Queer Fatigue

abandon shame. theres more interesting emotions to be felt

unless its getting you off. in that case keep going

u guys omfg can we try feminism again. can we breathe life back into feminism's wounded and perishing body like OMFG she's dying...

Another reason why trains would be good is that most people are not good at driving

disabled people are often in permacrisis

there's never enough money each month. there's always an unexpected illness. new symptoms pop up or old symptoms flare up. meds have to be managed always and refilled constantly and any refill has the opportunity to go wrong. any regular care has the opportunity to go wrong. any mistake can send your health spiralling. it's always "i just need to get through this bad patch" but as soon as one ends another begins. another crisis begins in the middle of the last crisis. managing one thing leaves another thing to be neglected until that becomes a major issue and has to be managed asap and the cycle starts anew over and over and over

LOVE season 5 part 2 so far. Kozlowski and Arthur really were just fuck-it-we-balling before Amelia showed up

for folks who have old HP books still laying around, i think paper-making could be a fun way of both destroying them and turning them into something beautiful (paper you can make transgender art on)

when. when there's a female character with something deeply wrong with her. just an absolute freak of a sad creepy wet failwoman with manpain. i experience an intravenous unadultered shot of put HER in the pringles can #FEMINISM

My most socially disabling Too Woke thing is noticing how men won't get the fuck out of your way. Like it doesn't even occur to them that they can move out of your fucking way. I need to start letting them just walk directly into me and pushing their chairs so I can quite literally sit at the table etc. This isn't a metaphor I had that second one happen the other day

I will be at the function where everyone's sitting in a circle and there will be a man sitting directly in front of me for no fucking reason so I'm literally physically kind of pushed off to the side. And I'm expected to not start killing them about it

everyone needs to get weirder, yes, but also get kinder. get more supportive. get more loving. be good to your fellow fans, especially the creatives who give you art and gifs and fics and fancams and and and. treat each other well because on tunglr dot hell, we are all neighbors. and neighbors look out for each other

If you're gonna post salacious selfies of your huge boobs in the booklr tag...I actually 1000% support you, and I think you should keep doing it. but please make it book related in some way. Have books in the background. Use a book as a titty shelf. Squish a book sideways between your boobs so only the spine is showing. Anything. Your body is beautiful, just throw a book in there if you're gonna post in the booklr tag.