"TME boydyke girlfag genderfuck thing just calling themselves that cause they think it's FUN 🙄" yup, I do think it's fun, I think gender is a fun thing to play around with and explore, it's a form of art to me, and I think it's fun that my gender happens to be multigender and weird and genderqueer in all the ways that it is. I think it's a beautiful thing about myself, just like all trans people deserve to have fun with their genders and have fun exploring their genders and see beauty in their transitions and trans identities.
You know what makes it not fun?
Not being allowed to identify as my true, whole self in the world.
Being forced to put myself in one of several boxes that don't actually apply to me, because forms never have options beyond "trans man", "trans woman", and "non-binary" (there is no way to be a non-binary trans man or non-binary trans woman or a non-binary trans man who is also a woman or a non-binary trans woman who is also a man or if you're xenogender in any way or).
Being forced to use only one set of pronouns that don't actually fit at all times, because my pronoun situation is too complex of an option (I use they/them exclusively, unless the person knows what pronouns I like in that moment).
There are no options for a non-binary trans manwoman/womanman whose pronouns change at any given moment. When I do see doctors, I am forced to identify exclusively as non-binary, because the only thing worse than erasing the "man" and "woman" parts of my identity, is being exclusively put in the "man" box or the "woman" box, so being put in the "neither" box is LITERALLY the "most comfortable option" I'm forced to identify myself as outwardly in the world in spaces that are trans-accepting (or barely "trans-accepting").
I can't even make friends with most other trans people BECAUSE my very identity isn't accepted by the community at large. And if the Queer community can't even understand the concept of a lesbian man, of a manwoman/womanman, you think someone outside of the Queer community will? Very unlikely! Some people, regardless of whether they're Queer or not, are absolutely willing to be open to the idea, but for the most part, not really, and it takes having to explain a billion things that are frankly fucking exhausting - MY ENTIRE EXISTENCE IS HAVING TO EXPLAIN AND EXPLAIN AND EXPLAIN AND EXPLAIN TO PEOPLE what my gender is, my sexuality, and justify why I'm allowed to call myself these things.
I'm just a "transtrender" identifying this way "for fun".
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