in my car. my car is very fast. do you want to be in my car" and then I found out the singer is from New York, and if this was written by someone German it would be kind of understandable because that's just how Germans are, but it wasn't.

i talk about transitioning and all anyone ever says is "I hope you don't regret it" what if instead we said I hope you love it. I hope it's everything you ever wanted. I hope you live the rest of your life in utter bliss. etc etc.

I hope you transition and I hope it's the best thing you ever did and I hope you never look back and I hope you finally feel comfortable in your own skin

Been haunted by a kids interactive exhibit my sister and I went to some 25 years ago. I could remember blurry bits and pieces, even was able to find the museum that housed it. But thanks to reddit I was finally able to find proof that it existed and the name of it and I feel so free now.

i don’t know how incels can even exist… like bro stop calling them foids and get a scuba certification or get really into rock climbing. some woman somewhere will think yeah sure why not i’ll spare some pussy

almost every woman i know is always like “the hottest thing about him is that he has a passion and a hobby in the outdoors” i’m pretty sure a woman would fuck like a ratty 5’6” dude with temple recession and a beer gut if he was a snowboarder. matter of fact i’ve seen it 5 or 6 times. i’m pretty sure y’all are voluntarily involuntary celibates for the e-clout and e-community

Having an actual personality and actual things u like is more “valuable” than any other shit lmfao like come on everyone get ur ass up

literally and like not to say looks don’t matter at all they do physical attraction is a variable but a lot of people who think they’re not dating because they’re ugly are actually just not dating because they’re insecure and don’t set/follow through on goals, don’t develop any of their hobbies or interests over time, don’t try to work on their social game at all. like a good personality does so much that you can be a normal, average or even like a kinda funky looking person and still have a healthy, normal dating life

i don’t know how incels can even exist… like bro stop calling them foids and get a scuba certification or get really into rock climbing. some woman somewhere will think yeah sure why not i’ll spare some pussy

almost every woman i know is always like “the hottest thing about him is that he has a passion and a hobby in the outdoors” i’m pretty sure a woman would fuck like a ratty 5’6” dude with temple recession and a beer gut if he was a snowboarder. matter of fact i’ve seen it 5 or 6 times. i’m pretty sure y’all are voluntarily involuntary celibates for the e-clout and e-community

Having an actual personality and actual things u like is more “valuable” than any other shit lmfao like come on everyone get ur ass up

literally and like not to say looks don’t matter at all they do physical attraction is a variable but a lot of people who think they’re not dating because they’re ugly are actually just not dating because they’re insecure and don’t set/follow through on goals, don’t develop any of their hobbies or interests over time, don’t try to work on their social game at all. like a good personality does so much that you can be a normal, average or even like a kinda funky looking person and still have a healthy, normal dating life

i saw maybe the most devastating picture of reeve carney today and it's changed the trajectory of my life. i made him my discord profile.

get ready....

gosh, he looks as if he'd like to show me some devices!

he looks like someone drew clothes on him in ms paint

he's giving tablecloth from the BBQ joint

Limos are such a stupid status symbol. Like yeah I'm rich. Did you see how long my car

oh my god it hurts

and it's going to hurt forever

Yes? Domestic abusers have significantly higher rates of suicide that than the general public? Mind you, this study was fairly limited because most of the research goes into the suicide rate of victims of domestic violence and not perpetrators and I kept finding studies on suicide in victims, not studies on suicide in perpetrators. Gathering data is probably complicated by the fact a significant portion of these abusers are not interested in identifying themselves and some kill themselves before investigation/conviction.