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I'm just spitballing here, but if you: - Have long hair that is always pulled back in a tail/braid - You've noticed that it's no longer as thick as it used to be You might be going bald.

No joke, you could have traction alopecia. Basically you're pulling on your hair follicles so much they're giving up. It's possible to reverse it if the damage isn't too extensive but doing so will require you to stop wearing your hair in tightly pulled back styles while taking care of your scalp.

So either get a short haircut, or getting used to wearing your hair loose for a while.

#the first culprit blamed is usually hormones and maybe it's that too #but if you never wear your hair down then you might be goin bald babe #i say this as someone who is goin bald via traction alopecia [one of the first things my doc noted on my very first visit lol]#my hair is basically never down because i HATE wearing it loose #feels bad - difficult to manage - every other fucker feels the need to comment on it #men in particular are very weird about it #i haven't had a haircut in like 12 years - that's it - that is why it's so long #the whole hair/makeup/nails/fashion thing has never been an interest - but i'm not allowed to say that because then i'm an NLOG pickme #going full butch just changes the unwanted commentary and weird interactions with men to something more hostile and unpleasant #got myself a real lose-lose situation and i'm just trying to live with it

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I need that SNL still from a Canadian skit where they were rating "who wore it better" celeb photos and one of them says, "I think they both look nice :)"

angryisokay

Are there games/sports/whatever that focus solely on genuine cooperation and not competition?

Like you have to help everyone succeed in order to ‘win’, not just you/your team?

angryisokay

So what I have been mulling over is that there is far too much focus on competition [possibly a very US problem] with little attention given to encouraging cooperation.

Yeah, there's team sports/games and group projects that have cooperation, but there is still a heavy tilt towards competitiveness. This heavy handedness on competition from birth to adulthood is subconsciously wrecking people's ability to behave properly in social situations that are not competitive, and they end up creating hostility in social circumstances that require cooperation for everyone to do well.

Example: Highway driving and asshole drivers. I am increasingly convinced that road rage is a result of subconscious competitive behavior, drivers who are unaware that they're treating driving like a race and not travel. Refusing to let people merge, tailgaiting, aggressive driving, trying to 'punish' other drivers, and other types of asshole driving might make sense if you're in a race, but it's absolutely nonsensical when you remember that it's not a race. You're just people trying to get from one place to another, and everyone can do that if you cooperate with other drivers. Being an asshole makes travel more difficult for everyone - including you.

I think we can correct this by putting people in situations/sports/games where you must genuinely cooperate in order to succeed. Get people in situations where they're rewarded for helping others cross the finish line too. I'm pretty sure we can improve things if we foster pro-social connection and behaviors, and limit competitiveness to actual competitions instead of letting it be an underlying tone of day to day life.

#or just start asking 'is this a competition' and remembering that it's not then chill the fuck out #still posturing for attention when you're already in a relationship? why are you still competing? you already have a prize #actively flirting with other people so your spouse will 'fight' for you? fuck all the way off what is wrong with you #sabotaging and bashing people in hobby spaces so you can look good? why man it's a fucking hobby not a contest #every goddamned recognition day with mouth breathers making it all about their demographic #a lot of burn-out/FOMO/poor decision making would probably go away if we stopped the hyper focus on competition too

Are there games/sports/whatever that focus solely on genuine cooperation and not competition?

Like you have to help everyone succeed in order to ‘win’, not just you/your team?

#I’ve been mulling on something for a while about competitiveness and social problems

youhavethewrong

Perhaps this is an obnoxious take on my part, but video games should, above all things, prioritize the ability of being paused. At any point. Regardless of whether it's during a cutscene, a special animation, or a time-based puzzle. You never know when you're gonna get a phone call, or someone will need you in another room, or you get a sudden urge to go to the bathroom, or you hear your cat licking plastic, or whatever. Other entertainment mediums like books, movies, and music can be paused whenever you want. Why do some games not give you the same luxury??

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You can be mad about Loomer calling for military strikes on Khamenei's funeral, but it's impotent wailing if you have never been angry that Obama conducted drone strikes on rescue workers, funerals, and weddings.

#and lets not forget that bombing of the doctors without borders hospital #laura loomer is just calling for the US to do what the US does #just your periodic reminder that obama is a war criminal just as much as the rest of them

idk if anyone remembers this, but websites and technology in general used to be damn near instant.

now there's regressive fucking lag in every goddamned thing.

#why are you taking 30-90 seconds to load a webpage #why does it take 5 minutes for you to register that i stopped streaming and closed the app #why do you not even register that the app is closed at all - why are you still streaming without the app

not to sound like a Boomer, but some of you really are eating way too much fast food and take out and it is in fact detrimental to your financial circumstances.

#paying a premium for tv dinners 90% of the time #learning to cook sucks at first but it's worth it okay #a slow cooker is an easy way to start

"Our entire political system is too impotent to stop Trump!"

No it's not.

The political system has been refusing to stop Trump. He could have been stopped at any point in time. He could have been denied a first term. The system chose to let this happen.

#please try to understand this #if you've paid attention through more than one election cycle then you should already know this #the parties can absolutely choose their candidates #the system could remove trump and co at any point if it was deemed necessary

angryisokay

It’s after 11pm and it’s still 80F (26C) here in SE Michigan.

angryisokay

The breeze is hot.

Why is the breeze hot?

angryisokay

We finally have a night where the temperature is below 80F.

#it's still gonna be warm for another week but i think we're done with the high temps #still no fuckin storms like they promised - just humidity and heat

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Do folks from wisconson and michigan have actual beef with each other?

So, for the most part the Great Lakes states have a sibling rivalry kind of beef rather than a serious throw down beef. Lots of teasing and mocking, sometimes people take it too far and act like stupid asses [especially with sports].

Michigan-Ohio beef is probably as serious as it gets most of the time, Wisconsin really only catches heat when the Packers are playing the Lions.

#at least that's how it's always seemed to me

roychewtoy

my watery friend... are you too brushed with the pattern of the dappled light...?

elluendifad

[ID: a photograph of a seal with a blobby splotchy silver pattern on its back that resembles light refracting in water, next to a photo of light's flowing white stripes at the bottom of a pool. Second set of images is a fawn ccurled up in the grass, next to a forested trail aglow with dappled light spots. end id.]

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dappled with light

phantomrose96

Anon hate is shitty and you shouldn’t do it of course but it’s also the funniest and least effective kind of hate

For starters the blogger can just delete and ignore it. And given tumblr’s penchant for eating asks I think it would drive some hate senders a little insane if they keep checking back in wondering if their ask got eaten.

For second the anon ask format guarantees the blogger gets the last word in every time. Even if anon sends a follow up message they will never get the last word. And tumblr for better or for worse seems to run on this currency of “whoever expressed the last opinion in a post is the one we’re supporting”

For third, this publishes the hate directly to the blogger’s own followers, i.e. the people MOST likely to take the blogger’s side. Home court advantage by design.

phantomrose96

#I call for an audience with the king. After waiting in line I stand in front of his throne #(dressed in a huge white bedsheet like a cartoon ghost so as to hide my identity) #I call the king a bitch. I insult his policies all of which were made with the guidance of his court who r also all here #the king ignores me. I say it again in case he didn't hear. The king ignores me #I leave in shame (via @septimus-heap)

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Tfw your mutuals check in on you after a difficult work week!

knightoflodis

My mutuals need to do this to me a lot. Especially when I travel for work…

angryisokay

EMPLOYEE KNIGHTOFLODIS: ARE YOU STAYING HYDRATED AND RESTED DURING THIS HEAT WAVE?

#drink water and eat some fruit and salty snacks

i think i might actually fist fight my team leader/alternate committee man.

the next time he fucking says "don't worry about it" i should just haul off and deck him.

#actually no - i should request a committee call and specifically ask for my regular committee man instead of the alternate #like buddy i want actual representation here - go get the real committee man

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"Flags can only be displayed in the backyard" is not the same as "flags cannot be displayed at all".

I know HOA residents aren't known for being sensible (I mean, you chose to live in an HOA community, a sure sign of being an idiot), but the rules are clear.

#whatcha wanna bet this is a tit-for-tat after someone got a take down notice for their pride flag or something similar

angryisokay

It’s after 11pm and it’s still 80F (26C) here in SE Michigan.

angryisokay

The breeze is hot.

Why is the breeze hot?

#😭😭😭

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