Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
reinstalled shinigami eyes to take a look at the damage and it's so much worse than a year or so ago when i deleted it. virtually every intersex blog i know of regardless of how they feel about tme/tma is marked red unless they are especially vocal about liking it, countless trans men are marked red regardless of whether they are vocally inclusive, most who are marked green are either famous guys or are (somewhat) infamous for their transphobia and exorsexism if not also racism.
Plenty of transphobic cis folks are green. Virtually every trans-positivity account is red except for the ones who are unapologetically transphobic to at least part of the community. Countless trans women who vocally uses the term transandrophobia are marked red. Several trans women who dont even use the term but have at least on one occasion defended or sympathized with trans men are red. Several trans women who are bigender/NB/Etc with inclusion of any "male" or masc terms are red regardless of whether they seem to have anything to say about trans men.
It is BLEAK. I've been trying to remove reds and greens as I assess, but it is really really gross that it was a pretty well-known soft rule a decade plus ago that you didn't mark trans people red at all even if they were shitheads, unless they were actual proud terfs, because the flagging was guaranteed to isolate them from community.
Inability to assess risk and a total aversion to narratives that contradict what you assume to be the case for others is getting people into a lot of trouble.
Shinigami eyes is completely dead and less than useless, but since so many people still seem to trust it, I do not want people to keep getting flagged as violent evil transphobes cause they started identifying as genderqueer.
It had its road bumps when it first came out but it otherwise was a great tool. Of course, it gradually degraded in quality, and I’d personally say the last time it had legitimate viability was circa 2020 or so. In the year of 2026, it’s absolutely unusable.
Closing the death note on a browser extension that lost the plot
for everyone who is new to this topic, is grappling with it, or just wants a good read i highly recommend this article that very eloquently explains the fallibility of the extension.
Not singling you out in particular but because this is like the nth time I've seen this claim, and it's not true, at least in sentiment PER the actual page the extension comes from
"Shinigami eyes: A browser addon that highlights transphobic and trans-friendly social network pages and users with different colors."
"FAQ: Which criteria is used to determine the label?
This extension is focused on anti-trans (including anti-nonbinary) sentiment, of all flavors: radfem/terf, religious, alt-right etc. (although most of the data is about the first group). See the guidelines below for more details."
Where the addon was always ideologically flawed was in the guidelines portion:
"Not enough to mark as anti-trans: Being a conservative, a SWERF, a bad or mediocre ally, ace-phobic, being concerned with "free speech" and giving voice to "both sides".
While I understand that the addon is transphobia-specific and not "for" other bigotries (ie aphobia), the assumption that SWERF does not correlate to radfeminism (it's in the damn name) when radfem IS a mentioned group to begin with is...a problem.
Further, there IS a general dismissal of some of the targeted harassment of trans men/mascs, and at one point the guidelines equate being called "theyfab" with calling someone a "transmed/truscum" and say such action is simply "mean words that are used to communicate perceived problems within the trans community."
Instead of recognizing that one is not a "mean word" but a movement of valuing medical transition as the most important step in transition and THEN punishing trans people who do not adhere to it, and that the other is a slur targeting typically the same people that transmeds do, the two are held as similar behavior--both of which are discouraged from being marked red.
To be marked green, the addon actually specifically states that being trans is not enough, and being green actually requires advocacy.
It's clear that nonbinary people are an afterthought of the addon while seemingly being included in whose targeting "counts."
Intersex people are also an afterthought, or rather--not thought of at all. The inclusion of "AFAB trans woman" as a transphobic dogwhistle is misguided at best, when there are intersex people who use it in good faith to describe their own experiences.
To sum up
it's about being a transphobe or trans ally/advocate, not specifically about trans women or even about transmisogyny alone
There are some fucked things that the creator doesn't think is bad enough for a red
There are some fucked things that the creator thinks DOES warrant red
All of the above generally dissuades trans people from being marked green by default and also really desperately tries to keep trans people from being marked red, as the above issues unaware of the intersex or nonbinary impact still assume a cis speaker ("afab trans woman is something cis women say to mock trans people" etc.) (in-fighting language shouldn't mark someone trans red, apparently even with the use of slurs)
The guidelines are clearly not enforced or enforced well because many of the issues I spoke about are explicitly in violation of the terms
Ironically, the addon references multiple multiple times about assuming good-faith and giving benefit of the doubt. It accounts for imperfect allies, misuse of language without malice, "problematic jokes" or "fail(ing) to take a stance." This explicitly-included grace is absent in much of the discourse.
People are not using the guidelines as their metric at all, and while the guidelines irritate me too, the lie that it was made for trans women and that marking trans men is encouraged is gaining a lot more traction and is yet another issue with all of this
dick makes people mentally ill. dick havers, dick wannabes and dick lovers are all insane. it's like toxoplasmosis, you have compulsive need to defend and push and worship dicks all the time and spead your dick mania to everywhere you go.
this seems rational and grounded in empirical evidence
If you want to support intersex people, stop using the TMA/TME binary.
I’m saying this as an intersex person.
The general consensus (from what I’ve seen) is that TMA means “transmisogyny affected” and TME means “transmisogyny exempt”. At first it sounds like a good binary, but quickly falls apart once you see its flaws.
In usage, TMA refers exclusively to transfeminine or “AMAB” people. It does not acknowledge the transmisogyny faced by those who would be exempt from it.
For example, a gender-nonforming cis woman would face transmisogyny for looking like a transgender woman. Would she still be TME, despite being a target?
An intersex man would be considered TME, but if he goes through an estrogenising puberty that makes him look feminine and become a target of transmisogyny, would he become TMA or stay TME?
Is a non-binary person TME or TMA? I know it depends on their assigned gender at birth, which makes the whole point of this flawed system completely moot.
And ignoring all those said flaws, what is the point of inventing entirely new binaries just to show who is “exempt” from bigotry, when everyone can face it one way or another?
What about the entire intersex community, who can’t neatly fit into every single binary you make? What about those who can’t be categorised as “TME”, nor “TMA”?
It is simply intersexist in almost every way. There is no point of showing who can be and can’t be affected by transmisogyny when you refuse to acknowledge the millions of people who don’t neatly fit in a binary.
And if your first thought is some form of “I don’t care” or “they’re TME by default” then you are the problem. This sort of binary is actively harming the community and only putting everybody in a divide.
Stop making useless binaries and actually focus on the real problems that plague the world!
Focus on the transgender men who are being silenced because of their assigned sex at birth!
Focus on the intersex babies being forcibly mutilated before they can even crawl!
Focus on the transgender people facing execution, possibly being stoned or flogged for the mere act of being transgender!
Focus on SOMETHING ELSE! Do a change in the world! Advocate for your community! Protest transphobic laws, regulations and policies!
Stop focusing on the West where you are (rightly) valued and help the people who are being actively kicked out of their homes, killed, and mutilated against their will for being queer!
And most importantly, stop referring to yourself as “TME” or “TMA”. It helps no one and only signals to the wrong people. It actively divides the community and harms everybody.
My own country has me banned from a normal life for being queer. I face a potential death penalty for being gay. I won’t even be able to go on Hajj if anyone finds out I’m transgender. I won’t even be able to practice my culture!
I am forced to stay in a shell that isn’t mine.
And I’m supposed to care about being “TME” and respecting every single order from radfems who live on the opposite side of the globe, who have never faced the possibility of being murdered by their own parents.
I am supposed to respect the same people who hate my mere existence, who want me dead for the mistake of being a man, while my parents actively talk about the “disease” that is queerness and how they want to protect me from it.
I am supposed to shut my mouth and let the people who mutter “theyfab”, “transandrobro”, and every single other slur under the sun at me speak for the entire community.
While my own people are ACTIVELY being shunned out of society for acting gay. For crossdressing. For having a face that looks even slightly feminine.
While my own people are being forced to “get fixed”. To undergo genital surgery for being intersex. While they are being actively murdered for having ambiguous genitalia.
And you care about me not being your model view of a good trans man?
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
I really really really need tumblr users to stop being transmisogynistic like years ago. I keep seeing posts along the lines of "I don't trust any trans women or anyone who calls themselves a transfeminist atp bc of xyz" and I have gotten several asks atp along the lines of "omg I can't believe you're a amab trans woman who actually supports afabs trans men, enbies, and intersex people!!!"
I cannot stress this enough- this is transmisogynistic and I am tired of seeing it. I see too many people using asab terminology when it comes to trans people and also trying to like. Figure out my asab when I have already said I am asabless???? I just delete those asks but I really am tired of it. Be normal about trans women. Trans women are not the enemies of trans men. It is a small handful of hateful people spreading bad rhetoric. If you don't trust people who have trans woman/transfem/transfeminist in bio, then please put down the phone, touch grass, and actually talk to trans women. Preferable ones irl. Stop making "jokes" about how trans women are sexually immoral, stop searching TME or TMA on the blogs of only trans women but not doing the same for literally anyone else, stop calling "transfeminist/transfeminism" transandrophobic dogwhistles, and for the love of God just don't be transmisogynistic!!! It is really really easy to just. Not be a transmisogynist???
Also I barely say this on any of my other posts but don't derail this post please. This is about trans women and transmisogyny. Because I am a trans woman and I care about transmisogyny. Thank you.
Fuck it, shout out to people who take longer to do things or have to do stuff slower than the average person.
Shout out to people who need extra time on tests.
Shout out to people who take longer to internalize information.
Shout out to people who take longer to talk.
Shout out to people who walk slowly, or take longer to get from one place to another.
Shout out to people who take longer to form connections with others.
Shout out to people who write slowly.
Shout out to people who read slowly.
Shout out to people who need extra time to rest between activities.
Shout out to people who can only do so much in a day.
Shout out to people with low dexterity that makes them do things slower.
Shout out to people who in some way have been deemed “slow”.
I see you, I hear you, and I will gladly wait for you if you want me to. I see effort you put in. I’m sorry that you have to be rushed so much. I hope that you can have the time you need, and that you get a support system that understands. You deserve to be able to exist at your pace.
And to the rest of yall, please for the love of fuck be patient. We are doing our best. We are going as fast as we can.
I do think it's ridiculous how often people forget that a woman or even girl saying "I don't want to get married or have kids" isn't just something to be shamed or mocked in a lot of places, it's something that is met with violence.
There are so many people, mainly women and people perceived as women, who don't habe a choice about getting married or having children and who will suffer horifically from the people around them for not wanting that life. Being aspec or trans or anything else does not save those people from things like forced marriage, rape, and forced pregnancy, especially when the people around them only see their value in their ability to marry, to have children, to do what is expected no matter the mental or physical cost to them.
the worst part of summer is that people get sooo comfortable expressing their disgust at having to see other people’s bodies. they’re always complaining about wrinkly old men at the nude hot springs or fat women in bikinis at the beach. I hate that shit. if you’re not capable of being normal about bodies you personally don’t find attractive, just turn your head to look at something else! and if you’re not smart enough to do that, then at least do the rest of us the courtesy of suffering in silence, because we don’t wanna hear your weird comments. thanks.
see this is exactly what I'm talking about. this labour is so incredibly invisibilised that there are real human beings, walking about amongst us, leading normal lives, etc., who earnestly believe that machines can make an item of clothing from start to finish.
Hey just in case someone on here doesn’t quite understand how labor intensive making a garment is, here is a list of things that (to the best of my knowledge) cannot be done by machine alone, from a costumer/tailor in training
Cutting - in my opinion, the most labor intensive part of the process. The amount of time/effort needed varies depending on the pattern and if seam allowance is included or marked separately, but no matter what this process can not be done by machine. Each and every panel and piece of fabric that goes into a garment must be cut by hand by a person.
Pinning/clipping - pinning (or clipping) is the stage at which you align the pieces you are going to be stitching together and hold them together with — you guessed it! — either pins or clips. This can not be done by machine.
Stitching - the actual sewing. This can be done by a sewing machine, but that machine still needs to be operated by a human being.
Ironing/pressing - two words that mean the same thing. The iron itself is a machine, but once again, it needs to be operated by a human being.
Finishing - depending on the technique you use, there are certain finishing techniques that can only be done by hand. But, let’s assume we’re talking about fast fashion, which is usually just finished with a simple overlock/serger. Once again: these machines need to be operated by people.
These are just the basic steps to making a garment, and don’t include textile arts that I am not as knowledgeable about, such as weaving, knitting, and crochet. Also, it is important to note that there are a lot of things that can only be done by hand, such as certain stitches and decorative techniques.
Also, the machinery being operated in textile factories is not equivalent to a domestic sewing machine. We’re talking about one of these guys:
See that gray cylinder under the table, behind the knee pedal? That’s the motor. These machines can sew through your fingers bones and all and not even stop. The people in these factories and sweatshops are operating heavy machinery, and are subject to all the risk that comes with that in addition to all of the work I mentioned above.
Please respect textile workers and continue the fight to eliminate the use of sweatshops and exploited labor in the fashion industry!
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
i think this captures the defining pathology of the collective social media psyche right now. we are in the thrall of people who are wantonly cruel but who also demand to be coddled at all times in every way
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
A sick wizard castle with a nondescript van painted on the side. A gothy pin-up girl with the portrait of a random trucker tattooed on her thigh. A bathroom-themed beach vacation. A beautiful brightly coloured cupcake that tastes like soap.
Jesus with a portrait of my grandma on his wall. A scimitar-wielding fantasy protagonist reading about the adventures of sixth-grader Kelsey. A National Park with a framed print of somebody’s living room.
I'm not religious in any christian way but the thought of Biblical Jesus having a whole gallery wall of pictures of every single grandma with a jesus on her wall is cute.
turnnoffyourmind
pixelskylines
origamiaround
tangentwithtanner
dailybridgerton
gummygunk
areudirty
snowghoul
janainaart
vaporwave
