Oh hey. So this user made this post in response to a comment I left.
Firstly, hereās the post I was responding to:
And here was my response, which prompted this OOPās post here:
āhey so two things. Firstly, if a cis lesbian is correctively raped in an attempt to get her pregnant and 'make her straight', then according to this logic that's just misogyny and not lesbophobia, since just about any cis women can be forcefully impregnated. With this logic, the corrective rape/forced pregnancy lesbian cis women face is not lesbophobia or homophobia, its just misogyny. BC yk, the system doesn't see them as a lesbian, just someone who can and should give birth, right? It's not like in this scenario, she's being explicitly targeted for being a lesbian, right? In this case, calling it lesbophobia would be "but it happened to me because I'm gay which makes it special" which would devalue misogyny, right? Its not a unique oppression if it also happens to cis straight women, right? If you think this is wrong then idk reevaluate your position bc I'm literally just taking your logic to its natural conclusion here. Secondly. I'm sorry, but until the action of getting someone pregnant has the possibility of forcing you to undergo irreversible body changes that potentially result in permanent disability or death, then I just don't think that being forced to impregnate is the same level of harm as being forcefully impregnated. Being forced to impregnate does not inherently have the chance to literally kill you the same way that being impregnated does.ā
And so, in response, OOP made the post above. And also forgot to include this bit here which she left out:
So hereās my response to all that (edited some for clarity/better formatting):
āFirstly, I never claimed thatās how intersectionality works. Secondly, if a trans man is correctively raped because he is attempting to transition to be a man/his aggressor wants to detransition him, and is specifically targeted for his identity, is that not an intersectional experience? A trans man is a man because he is trans, and is trans because he is a man. You canāt separate the two, just like how you canāt separate a lesbian (cis or trans) either from her sexuality or gender, both are at play. Thirdly, considering that trans men have the second highest rates of rape and sexual assault in the community, with AFAB NBs coming in first, higher than trans women and much higher than cis women, Iād say thatās material evidence enough to call it a distinct form of oppression. If it were just misogyny that just targeted people perceived as women, then the rates wouldnāt be as high as they are compared to both trans and cis women. Fourthly, trans men routinely have the worst medical outcomes of the trans community, are the most likely to be denied healthcare (trans related healthcare or not), are the most likely to report experiencing negative issues with health professionals, and are the most likely to avoid medical treatment. Yes, this is also much worse than what cis women experience. This discrepancy cannot be addressed by misogyny or transphobia alone. Fifthly, If you have problems with me in good faith using an analogy to try and describe the flaws in your rationale, then Iām sorry but I donāt think you should be attempting discourse if you canāt handle even basic pushback. Also out of the both of us, Iām the one whoās gay here, not that I even think it matters. What does me bringing up lesbians as an analogy have to do with you personally?ā
And to round it out with my response to the stuff OOP did not list in this post:
āSixley, Youāre the one trying to rank oppressions here, not me. That being said, I just donāt think you understand the scope of things here. Trans men are the second most likely to be targeted by rape and sexual assault, with AFAB nbs coming in first. In addition, Iām not saying that being forced to impregnate isnāt traumatic, it often is extremely so. But you have to understand that like. Yes. Trans women may become suicidal *if* theyāre forced to detransition. But. Trans men, if theyāre impregnated, will *by necessity* be forced to detransition, as you are *required* to stop any and all medical transition while pregnant, along with the medical complications and full body feminization of pregnancy, while additionally suffering from the worst medical treatment outcomes in the community. Trans men are experiencing all that you mentioned trans women experience, but with added dangers. Iām not trying to invalidate how traumatic it can be for trans women to be forced to impregnate someone, but crucially this is a unique form of forced and dangerous detransition that trans women arenāt targeted for, and do not experience to the degree that trans men do. Trans women should both be vocal about how traumatic being forced to inseminate someone is, while respecting trans men when they say that they face a unique form of reproductive oppression. To add on and just make my position clear once more, I never once said that trans women donāt understand reproductive oppression, and I especially never said that theyāre male, youāre putting words in my mouth. By virtue of being trans, all trans people experience it. What I am saying though is just that when it comes to this *one particular instance*, trans men do face this unique injustice more readily and suffer from more dangerous consequences.ā
So yeah thatās it for now. Hereās all the context if you want. Normally Iām not petty enough to do these sorts of long responses, but honestly Iām just tired of this shit being deliberately mischaracterized and misunderstood.