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last summer my friend who is an amazingly talented artist and i were in this super tall building, and she’s in a wheelchair and i’m pushing her around the room. it’s an art exhibit and some of her art was chosen to be showcased there and so it’s all fine and dandy until suddenly an alarm starts going off

a FIRE ALARM

everyone starts running for the stairs and my friend just looks at me with this forlorn look on her face

“i can’t go down the stairs”

but i’m a stubborn bitch “i’ll carry you”

“what about my chair? it’s too expensive for me to be able to get another one if i can’t get this one back”

“i’ll carry that too”

and i did. we went to the stairs (by then most people from our floor were gone) and i lifted her up in a fireman’s carry over my shoulder and then lifted her chair up and used the ridiculous amount of adrenaline that was coursing through my veins to make it down approximately 20 half-flights of stairs until we met some people exiting lower floors, one of which who kindly took the chair. I changed positions so i was holding my friend bridal-style which was, somehow, easier and the person who took her wheelchair (with her permission to handle it of course) accompanied me to the ground floor and then out the doors

basically there is no real protocol for people who can’t use the stairs in an emergency. it’s up to the people with them, if anyone, to help them or the person to somehow make it down the stairs alone, unassisted

thank fuck that it was just a faulty alarm system, because if i was unable to carry her down those stairs and the building was on fucking fire???? then i don’t know what would have happened to her, but i don’t think it would have been very good.

the fire marshal hemmed and hawed for a while and then said to take the elevator- you’re supposed to leave it free for the fire department to use and they want able-bodied people out fast not waiting for elevators. if the fire alarm has just gone off the building probably hasn’t suffered enough structural damage to make using the elevator dangerous, and modern elevator wells are heavily reinforced. many large and high-trafficked buildings on my campus have fire rated elevators that link in with the fire alarm system so they won’t let you off on a floor with a possible fire. 

if the elevator isn’t working, wait in the stairwell and call the fire department to let them know where you are. modern stairwells are also heavily reinforced- it might not be pleasant but modern building code usually requires fire-resistant stairwell doors in office and big residential buildings, also to help firefighters get in and out safely. older buildings’ stairwells may or may not be retrofitted with fire-resistant doors but a stairwell is generally the safest place to wait if you can’t get out. 

Understand that once you enter the elevator, you could POTENTIALLY be taking your life into your hands there.

It is NOT LIKELY, to be perfectly honest. It’s only in a pretty catastrophic scenario - think the Twin Towers, USA, on September 11th - that the elevators will be compromised and out of service. But there is a NOT ZERO PERCENT CHANCE and you need to understand that and accept it.

As for leaving the elevators free for the firefighters, okay, here’s the deal. Unless your nearest fire station is literally right next door? Your first on scene fire truck is NOT likely to be there on scene and needing that elevator before you get to the ground. It takes us TIME to find the address, gear up, and drive to the building. Then we need to hoof it into where the elevators even ARE, so YOU HAVE TIME to use the elevator to get down to the ground floor... BUT ONLY IF THERE’S NOT A RUSH ON THE ELEVATOR! And THAT is WHY we don’t tell people this shit. That’s WHY we tell people to NEVER USE THE ELEVATOR... because every self-entitled asshole will use it because they don’t feel like walking, and then put YOU in danger by delaying the elevator’s arrival to you.

IF, however, the elevator IS compromised, or you just can’t get it to come for you, or whatever, and you either don’t have anyone with you who has the adrenaline fueled BALLS to be able to toss you over their shoulder and hoof it down the stairs with you - because, let’s face it, that is RARE AS FUCK, then HERE IS WHAT YOU DO:

You call 911 and tell the call taker that you are in the building that has a fire alarm going off, and you are not able to evacuate because of a physical disability, and you tell them what floor you are on, and EXACTLY what stairwell you are waiting at. And the very FIRST thing that the firefighters are going to do once they arrive, if it is, indeed, a REAL emergency, and not a false alarm, is come get your ass and bring you down. Whether that means carrying you down the stairs, or whether that means locking out the elevators so that no one else can override them and coming to get you themselves, they WILL come get you FIRST THING if it is a real event. And if it is a false alarm? You will probably be the first person who is not involved with the building to know, because the call-taker is going to stay on the line with you until you are under someone’s care and out of danger, or until the scene has been sorted out as real or false, and you are out of danger that way.

These are pretty standard operations in the fire service throughout the United States. There may be some minor variations based on specific municipalities, but, for the most part, this is pretty typical: LIFE BEFORE PROPERTY. So, as long as SOMEONE knows where you are - hence why you call 911 - Firefighters will come get you. You are NOT alone, and you have NOT been abandoned. I PROMISE. It’s like, our whole reason for doing the shit we do: to save lives and to break shit. Sometimes, we get lucky enough to do both at the same time.

High rise fires suck ass, and I always hated them. But the very FIRST thing I asked anytime we got one was if we had “any entrapments” - which is what we call anyone who could not self-evacuate for ANY reason. We ain’t leaving you behind. And yes, your friend who doesn’t have the stamina to carry you down can stay with you, too. Because I would never ask that of someone, honestly. 

If disabled and the fire alarm is just happened, you're allowed to take the elevators down but there's a small possibility you could get stuck if the elevators are compromised.

If you can't use the elevators or don't want that risk, go to the stairwell which is reinforced against fire, close the doors, and call 911 to let them know you are in that particular stairwell and can't get down.

Fire will strongly prioritize finding and rescuing people who might be still in the building during any actual structure fire. This is a major component of their job.

Replying to this post because OP and have mutually blocked one another but I'm gonna weigh in because oh my god fuck off.

@a-simple-gremlin said "there has to be some middle ground between banning porn and requiring IDs" good news! There is already middle ground. See these?

This is your "some kind of middle ground". It already fucking exists. "Nobody under 13 is allowed to sign up" is also your "some kind of middle ground". These things already fucking exist. "Well people lie" PEOPLE ARE GOING TO LIE. That's reality! Kids get fake IDs! You think you're gonna be able to 100% stop that EVER? You can't! People are gonna be people, they're gonna lie and cheat and ignore the signs, that's just gonna happen and it's ludicrous to say that someone posting a "no minors please" sign and blocking the entrance until you say you're an adult is at fault. They took reasonable precautions, but you have to accept that people lie to get places they shouldn't be. That is also a life lesson for kids! That's part of the "learning to be an independent person responsible for the consequences of their own decisions" process. Not that an Evangelical Christian would know anything about that.

The outside world--which includes the internet--is not responsible for your fucking child! The outside world is for EVERYONE. YOU are responsible for your child. If you don't want them to ever see sex EVER then you are free to not allow them a phone or a computer or a tablet until whatever age you think they can handle it. YOU do the work to abuse them into that, don't outsource it to everyone else because other people are not responsible for your kids. Some of us even think kids should be taught about their bodies and about what sex is early on because we listen to scientists and experts, like @moniquill, who have degrees in child psychology and years and years of knowledge and experience as to how to help children. YOU are just a fucking uneducated Christian prude spewing misinformation and censorship and advocating child abuse. You are not an expert in anything.

I have experience enough to say that the real solution is to make parts of the internet that are specifically for kids. These used to exist! Club Penguin, Barbie.com, and other sites used to just be places kids could play games and have fun without being advertised to and that did ban adult content. But these were specific locations, like playgrounds in the real world, that were for kids, designed by adults that cared about and knew child development. And they weren't social media, and they weren't chatrooms, they were completely non-social because it was expected that you were socialising irl. You were going over to your friend's house to play games, or something. The problem is that these things no longer exist, because they're not PROFITABLE. And the laws that forced them to exist no longer do (thanks Obama--no really, he appointed a head of the FCC that axed the Children's Brodcasting rules that forced companies to NOT ADVERTISE TO CHILDREN).

Web 2.0 meant that the internet became a fucking shopping mall, not a social space; that was bad and laws have continued to not catch up with it. And it seems like that doesn't have anything to do with the problem, but it does.

Children shouldn't be signing up for accounts anywhere until they are 13 years old without their parents' permission. And in fact, a LOT of kids whose parents don't let them on social media are on pinterest. That is a site that has become de facto the "kids social media" site. And that's terrible because pinterest is not built to do that!

The solution is not "force everyone everywhere to be puritanical and rated G" the solution is "make more spaces online that are specifically and thoughtfully built to be non-commercial, moderated, social places for children to play". Just like the solution to children playing in the street isn't to stop children from playing outside, nor is it to stop adults from using the street for vehicles, but to build a fucking playground.