It's just very important to me that you know prairie-style gardens exist.
Ok. Thank you. Carry on.
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It's just very important to me that you know prairie-style gardens exist.
Ok. Thank you. Carry on.

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someone keeps arguing with me on a post where I described the state of being a child as functionally disabling (in the context of human rights) and they keep trying to make ridiculous comparisons that no one would ever believe like “you would never say that women are disabled!” yeah obviously no one would ever argue that women are inherently physically and cognitively unfit for human rights or autonomy. no one would ever say that. it’s so fortunate that we live in a world where no one believes that.
Except, you know, when you do. Say for instance if you are not able to open a bank account or own property or get a job or go to school or wear pants or go out into public alone or or or or or or…
also their other comparison was “you wouldn’t say being gay is like being disabled!” and you’re right I wouldn’t but this was a mainstream sentiment in the US within living memory and people got institutionalized and lobotomized and forcibly sterilized for it so like.
and then you look at medical racism and phrenology and it starts looking more and more like all this shit’s more closely related than you’d imagine
So kids are an interesting case because by virtue of being non-adults, their rights are often sharply curtailed. They're restricted in what they can do, often severely restricted. Which is a big problem, because the people responsible for them often either don't have their best interests in mind or have Very Different Ideas about what the kid's best interests are.
sure, and legally on paper being a child looks pretty much exactly like being disabled enough that you're considered to "need" a conservatorship, or being declared "legally incompetent." that's a huge reason why "presume competence" is the rallying cry of a lot of people with disabilities, particularly those with intellectual/developmental disabilities and those with high support needs. similarly the concept of "dignity of risk" exists to argue that autonomy should be prioritized even in cases where society decides someone's decisionmaking process may be "impaired" somehow.
Ok here's a tangent, but bear with me.
Imagine you're dropped suddenly into an unfamiliar landscape, stark naked. Take a minute to think of everything you would wish you had in that situation. Clothes, a blanket, a way of contacting someone you knew? A knife, a fishing net, a fire starter, knowledge of local plants and animals? Prepared food? Glasses, shoes? Medications? All of those things are assistive technologies. They are tools that help you survive and thrive in the world, in ways you would struggle with alone and naked. Some are physical technologies, some are social technologies, some are things you could make for yourself and some are not - but all of them are things you rely on to get by.
As a society we've set an expectation about the set of assistive technologies it is "normal" to need. The fact of needing these things is glossed over, unexamined.
Disability is defined by being unable to perform key functions of your own life or participation in society - but it is defined this way in the context of assumptions about assistive technology access.
Some disabilities can be near-completely ameliorated by specific assistive devices (like glasses.) For others, the assistive technology needed includes more complex social support technologies. But broadly, an approach is possible that says, what would you need, in order to live your life fully? Does it exist, and if not, can we create it? Assistive technologies are by no means a solved problem, but the outlook is to improve life and capacity as much as possible by exploring support options. Anyone who has an unmet need can be benefited by this approach - a total expansion of social support.
In practice, what we mostly see is the inverse of that. The normal level of social support becomes a benchmark. Medicalization of disability often says, "what would it take to make you into someone who only needed 'normal' levels of support?"
Worse, the normal level of social support becomes a reward. A reward for what? Why, for being able to function in society without any more support than that! If you can't accomplish that, do you even deserve this much support? Key pieces of social technology for living in the world are withheld from some people - on the basis of their supposed unfitness to be fully independent members of society. This is what's discussed above - in the context of women being barred from property ownership or independent bank accounts, children being barred from decision making about almost every aspect of their lives, and disabled adults deemed "legally incompetent" facing both.
Lacking access to technologies that would make you able to participate in the physical and social world is disabling. Disability is a status of lacking what you need to function, which can arrise from many causes. Health can be disabling. Poverty can be disabling. Abusive relationships can be disabling. Criminalization and discriminated legal status can be disabling.
Very often, the people withholding key social technologies make the argument that they are withheld *because* you lack capacity - deflecting the impacts of what is withheld ON your capacity and re-naturalizing the source of the problem as inherent to you. This can be done to anyone, by anyone with enough social power over them. The fact that it often occurs to people who are Also struggling because of other unmet needs that would be unmet even if they did receive the full allocation of "normal" support, should not obscure that both of these dynamics are rooted in denial of needed support and blame for needing support at all.
It is because of this deflection that I think disability analysis can't afford to center on what disabilities are "inherent" to a person, versus situational due to discrimination and lack of resources. I don't think those are seperable factors, and even if they were I wouldn't trust people to seperate them accurately, due to the nature of discrimination itself.
Likewise, I think it's crucial to challenge the unexamined status of what is a "normal" level of assistive technology to have access to - including examining things like "autonomy" and "being taken seriously" AS assistive technologies - in the sense that they are social technologies that critically impair quality of life if denied. Perhaps if people who don't think of themselves as disabled, learned to view things they absolutely rely on as assistive technologies, they would be less careless about treating other people's assistive technologies as if they were optional.
(I think one reason for pushback on this framing is the fear that it trivializes disability. That by putting disability on a continuum with experiences had by people who face much less profound social struggles, people will feel they are granted liscence to focus on their own problems. I can't say that's not a real concern! We've all seen versions of that happen, I think. I DO think this type of reframing of disability is useful to understanding why people face the struggles they do, and what other approaches are possible. But it does always bear reiterating that some people are having an EXTREMELY bad time and that their struggles need to be prioritized.)
There is no product. It's a scam sold as "you need to act now or everyone will pass you by".
we all know adult humans dont get enough enrichment but the other day i was walkin home past an empty playground and impulsively ran over to spin myself on this zipline merry-go-round contraption for a few minutes and it really did feel like it unlocked some neglected part of my brain. like damn we really should all go outside and play more. fuck. they werent kidding with this play time thing. have you guys heard about play time. it could be huge.
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Instead of stripping every adult on the internet of their privacy to keep the comparatively smaller population of children out of spaces that are inappropriate for them, I propose we assign children a couple of responsible adults each who can help them use the internet in an age appropriate and safe way. They could set individualized restrictions and guardrails to keep kids from being exposed to things that might hurt them and help teach them how to safely exist among strangers and perhaps even how to manage minor discomfort so that it does not become debilitating to them later in life. Think about it! Kids could get the chance to grow and learn and participate in society and have someone there to help them with that and make sure things don't get out of hand. Kind of like how we teach kids to participate in real world spaces a little bit at a time with the help of responsible adults who look out for their safety. Wouldn't that be cool? I wonder what we could call those responsible adults... oh! I know!
We could call them parents.
"You're lying about reading chapter books as a 8-10 year old! No kid does that." - Extremely dumb take from someone who is probably illiterate.
A lot of books that are popular with children are chapter books and 200-300ish pages long. The Percy Jackson series, Little House on the Prairie, Harriet the Spy, Alice in Wonderland, The Rats of NIMH series, Diary of a Wimpy Kid, The Chronicles of Narnia series, Black Beauty, the Redwall series, the Artemis Fowl series, fuckin Animorphs.
Kids who get into the 100-200 page books like Goosebumps, pretty much everything Beverly Cleary has written, and books like Charlotte's Web [184 pages], start looking for longer books because they're entertained and enjoying themselves.
Sorry you were failed by the adults in your life and you never learned how to enjoy reading, but that's no reason to pretend that kids don't read. Maybe take an adult literacy course or something.
Nothing is allowed to happen for the next month. Nothing good. Nothing bad. I want one month where everything is boring as hell.
I'm gonna say it, I do think that even the laziest person imaginable should have a roof over their head, food in their stomach, and access to healthcare

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the weird looks i get from people when i say i feed my dogs purina is so funny like im sorry im not jumping on the salmonella train or the "give your dogs REAL food that makes their pancreas kill itself" train
and if you say something about how your vet says purina is good you get to watch the person you're talking to animorph into rfk jr for dogs
"b-but purina is owned by nestle" don't make me tap the sign
nestle owns fucking everything and the simple reality is that most of the brands of anything, not just pet food, that are anywhere close to affordable are owned by the same 5 evil megacorporations
and in the case of petfood, the smaller brands not owned by evil megacorps are often not researched as well.
Say you break your ankle. You could know everything there is to know intellectually about the injury. Even with this vast knowledge, you will still experience physical pain.
Now take this logic and apply it to things like ADHD, autism, clinical depression, and other less visible/divergent disabilities. You cannot think your way out of feeling.
That is to say: you are not a bad, lazy, or selfish person for struggling, even if you know why you are struggling.
Genuinely, thank you so much for this.
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Whereas the reality is far more like
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One of these days the horse is gonna come out of pinko with opposable thumbs, and then we're all in trouble.
Spin the wheel. Now, imagine you're on a first date with someone who says they`re a [result]. How does this affect the odds of a second date?
100% guarantee I'll want a second date
It's significantly more likely
The odds don't change
It's significantly less likely
There wont be a second date. Absolutely not
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Just imagine if the senate gets flipped just because incumbent republicans keep dying of old age.
Or if the Mitch McConnell thing, instead of saving the seat, results in treason charges for a bunch of MAGA loyalists.
Or perhaps it just brings the growing pressure for term limits to a tipping point.