I Could Be A Leading Man

at some point The Character stops being a character and starts being a close personal friend

My personal friend Armand De Manipulator ♡

there should be coming of age stories for people turning 30

aftercare but for your job

i’m not gonna lie the erasure of transmasculinity everywhere i turn is really starting to get to me lads. multiple characters that are either gnc or outright trans in their source material are being hyper feminized in their television adaptations. a cis lesbian lgbt historian’s video comes across my path and in it she asserts clearly that stormé delevarie is a cis woman, the comments all agreeing on what a wonderful womanly woman she was, no one does it like women do. another video someone with nearly two million followers posts a video essentially saying trans men don’t experience discrimination compared to trans women. it gets tens of thousands of likes. a video of a cis woman in support of trans people next, all the comments talking about how trans women must be women because they are oppressed like women are, i wonder what that makes me to them. two trans men dead this last month. another two trans men with their teeth broken from hate crime assault this week. one of them in a trans sanctuary state, in broad daylight, screaming out for help and everyone around him looks away. looking away. everybody is looking away. we are the thing in the corner of their eye that they would rather not see and what crime did we commit to be treated this way? are we truly seen as so pitifully grotesque for our harmless aberration from the female sex that it feels natural to pretend we are not there? that we were never there? i’m terrified. i’m terrified by what is going to happen to us in the silence. i wish i wasn’t.

cis women you gotta be more self aware at how obvious your disgust with trans men is sometimes. like I dont think you realize how blatant you very often are while still thinking yourself an ally

a trans man adding to your post about feminism and misogyny with his own experiences is not mansplaining to you. if your reaction to a trans man relating to you and comparing his similar experience is for you to be like "this is actually about women. women only zone" despite trans men living most of our lives as women and continuing to experience misogyny AND transphobia after transitioning, the message is very clear. you dont care about our lives, you dont care about us, you probably dont truly trust or like any trans person, and you aren't worth trusting