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there have never been enough jews in the history of the world, there are not enough resources, there is not enough time for it to be even remotely possible that we do unto you what you have done to us

secondly:

and what if we did? would it not by your own estimation be justified?

thirdly:

this only comes to your mind because if this happened to YOU, then YOU would want to take exact revenge. we aren’t like you. we want to live. all we have ever wanted is to live and be free to determine our own futures. we want independence, self-determination, and peace.

we are not like you. and even if we took revenge in some impossibly small and limited capacity, it would never be enough. i don’t know that enough suffering has ever existed for you to be punished for what you’ve done to us.

I had a discussion with someone there about the rise obbigoted sentiment online. I mentioned something about how racism and antisemitism are increasing.

She went on a rant about how she believes Israel is using bots to manufacture antisemitism so they seem like victims. When I tried to tell her that's she started talking about, i kid you not, jews killing babies. None of the moderators (adult trans people) stepped in.

It's my 4th year of being out as trans, and I was thinking of going to pride this year for the first time.

I don't think i'm going to pride this year.

He's correct. This is excellent.

He is casting spell of car repair on it, I think.

And now it just needs a plate!

Other options are LONNNG and LOMMMG.

I’m not polyamorous, but I am a part of the LGBTQ+ community. I used to think polyamory wasn’t lgbtq+. But I was wrong. Here are some things you might not know.

In many companies, you’ll find pride initiatives and they’ll welcome people from across the spectrum.

But if they find out a married employee has another SO, even if it’s an open polyamorous relationship, they can fire that employee. Even companies with non-discriminatory policies.

Can you imagine coming out to a family that accepts you for being bi/gay/ whatever, but won’t accept that you’re polyamorous?

Can you imagine seeking a community and being shunned by the people who preach acceptance?

Can you imagine being shunned by people in every community?

Can you imagine everyone assuming you just want sex rather than a fulfilling relationship with more than one person?

Can you imagine not being able to date your partner without someone assuming you’re cheating? And them assigning you a moral failing that you didn’t earn?

Poly is like a sexuality, to my limited knowledge. For instance, I couldn’t choose to be poly because i’m just not. But you don’t choose who you fall in love with. And some people fall in love more than once.

If anyone is ever training you to replace them in a position and tells you 'its an easy job I don't do much' what this means is that you are about to spend six months to a year catching up on all the stuff they didn't do and sorting out the stuff they did poorly.

Showing off the Arapaima I made! (Pattern also made by me)

They all act like the West Bank is part of Israel, while simultaneously being viewed as occupied foreign territory.

... I can't quite express how stupid this is. Citizens of foreign countries have never gotten citizenship rights in ANY country across the planet. Not one. Why would citizens of the West Bank be granted the rights of an Israeli citizen??? They aren't Israeli citizens. Part of the West Bank being occupied by Israel doesn't change that.

That changed with Operation Cast Lead. I had no idea what it was called at the time. I was checked out completely. I was starting my PhD, and had no idea that there was anything happening in Israel. If it was mentioned, I just kind of glazed over and forgot about it. I was American, what did I care?

But the people around me in academia? They knew.  They cared. They saw my posts on Facebook spending time with a cousin who lived there; a trip to Tel Aviv five years ago.

This was all it took.

I was asked by other students about Israel, where I stood on it, what I thought. These questions carried an air of accusation that puzzled me. When I said I do not know, and I do not care, the questions became more pointed, more hostile. Was I a Zionist?

What is a Zionist, I asked.

I did not know. I heard the term only in circumstances of it being in the title of Jewish organizations mentioned in temple conversations. I wasn't there for that, though, I wanted a second helping of kugel and the ladies gossiping at the post-services buffet were in the way.

My ignorance and nearly complete disinterest in Israel did not matter. I was tied to Israel whether I liked it or not. My dark eyes, tan skin, long dark curly hair, Mediterranean features, my Jewish husband  who wore a kippah to fancy occasions... inquiring minds needed to know, was a good Jew or a bad Jew?

It was a game, and I did not know the rules. Tails they win, heads I lose. I quickly learned that unless I verbally prostrated myself and proclaimed the most violent of antisemitic terrorists had a point, I had to answer for Israel. Even if I did that, I would still have to answer for Israel.

Israel did not make me a Zionist. My Judaism did not make me a Zionist. Antizionists, who have always been antisemitic, always been hostile, made me a Zionist. Because I was not allowed to be anything but that, not if I wanted to have any respect for myself.