Hey. Stop for a second. Take this moment to appreciate that you don't have to write a paper right now. No one is asking you to write a paper. You don't have to think about the paper or plan your time around the paper. You have the freedom to think about whatever you want. Everything is going to be okay. At least you don't have to write a paper right now
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Now it's time to add closure so you can figure out the waist and make adjustments:
Pin or tack some temporary ties to the top of your trousers, where the folded-under corners are. Now add little pleats or folds or gathers to the top of your trousers, where the waistband will sit, until you reach a little bit more than half your true waist circumference. I put in two pleats, but you can put more if needed. You basically mold the waist circumference of the pants to your actual waist, with a little bit of overlap. Pin or tack those pleats down. Do the same for the back piece.
You could also simply add channels for elastic to your waistband, and skip this step.
Put on your trousers! Tie in back, tie in front. Or the other way around. Look at the square gusset and your folds. Look good? Look bad? You can adjust basically everything here, and see how it changes the fit of the pants.
Gusset:
If the square gusset sits too low or is too small, you won't have enough room for your butt to move around; if it sits too high or is too big, you'll have too much fabric bunching between your legs and the pants legs might be too narrow for your thighs.
Pant legs:
Tapered? Not tapered? Too tapered? This is mostly about personal preference and proportions, so maybe take a photo from a bit away and check how the silhouette looks on you. You can also keep the legs straight and add elastic around the hems.
If the legs feel too tight way below the gusset, open up the leg seams and make them a bit wider.
Folded under corners:
More fabric folded under means more room for movement, larger range of adjustment; but also a larger gap in the side seams. Less folded under fabric means less of a visible gap, but less room for adjustments.
Also check how it looks like sitting down - is there fabric sticking out at uncomfortable angles? How much of that gap is visible when you move around, and does it bother you?
Waistline pleats / folds / gathers:
Move the pleats around on the waistband until the fabric sits snugly around your waist. Decide how much overlap you want between the front and the back piece, if you like the size of your side triangles, and how much variation in body size you might need to cover. Remember that your belly and your back are a different shape, so they will likely need pleats in different places and of different depths! I only put pleats in the front, and none in the back.
Play around with all of these things a bit, and see what you prefer. Walk around a bit. Sit down. Have a snack.
At this point, I decided to close up the side seams higher, redid the square gusset five times and decided to added lining underneath the gaps in the side seams. I also gave those edges of the folded under triangles a slight curve to follow the curve of my hip, because my wool was malleable enough to allow for that. That's why mock-ups are helpful!
Once you are happy with everything, remove the temporary ties, sew down your pleats, and add the waistband.
Cut out waistband and ties: The waistband plus ties are two rectangular strips, each long enough to cover half of your waist circumference plus some length for tying, and as wide as you like. Mine are 16 cm wide (= 4cm wide ties, folded over twice) and 144 to 150cm long (= 44 to 50 cm waist plus 2x 50 cm ties). Center the waistband on the upper edge of the fabric, right sides together, sew it down about 3.5 cm away from the upper edge, fold over twice to fully encase the upper edge of the trousers in the waistband. Fold the overhanging fabric strips the same way, pin down, and sew down that open edge. Do the same for the back piece.
You're done! You have made pants!! Show me your pants!!
Addition 1: pockets!
a - add simple patch pockets before closing the leg seams
b - put inseam pockets in the edge of the folded under triangles. This only works if you first tie the back piece and than the front piece (so basically the wrong way around), so the visible knot sits in the back, and the edge of the triangle of the front piece sits outside the overlapping trouser edges. I haven't tested this yet, but it should be feasible.
Addition 2: lining!
Cut the leg rectangles and square gusset from both top and lining fabric, and sew them up exactly the same way. Then combine lining and top fabric the way it should sit in the finished trousers, and finish the upper edge with the waistband, holding both fabric layers together.
Addition 3: lining to hide the gaps in the side seams!
a - for lined pants: cut out two pieces of fabric the size and shape of the triangles you have removed from your fabric, plus seam allowance. Cut those pieces on the bias to encourage it to fold under nicely. Fold over the upper straight corner twice and sew it down - so the lining doesn't interfere with the waistband and ties. Layer it between top fabric and lining, sew it down by hand, about three mm away from the upper fabric edge. Iron it down so it lays inside, under the fabric of the pants.
I'm going to try and add a video here to demonstrate the effect, let's see if Tumblor allows it.
b - for unlined pants: I haven't tried this yet, but I would: cut triangles on the bias, the size of the folded down corners, finish the upper edge. Then I would add them before closing up the outside leg seam: sew one long side of the triangle to the front pant leg, then the second long side of the triangle to the back pant leg, and at the same time close the rest of the outer leg seam. Then iron it inside, and maybe add a tiny second seam, set back by three mm, attaching the lining to the seam allowance to really make the lining stays inside. I think I'll have to try this out soon!
Addition 4: inseam pockets AND lining AND lining to hide the gaps in the side seams?
Yes. Sure. Just do all three of the above, at once.
OK I guess I'm doing a little write-up about my monpe pants!
So many people want my pants, and trust me: you can have them!!
Caveat: this is a traditional Japanese garment with a long history and made to be worn with kimono. I'm not Japanese and know nothing about the history of monpe or the crafting techniques involved, I literally just looked at the diagram @/prince-rosalium posted, looked at some monpe other people have made, thought well that's not hugely different from the European medieval clothing I know how to make, and went from there. I have altered - westernized! - my monpe to be worn without kimono, so they do look different from true monpe, but still have all monpe advantages, which are splendid and manifold.
I’m splitting this post into two shorter ones, to preserve my sanity.
Part 1: Pattern and sewing
Part 2: Adjustments and finishing
Ok, here we go. Monpe write-up part 1 after the readmore:
Monpe pants part 1: pattern and sewing
Here's how monpe work: You cut four mostly identical rectangles, fold over the upper outside corners, join the rectangles in the middle front and middle back, add a square gusset to add to the crotch depth, close down the legs, and add ties. Optionally, the legs can be tapered to be narrower. The front piece is tied in the back, the back piece tied in the front, and the waist is adjusted to your true waist circumference with pleats, darts, or elastic. Theoretically, you don't even have to make any other cuts beyond those four rectangles / gusset / ties, which makes this a fantastically low waste pattern.
I made my specific monpe from midweight wool fabric and lightweight linen, added tailored pleats, and hid the slits in the side seams with further lining, so they're a bit more engineered beyond "stick rectangles together". This is fairly heavy fabric, so I wanted to reduce bulk around my waist as much as possible and wanted the wool to drape nicely. I could have added pockets, but... forgot!
People have asked about fabric recommendations, and as far as I know, you can use basically anything. Linen. Quilting cotton. Wool. Denim. Handspun handwoven hand-dyed fabric, obviously, and I'm totally not glancing at several of my mutuals here. Each fabric will behave a bit differently - with thick wool, you might want to cut off the triangles at the top and not just fold it under to reduce bulk; with linen, that would be unneccessary. I lined my wool monpe with linen because the pure wool would have been a bit too scratchy otherwise.
These can be sewn completely by hand, if you prefer - it's exclusively straight seams. It's very easy. All fabric edgs in this can be finished however you want - I serged all my edges on both top fabric and lining, because both are rather fragile and I wanted less bulk. You can also make french seams, or felled seams, or just zizag the edges if you've got stable enough fabric.
Here's the basic pattern diagram for monpe.
And here's how I have adjusted it according to my own measurements:
I really do advise making a mock-up version from cheap fabric first, because you will likely have to fudge around with the gusset a fair bit to find what works for you.
You need these measurements:
waist (the narrowest part of your body)
hip (widest part of your body)
waist to ankle (leg length)
crotch depth (length from front waistband, between your legs, to the back waistband)
Check if 1/2 of your hip width (= one trouser leg width) actually fits well around the middle of your thigh! If not, add a few more cm, so your trouser legs sit comfy around your thighs. You can also add a cm or two to your basic rectangle width, for more roomy pants. If you're fat this is a neutral term, measure your waist and hip width while sitting down - more soft tissue to move around means your tissue will behave differently between standing / sitting.
The rectangles are cut like this:
2 x front: 1/4 of your hip width x leg length
2 x back: 1/4 of your hip width x (leg length plus ca. 2 cm)
The back pieces are a little bit longer than the front pieces to add more room for your butt. :) You can also ignore that, like I did, and make four fully identical rectangle pattern pieces.
Remember to always add seam allowances.
Optional: Mark the following points on your fabric, to make variations to the mock-up easier: edges of the folded-under corners; start of the square gussets on all legs; start and end of the leg taper.
Ok, once you have your fabric cut, we can start:
Fold over one upper outside corner of each leg rectangle - my folded triangles are about 25 cm by 5 cm. (If you use really heavy fabric, you can also cut them off and finish the raw edges.)
Close the middle seam in front and back, in a straight line from waist to wherever your gusset should start. Where is that? About half of your crotch depth minus a few cm. Don't worry, we'll adjust this later.
Ok, add the square gusset:
Gusset size: around 20x20 cm
I cut my gusset 21x21 cm and placed it 31 cm away from the top edge.
Adding square gussets is a bit complicated, but here's an excellent video by Morgan Donner on how it works: Watch it. Trust me, watch it, then it will make sense.
Close the inside leg seams:
Here, you need to decide if you want to taper your legs, and how narrow you want them to be. I started the taper at around my knees, tapering down to a 43 cm hem circumference. If you're making a mock-up, you can simply make one leg tapered and one leg straight, and compare the difference directly.
Close up the outside leg seams, from where the folded corners start, to the hem. Add the optional taper at the same place you started it on the inside (that's why marking it ahead of time is a good idea).
Congratulations, you have the rough approximation of trousers! Go take a break and drink some water.
It's so important to acknowledge the very real and sometimes truly horrible failings of the healthcare profession and the pharmaceutical industry while never ever ever letting them drive us into the arms of pseudoscientific bullshit. This is something I feel really strongly about.
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several people were involved in developing washing machines, and none can be as easily pointed to as Cochrane with the dishwasher, so here is a Wiki entry to read about that in its entirety
The older i get the more i understand why some people become obsessed with privacy, not because they’re hiding something, but because being constantly perceived starts to feel spiritually exhausting.
Did you know that soda machines at restaurants and movie theaters spy on you? That most common new cars now record your sexual preferences and send it to the manufacturer (and also data about anyone who also gets in your car, walks by your car, and maybe happens to be within visual range of your car)? That grocery stores are trying to force customers to download an app to scan barcodes on shelves instead of putting up prices, so the app can scan the phone, decide how much that customer should be squeezed for, and adjust the price? That more and more innocent people are being sent to jail for crimes committed hundreds of miles away because an AI facial recognition algorithm spit their faces out and the cops didn't bother to do the most basic of checks?
I am not uptight about privacy because I'm hiding something. I'm uptight about it because the people who dismiss my right to privacy are dangerous to you and me and our families, personally, all the time.
i think one of the worst things the left wing internet ever did was push the idea that oppression is basically a virtue, and being oppressed is a sign of your morality. it has made it like…impossible for some of you to hold the idea that most people are privileged in some ways and oppressed in others. AND a lot of you seem to have it in your mind that terrible people cannot be oppressed, and that oppressed people cannot do terrible things, which is a dangerous rhetoric to hold imo.
Maybe it's naive of me, but whenever I see portraits like this, with just a father and daughter, it restores my faith in humanity a little. Because people seem to love this idea that fathers never loved their daughters in the past and only saw them as bargaining chips for marriage or whatever, but look at the guy in the first portrait on the left, he loves that little girl! And the dad trying to do his work while his daughter bothers him with an Old Timey Barbie. The man teaching his daughter geography, his expression is so soft! The way the man in the last portrait holds the little girl's hand! And none of these are incidental, these aren't photographs, someone (probably the father) paid good money and sat down for hours so that they could have a painting of themselves and their daughter. Probably because they loved their daughter.
From left to right: 1795 Michał Jerzy Mniszech with his daughter Elżbieta - Marcello Bacciarelli; Christopher Anstey and his daughter Mary Ann by William Hoare 1776; A Musician and His Daughter by Thomas de Keyser 1629; The Geography Lesson (Portrait of Monsieur G. and His Daughter), 1812; Jean-baptiste Isabey And His Daughter; Portrait of a Young Girl and Older Man by William Harrison Scarborough
(this is probably somewhat related to my other favourite genre of painting, Husband With Multiple Kids Making Come Hither Eyes At His Wife)
oh I love those! People being people is one of my favourite kinds of paintings and an important reminder that people in past times were not all that different. There were dads who loved their daughters fiercely. There were fathers who happily looked after their babies too. The German reformer Philip Melanchton for example had a cradle in his office. His wife was busy organising a household for 20 people- she was out and about, he mostly worked in his office, it made sense for him to look after their babies too babies while she dropped by at snack time.
in fact often if it was kind of safe dads had the babies in their workshops for just that reason as we can see in these paintings:
The left is “the busy father” by Theodore Weber, the right one is “At the china repairer’s “ by Wenzel Tornoe. All dads who are actively involved in childcare and a painter who thought it was a cute topic rather than anything ridiculous.
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there's a fine line between being wary of manipulation and becoming completely paranoid because you get very close to the realisation that pretty much all human interaction involves doing things we hope will lead to a result we like
this post is about a lot of things. it's about my ex saying it was manipulative to talk to them in a cute voice because that influenced their emotions. it's also about someone on this webbed site saying being funny is "engagement farming". like yeah every single conversation you have is going to be "manipulative" if your standard for that is "did something with the goal of eliciting a response". if that bothers you go live in a hut in the forest and speak only to the trees. I'll be over here manipulating my friends into being happy by giving them compliments
my montante instructor came by during longsword class last night and was like “hey. I found a guy to make me a flaming greatsword. If I did would you be interested.”
OBVIOUSLY I WOULD BE EXTREMELY INTERESTED IN A GIANT SWORD THAT IS ON FIRE, CHRIS
The person who wrote this has almost certainly never been to Japan- if they had, they would know that Japanese restaurants also offer table appetizers in many contexts. Some of them? Mexican restaurants. You can get free tortilla chips when you eat Mexican food in Tokyo Osaka Kobe Kyoto and rural HIMEJI for fuck’s sake. Those are just places where I’ve personally had free tortilla chips in Japan.
This is chat gpt trash prompted to “sound Japanese” and it’s based off of racist old movie dialogue. There’s zero correlation here to Japanese grammar and how Japanese translates into English or how a native speaker of Japan uses English. It’s slop. It’s racist ai slop rehashing Western exceptionalism, fantasizing about a Japanese person being in awe of how great the USA is. It’s depressing that people fell for this. I know it feels good to think that other people like us, and sometimes they do, but this only works if you assume Japanese people have extremely limited experience and worldview. It’s mortifying.
If someone other than me would push back against this propaganda, it would be nice.
in more pleasant news: this year is seeing the biggest humpback migration in Australian history, bigger than it was PRE whaling. That's right, there are more humpbacks migrating off the coast of Australia than there were BEFORE industrial whaling started.
A huge, fat W for environmentalists and Greenies. what an achievement
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Hi I have an undergrad psych degree! I also have ADHD! In my motherfucking TEXTBOOK, the authors said, “Research describes ADHD as a neurodevelopmental disorder in the same vein as Autism. We are putting the (miniscule) section on ADHD in the same chapter as ODD, though, because we believe really these disorders both boil down to ✨️ people not doing what we tell them to because they are lazy✨️”
So my actual TEXTBOOK admitted that it was biased and teaching these disorders based on opinion and not up to date research. And, as described above, the section on ODD was basically just, “these are bad kids. We will not look into why or how or what comorbidities exist and we will also not be exploring the possibility of ODD really being a manifestation of trauma/undiagnosed adhd/autism/pathological demand avoidance/persistent drive for autonomy. We will however be mostly focusing on how annoying these kids are to their parents and teachers ✨️”
It’s fucking crazy. “Yeah we know lots of people with autism struggle to follow demands. They may either ignore/not register demands or have meltdowns when demands are placed. They may engage in physical aggression, verbal aggression, and property desctruction when directed to complete tasks or be exposed to uncomfortable sensory input. They may need to know the why behind demands and consequently argue with authority figures. They may be easily upset by sensory input or social interactions and have emotional outbursts when pushed beyond their limits. Some children with autism seek attention and may engage in maladaptive behaviors to elicit the attention of peers and caregivers if positive attention is not given freely/if they are ignored when behaving appropriately. All of these are symptoms of their underlying neurological differences and should be met with compassion and understanding. They are not bad children. Their brains process information differently and therefore they have executive functioning, sensory processing, and emotional regulation challenges that cause these behaviors.
Those kids over there? Yeah they have all the same symptoms but they are just Morally Wrong and Bad Children. They have Oppositional Defiance Disorder. How can I tell? Well that one hand flaps and that one doesn’t.”
Race and the Mental Representation of Individuals Diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder: Implications for Diagnosis
Results: Classification images (CIs) showed that the children selected as having ODD appeared more prototypically Black in facial appearance than children not chosen as having ODD. No differences emerged in the gendered appearance of the two group-level CIs. Judged rates of ODD were higher for the children who appeared to be Black. However, diagnostic judgments of clinical trainees and practitioners were unaffected by appearance factors, suggesting that formal clinical training might attenuate the influence of stereotypes on judgment.
Discussion: These results indicate that an overlap in Black stereotypes and diagnostic criteria for ODD might contribute to elevated diagnosis of ODD in African American children.
I wish people Did Stuff more often in modern fantasy photography. It feels like 99.99% of the time the models are just standing there looking pretty with their arms slightly raised and maybe holding a sword, which is all well and good individually, but so bland and monotonous when there isn't anything else.
I wanna see elves and fairies that have jobs and hobbies and are doing things. Like spinning yarn or weighing seeds to sell to a customer or playing chess or darning socks or baking or gossiping while knitting.
I wanna pose as a fairy janitor with a leaf apron, and a mop bucket made of a walnut shell. Also the fairy shopkeeper who's weighing the aforementioned seeds should have sleeve garters.
Writing letters, hanging laundry, gardening, wood carving, arguing with a pedlar (people love a tall fantasy backpack covered in objects!), playing instruments & singing, doing each other's hair, drawing each other's portraits.
Get dressed up and take baskets to a u-pick orchard and get some nice apple picking shots.
Do a vignette of a dwarven dentist's office with a patient getting a tooth extracted and a concerned friend holding their hand.
A professional with a large stock of costumes (or several friend pooling their own collections) could stage a dress shop or secondhand clothes market scene.
I should make a lot of large fake leaves so I can be a fairy tailor with rolls of supplies in the background. That's much more easily doable for me than a walnut shell mop bucket.
Looking at bugs with a magnifying glass and taking notes. Washing dishes with a prop bottle brush made to look like a single dandelion seed.
Sharpening your fancy daggers or polishing your armour. Tiny little Pride parade along a forest path, with painted leaf shaped flags and banners.
Lawn bowling with giant berries or hazelnuts, throwing horseshoes, children skipping rope or playing hoop & stick or any number of other historical games. Fishing. Reading a map. Carrying wood, chopping wood, building & lighting a fire.
Property sale scene where you take pictures in front of a cool looking building and the models are pointing and looking, and then shaking hands, and then exchanging a bag of coins for a key & property deed. Wouldn't even need to get inside the building for that!
And it'd work just as well if the building was abandoned and falling apart, and the creatures dressed shabbily.
Shoe shining is quite an old job with a very simple setup that's portable and can be done pretty much anywhere, and newspaper seller is another good one. Think of what fun it'd be coming up with headlines for the prop newspapers! Maybe a wrinkly old wizard could buy one and then go read it on a park bench and feed the birds.
Doing each other's hair includes beards too. How cute would it be to have dwarf and/or wizard friends braiding each other's beards?