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You are the fire that burns so bright, A flame that flickers, wild, alight. But not all hands can bear the heat, Some turn away, some skip a beat.

But there’s a love that doesn’t run, It’s not afraid of what you’ve become. It stands beside you through the storm, Never asks you to change or conform.

It’s the love that stays, steady and true, It sees the fire, but loves all of you. It doesn’t fear what others can’t see, It just stands by you, wild and free. Safe, steady love, in the quiet and light, Beside your fire, burning so bright.

You’ve got a soul that can’t be contained, A heart that’s wild, unchained, untamed. It doesn’t ask you to dim your flame, It stands beside you, calls your name.

There’s no need to hide the light you show, This love will grow, it won’t let go. It’s calm in the chaos, it’s strong in the fight, It’s with you through day, through darkest night.

It’s the love that stays, steady and true, It sees the fire, but loves all of you. It doesn’t fear what others can’t see, It just stands by you, wild and free. Safe, steady love, in the quiet and light, Beside your fire, burning so bright.

No more hiding, no more doubt, This love’s a flame that will never burn out. It’s not about changing who you are, It’s just about loving you, no matter how far.

It’s the love that stays, steady and true, It sees the fire, but loves all of you. It doesn’t fear what others can’t see, It just stands by you, wild and free. Safe, steady love, in the quiet and light, Beside your fire, burning so bright.

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

So apparently I'm all about the analogies lately! I do find them to be useful to help keep my mind on track so I am sharing with you another analogy that came to me once: The Domino Analogy

Just a quick summary. The bridge of incidents (BOI) = everything that happens between you having a desire, and you seeing the fulfillment of it in the 3D. These are events, circumstances, inspired thoughts and inspired actions (for you and for whoever else is a part of your bridge of incidents to bring you the fulfillment of your desire).

Now onto the analogy. So first of all I hope you are all familiar with domino bricks? You lay them in a row, knock over the first one, which knocks over the second one and so on until all domino bricks have fallen over. Now there are some amazing people in the world who have created some absolutely amazing art using domino bricks, so when the final brick has fallen, a beautiful image appears.

This is "A Starry Night" created with Dominos. Now I want you to imagine the fulfillment of your desire to be like this image, after the domino's have fallen. The dominos falling is your bridge of incidents.

Now the beautiful thing about manifestation is that all you have to do is focus on the end result, the completed image, and the Universe (or however you prefer to view it), sets the dominos in place. Once the bridge of incidents has begun, it all happens and unfolds rapidly for you, without you needing to lift a finger. Just keep the end in mind.

Now, imagine that you had to place all of these dominos yourself, how long it would take you, the mistakes you might make on the way, you might even have to start over because you tried to rush things etc. This is similar to 'messing with the middle', there is absolutely no need for you to try and force and create something in the 3D (your current reality), for the Universe is orchestrating it all for you.

And how wonderful isn't that to know? That you can just relax and focus on the end, and the Universe (or another higher power) is doing all the work to put together all these little pieces for you to create the final outcome?

I know that it is sometimes tempting to want to have control over the bridge of incidents, because quite frankly, sometimes the bridge of incidents is uncomfortable, unnerving, or quite frankly scary, often because we cannot see the work that goes on in the background. But if you can trust in this process, trust that the Universe is putting all these things in place and keep your focus on the end. I can assure you it will all fall, quite literally, into place, FOR you. I hope that this analogy was helpful. If you like analogies my last post was a similar analogy, but about trains instead!

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Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today I will be sharing with you an analogy regarding the bridge of incidents (BOI) which also covers when you are wavering & doubting. This analogy came to me during a meditation today and I found it to be helpful so I thought I would share!

During a meditation today my higher self, or higher consciousness, however you want to think of it, spoke to me and told me that when I have a desire, the desire becomes my destination. To reach my destination, the Universe puts me on the fastest train possible there.

What this train is, depends on your self concept, what you believe is possible, and what you believe is possible for yourself to achieve and experience. If you have little to no resistance towards your desire, the Universe sticks your ass onto a bullet train (super fast trains in Japan if you haven't heard of them!).

Now, when you are wavering and doubting the outcome of your desire, this is like a stop along the way to your destination. When you doubt, you get off at a station that is before the end of your destination. Standing on this platform, you now have a choice. You can remain here and choose to not continue on your journey to your desired outcome, or, you can get your ass back on the train. The choice is yours.

Sometimes you may stop for a while on this platform because you recognise that your ass was on a slow moving train from the 1800s. So maybe you pause for a bit, and work on your self concept. You clear out the blockages and resistances that is slowing you down. (Note that I said slow you down, but not stopped!). Now that you are ready, your new train rolls into the station and it is a much quicker one!

Sometimes, doubt only lasts for a little while, and you are able to get back onto the train towards your destination quickly.

The beautiful thing about this analogy is that it shows your wavering and doubt as simply temporary stops along the way, you always have the ability to get back onto the train and reach your final destination, your desired outcome.

The train, even if slow, will still move towards it. Anything you desire, you can have. The only thing slowing your down is your own beliefs about the possibility of you having it. Erase your fears, worry and doubts through self concept work, and things will move much faster. And even if you still doubt from time to time, you can always get your ass right back on that bullet train towards your desire. So just lean back, relax, and keep your mind focused on the end, on your destination, the Universe will take you there in the fastest possible way.

I hope that this was helpful! :)

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop: https://aenabluetarot.etsy.com/ for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

If you'd like to donate to my channel/blog I gratefully receive energy donations via Paypal, every little helps! 🧡

For anyone that feels so inclined I do have an Etsy Shop for tarot readings.

Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic. Today I am posting a short little video about the most helpful thing I learned from the Law of Attraction.

As a side note, the book I am referring to is called "The Astonishing Power of your Emotions" by Esther & Jerry Hicks

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop: https://aenabluetarot.etsy.com/ for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

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Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! It's been a minute but I am back with another post as I am feeling inspired today to write it! This post is about manifestation as per the teachings of Neville Goddard, Joseph Murphy, Florence Scovel Shinn and the like. This is not a post for beginners so if you are not familiar with the works of the above, this probably won't make much sense to you I'm afraid.

So on to the topic at hand. How I cure having the common cold and how this translates to essentially anything you want to manifest! This morning I was having dreams about being sick, having a cold, a sore throat, all of that. I woke up in the morning feeling tired AF and before you know it, I felt my throat sore and a fever.

Damnit, I thought. Sick again, another cold (or Covid that's making the rounds again!) and I quickly fell into the state of "being sick". I mean, of course I did, the symptoms were all there in my 3d!?

But then it hit me, that's just a state, that is just how I am identifying myself in this reality in this moment. But I know about the law of assumption, therefor I can change it. So I did. All it took was for me to decide that I am feeling just fine. That's it. I affirmed once "I am a beacon of health" and then I simply refused to pay attention to my illness and stopped identifying with it.

I got out of bed, went to the bathroom, brushed my teeth, made a morning coffee and then leaned back into my bed and before you knew it. I didn't feel sick anymore. I could still sense my illness vaguely in the background, it was still there, but it wasn't affecting me the same way it did as if I would have kept identifying myself as someone who was sick with a cold and a sore throat.

As the hours passed, it went away completely. I am typing this post in the evening of that same day and I feel perfectly fine, no sore throat, no fever, no tiredness, nothing. Simply because I took myself out of that state, refused to identify with it, refused to acknowledge it and refused to feed confirming thoughts and affirmations to it. I decided to feel just fine, so I feel just fine.

Now having a cold is just like occupying any state in your life, such as "I am poor", "I am single", "I am (whatever)". The difference being that we all pretty much accept that a cold is temporary, and thus, we usually let it 'run it's course', knowing that in 2-7 days, we will feel much better.

But a cold is not different from any other state you occupy. It is a temporary identification of self, and all states are. (or could be). What if you could know that being poor is just a temporary state? Or even better, what if you could decide, today, that it is no longer part of your identity?

See we tend to over complicate manifesting with techniques, but in reality, if you can get a grip on it, it's just about deciding who you are, in this very moment, 3D circumstances be damned.

I feel just fine, I am rich as hell, I am in an amazing loving relationship. Decide who you are, not who you want to be, what you ARE right now. Catch that feeling, accept it as your reality, and it will become your reality.

I hope this helped and if you want me to make a post on anything in particular, comment or send me an ask me (can be done anonymously!)

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

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Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today I wanted to give a little pep talk based on my own recent realisations on my manifesting journey and that is about the power of time and silence.

Recently I have been guided to embrace the concept of time, and as someone who is normally quite impatient, this has been a bit of a struggle for me. But I had to realise something and that is: Time is on my side. Time is my friend, and time serves me. This post is as per usual from a manifesting a specific person (SP) perspective but these concepts should apply to other areas of life as well.

Through time we have growth, we have changes, we have experiences that form us. And this is true for your SP as well. In order for your manifestation to be realised in full in the 3D, there is normally a bridge of incidents that leads you (and them) there, and these incidents take place over time. Now letting things take time can be scary, but it is also necessary, and we need to let go and trust in this process.

We might worry that time will serve the opposite effect, but that is a fear that needs to be released. If you are manifesting a SP I need you to believe that time (the bridge of incidents) is bringing your SP closer to you, not further away. 

Now if we add silence to the mix, if we are in little to no contact, this may be even scarier. But trust and faith in the process is vital. I am in little contact with my SP and I have recently made the decision to pull back my communication even further. I could text my SP right now, in fact, I have an unread message from him from last night that I have not yet responded to. 

Why? Well, I have struggled a lot in the past with the communication aspect in the 3D, hot and cold behaviour, constant overthinking why I might be manifesting days of silence on end and trying to correct it. Moving my focus to try and manifest a single text message through subliminals, affirmations and guided meditations. But in reality, a single text message is not what I want, it is commitment, the whole ass cake, a text is but a crumb in that equation. 

And what you should be focusing on is the end, not the bridge of incidents. What I have realised is that time & silence serves me, because I have let go of the idea that I manifested not getting a text for 2-5 days at a time, and instead embraced that everything is just the bridge of incidents.

And you know who is in charge of the bridge of incidents? Your higher self and the Universe, it is not up to you. So I realised I don’t have to mess with the 3D, I can take my hands off it, I can choose not to reply to that text message because a text here and there is not my end, it is not my goal.

I am keeping my eyes on my destination, and leaving the rest to the Universe to work it all out for me. And quite frankly it’s been extremely liberating.

I realised I was trying to hold on to control, and you might be too. But believe me when I say, there is nothing you can say or do in the 3D that trumps the powers the Universe has to bring your desire to you, NOTHING. The vast power of the Universe to orchestrate events, to move and align circumstances is far beyond our comprehension and abilities.

And when I let that go, and accepted that there is nothing I can say to my SP in the 3D that’s really going to make any difference, and instead surrender the work to the Universe, it was a game changer. The Universe will provide your SP with nudges, with downloads, intuitive hits, seemingly random events, conversations, songs, videos, you name it, that will bring your SP to the realisation of your desire, to bring them to you. Sometimes it will 100% be an internal thing for your SP where they will seem to just ‘realise’ they have these feelings for you. 

Now I will be making a separate posts soon about layers of beliefs and how you can use these beliefs to work for you, and when they might work against you but I don’t want to make this post too long. But on that topic I want to say “Distance makes the heart grow fonder” 

Trust that time, distance, and even silence serves a powerful purpose and that it is all in fact bringing your SP closer to you - not further away. 

Another thing is that when you are not bending over backwards to engage with and please or appease the current 3D circumstances, you are sending a very powerful message, and that is that you know that ultimately, you are in charge and in control through your intentions and what you choose to experience for yourself through the power of your mind, and that there is absolutely no need for you to lift a single finger in the 3D to achieve it. The 3D will bend to your will by it’s own through circumstances you are blessed to not have to micro-manage so that you can relax and just focus on doing whatever makes you happy and feel good while the Universe brings your desires to you. 

I hope that this post was helpful to you in some way!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

If you'd like to donate to my channel/blog I gratefully receive energy donations via Paypal, every little helps! 🧡

For anyone that feels so inclined I do have an Etsy Shop for tarot readings.

Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today we will be talking about what I believe is to be a very important topic, and that is: to check your beliefs! You have to remember that everyone is you pushed out (EIYPO), and that everyone will reflect your beliefs. What’s great about this is that you can recognise the beliefs you have by how other people is showing up and treating you.

The reason I wanted to make this post is because I recently ran across an ‘issue’ where after I changed my self-concept (my beliefs about myself) it ended up having an unintended ‘negative’ effect on my Specific Person (SP) and I thought writing this post might help give a different perspective on this topic.

So like many of you I am currently manifesting an SP. Listening to a lot of different coaches on YouTube and reading content online, I adopted the idea of taking my SP of the so called ‘pedestal’ and placing myself on top of there. Now I am not saying this is a bad thing in itself, but it did cause something to happen that I did not account for.

So like many of you, my SP has shown up in my 3D experience in a, lets just say, less desirable way. So when I did my self-concept work, and I started seeing myself as this amazing beautiful person, worthy and deserving of all that I desire, I put myself higher and higher on that pedestal, but consequentially, I put my SP far far down below me.

Based on my previous experience with my SP, I started seeing him as someone who wasn’t worthy and deserving of me, how could he be, he had treated me badly and I was now seeing myself as this amazing person worthy of all the best. Problem is of course, that this assumption was based on how he was showing up in the past, not how I wanted him to show up now.

Have you been in this situation? Are you currently in it? By holding these thoughts, I was also holding my SP in the old version of himself. But also, he now started to reflect these beliefs to me.

In a drunken moment of honesty, my SP told me he didn’t deserve me, that I was too good for him, and he admitted to treating me poorly in the past. (And this happened a second time just a few weeks ago). On one hand, I was happy that he was recognising me as the person I believed myself to be now, but on the other, I was saddened by his confession. Of course I realise that I created that, through my own assumptions. 

It made me realise that I had not gone about changing the story in the right way, sure, I had changed my part positively, but unfortunately, I changed his part in a very negative way. He now told me I should leave him, stop wasting my time on him. He told me he would never be able to let me go, so he wanted me to walk away, to do what he could not do. It was heartbreaking.

I spent some time thinking, and meditating on what had transpired after it happened for a second time. This was after he came back after dumping me for someone else about a month ago (you can read all about that in my latest post!).

I will admit, there was a part of me that wanted him to worship me, to see me as someone above him, does that sound horrible? But I realise, I had only created another issue, and that I was keeping my SP in a story where he felt inadequate, and scared.

My original intent was of course for SP to change, to grow, to evolve, to become the version of him that is worthy of the new version of me. But in order to do that, I need to see him as that version now. For it is already done. I can no longer acknowledge the old story, the unworthy version of him based on his previous actions, (because those were of course also my creation).

I still listen to my affirmations I have created that incorporate my self-concept and the relationship I desire to experience, but I have added one new thing and that is “SP is worthy and deserving of my love”, and when I say it in my mind, I feel it, and I send him so much love.

I’ll admit, I was scared to change him to a better version of himself, because I was scared that the better version of him, would easily be able to find someone else whereas the ‘current’ (old) version of him has been struggling romantically for many years. But that is my fear and my insecurities talking. So I’m working on that. So I guess my point is, check your beliefs, check your fears, identify where the root cause, blockages and resistance lie, and then work on it.

I use a mix of affirmations, meditation and mindfulness practices to shift states, transform beliefs, and find peace and acceptance within myself. And I will accept that the best version of my SP still only loves, adores and only has eyes for me. 

I hope this post was helpful to you in some way and I wish you all the best on your manifestation journey!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

If you'd like to donate to my channel/blog I gratefully receive energy donations via Paypal, every little helps! 🧡

For anyone that feels so inclined I do have an Etsy Shop for tarot readings.

Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! 

It’s been a minute since I posted, but I am back to write a little on the topic of “Bridge of Incidents” and also share with you a personal story that is unfolding right now with my specific person (SP) who started dating someone else recently.

What is the bridge of incidents? It is anything that happens between you deciding you want something, until you see that desire in your reality.

The bridge of incidents could include a multitude of events, seemingly good or ‘bad’. It could be conversations, it could be meetings, it could be songs they hear, videos they see, a book they read. The bridge of incidents can include anything you could imagine and multiple things you never even thought of.

Your SP could have a conversation with a friend or a family member that makes the light bulb go off and they think “Damn, I am really in love with this person (you)”. Maybe one of their best friends is getting married and that’s what makes them realise you are the one and they cannot risk losing you to someone else.

Maybe they stumble across a YouTube video and it just hits them in their feels hardcore. Often it’s several things, gradually occurring over time. 

Another thing that happens are ‘random thoughts’ that your SP will have. But these thoughts are influenced by your manifestation. Are you manifesting them thinking about you all the time? Your SP will start thinking about you all the time, it will feel natural to them, they won’t feel forced or influenced. They’ll probably start seeing your name everywhere, things will remind them of you ALL THE TIME. For some damn reason their friends will suddenly bring up your name, all again seemingly random. But it isn’t random, this is your manifestation work influencing them. Their mom will suddenly randomly say how they liked you so much and thought you were the best fit for your SP or something like that.

Sometimes the bridge of incidents will include shit you don’t personally like and enjoy. So let’s address that. Your SP might start dating someone else. 

BUT DO NOT FRET. This happened to me. Recently! 4.5 weeks ago my SP ‘ended’ things with me because he met someone else, said the other person were ‘exciting’, they had ‘things in common’ and he wanted to pursue it and ‘do right by her’ by ending things with me. Yawn.

No like seriously. He told me this straight to my face, he even said ‘I like her more than I like you’, I looked him straight in the face and said “No you don’t”. Anyways, long story short, I didn’t push it, didn’t ask, didn’t cry, didn’t beg, didn’t plead. Simply told him that it was his decision to make and I respected that decision.

He asked if we could still be friends. I said absolutely not, we are not just friends, in fact, I told him to his face that even right now, after saying what he has said, he still wants to kiss me and hold me. He didn’t deny it, in fact he responded “Am I the only one!?” and I said no, of course not, that’s the problem and why we can’t be friends. So there we were. In a bit of a stalemate. I said I was leaving to go home. We hugged and I said I just want him to be happy (he looked away cause he clearly wasn’t) and I walked away with my head held high.

I was able to do this because I have been working on my self-concept on a daily basis and it is hella strong now. I know I am the one and only one, I know I am the best. I know that no one compares to me. I know that I am irreplaceable, irresistible and unforgettable. 

My ego was tempted to cry on the way home, but I pulled myself together instantly and said to myself, I refuse to be a victim to the 3D, I AM NOT.  I will not allow myself to go into a victim mindset. This is the bridge of incidents and I trust in the process. I made it very clear why this happened - I manifested it - as part of the bridge of incidents to get the commitment I wanted. I embraced that he was dating someone else. It did not scare or intimidate me. You know why? Cause whoever she is, she is not me. And my SP is still my SP, and I knew whatever that shit was, it was gonna blow up in his face, probably within weeks. I just knew it. And I persisted in that assumption.

She has a role to play, and that is to remind my SP how AMAZING I am. How I am irreplaceable. How no one measures up to me. How no one else can make him feel as good as me. How no one can give him what I give. I persisted in all of my affirmations and my assumptions. 

I also made sure I wished her no ill or harm, in fact, I imagined her in my head walking off in the sunset with the person who is meant for her, which is not my SP, cause my SP is mine. I claim it. But I also imagined her being hella turned off by my SP and vice versa, (sorry not sorry.) 

My plan was to go no contact and trust the process. Except, my SP never stopped texting me. He kept commenting on my posts, saying I looked “Hot” repeatedly and would send me random texts and memes on Whatsapp. It was quite hilarious if I’m honest. It didn’t surprise me, I am irresistible after all. Within a week he was full on sexting me. But he didn’t make a move at this point so I leaned back.

Part of me felt a bit bad how he was so clearly disrespecting this other girl he was supposedly ‘doing right by’ but, at the end of the day, I know she will move on to be with someone that is awesome for her and I had to take this opportunity to remind myself, that if he was disrespecting her like that, she obviously means nothing to him and it is NOT serious. This is an assumption that works in my favour so I rolled with it. 

He kept texting me every/every other day. Just would not leave me alone. 3 weeks and 1 day after the start of this story - we sexted again and he invited me over. He said “What if this is the last time?” , I literally laughed out loud in my bedroom when I read his text. Boy is delusional if he thinks it’s the last time. I went, he had one of the best sexual experiences of his life (he told me this after) and I left the next day and leaned all the way back again. (Leaning back is not initiating texts, taking a long time to text back or simply not responding at all. Staying away from social media/not posting is also part of leaning back). It’s easy to lean back when you trust and have faith in the process.

He called me up on the phone the next day (boy NEVER calls me). He was very sweet, very awkward, just ‘checking in’. He texted me a bit later asking if I wanted to come out and meet him at the bar he was at. I did.

During this meeting he was so so so so so damn sweet to me. He hugged me several times (long hugs). He’s normally very sexual towards me but he only touched my butt once. Instead it was just the hugs, he stayed close to me and there was a lot of sweet romantic kissing, rather than the usual sexually loaded ones. 

During this night he once again repeated several of my affirmations back to me (this shit works). And it was really nice to hear and see the changes and shifts in him. 

Things went a bit cold after that and I did not hear from him for a few days. Do not fear the silence. In fact, he hit me up this week to ask if I would be home on Thursday. I asked why and he told me he bought me something from my Amazon wish-list (in fact, he bought the most expensive outfit on there). My SP being generous and buying me gifts is one of my affirmations so that was a nice surprise. He bought me a really nice sexy two-piece outfit. But weirdly enough did not ask me out. But as I said before, I trust in the process and I trust in my affirmations and self concept, because they are clearly working!

So today is 1 day after I received the outfit (ended up getting it on Friday not Thursday) so that is how recent this story is. I hope this story provides some re-assurance but also highlights the importance of your self-concept work. You are all that and a bag of chips, you are irreplaceable. Know and trust in the process.

If your SP is dating someone else, make sure you frame your assumptions around that to benefit you in the way that I did. That other person could be (and probably is) exactly the thing your SP needed to experience to bring them closer to you. 

You can never predict or determine how the bridge of incidents will unfold for you. The Universe will orchestrate and arrange things in perfect fashion to get your manifestation to you in the easiest and quickest way and yes, sometimes that will include shit you prefer not to experience as the story above.

If you liked this story and want me to keep you updated on my personal progress, I don’t mind sharing, just let me know! I hope my story will be inspirational, and give hope and reassurance through seemingly negative experiences. 

In my mind, I am determined and I know that I AM in a committed relationship with my SP. This is currently the bridge of incidents in the 3D and I am okay with that. If you have any questions just hit me up!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

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Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

So if you are new to this concept, EIYPO, let me try to explain it to you. The world, the 3d world that you see and perceive is a reflection of your inner being, your thoughts, feelings and assumptions. Whatever you believe to be true and real, gets reflected back to you in your day to day life and interactions with other people.

If someone is acting a certain way toward you, it is easy to see that as evidence as that is how that person feels about you. Say for example a person is rude to you. You probably make the assumption that that person does not like you, which, to be fair, is quite understandable. Because you hold the belief that a person would only be rude to you if they dislike you, then that means that person must not like you.

Could we change that? Well, yes we can! All we have to do is change our assumption of the way this person treats you, and the way they feel about you.

So we will accept that this person is still capable of liking us or loving us, and now, we will choose to start seeing them in a more loving light. In your imagination, you want to see that person treating you well. You can use visualisations, scripting or my favourite: affirmations. Persist in this new assumption “person x is always treating me right” and it will come to pass. Not only are you always treated like royalty (for example) but it is also important to stop seeing that other person as someone who is ‘rude’ for example. That’s the old story, and we won’t be telling it anymore. The person on our mind is now always nice (at least to us) and always treating us right.

So I have several examples of how this has worked in my own life using affirmations. Now I have a list of affirmations that I have recorded which are tailored towards my specific person (SP), but because EVERYONE is you pushed out, I have seen my affirmations reflected back to me from other men as well.

Here’s a few examples including the affirmation:  1. “Our sex is the best that he has ever had” - A guy I slept with twice last year suddenly re-appeared and after texting for a bit, he told me I was the best sex he has ever had. Well, of course, I affirmed to be the best. Now of course I affirmed for my SP to think this, but, if random guy said it, then you best believe SP feels the same!

2. “He is the happiest when he is with me” - Surprisingly enough, same random guy from example 1 told me this exact thing just a couple of weeks ago, that he’s the happiest when he’s with me. Naw, sweet, but also, not my SP! (Don’t let stuff like that concern you though, this is what they call Birds Before Land, a post I will need to make at some point)

3. “I am the best” - When talking to my SP I asked him why he came back after we (he) ended things, his response? “Because you’re the best” 

4. “I am amazing” - During the same conversation as example 3, my SP said to me “I wish you knew how amazing you are”, and I kid you not, this was the first time my SP had ever called me amazing (he’s not big on compliments)

5. “SP always pays for my drinks” - I know this one might seem shallow (and cheap of me!) but hey, SP makes big bucks and I deserve to be treated when we’re out, so why not? And yeah, a few weeks of affirming this and my SP now always pays for the drinks when we are out.

The list goes on but I hope I have demonstrated my point. Change your assumptions about your reality, how people see you, how people treat you, persist, and they will change. They have to, it’s the law.

I hope that this post was helpful. I’d love to hear any examples you guys might have on this topic, also open for questions or requests for a post!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

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Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

So today I wanted to share a quick little technique that has been getting increasingly popular, and for good reasons! This is a variation of Neville Goddard’s classical “Isn’t it wonderful” technique.

So it’s as simple as this: Get comfy, relax, bring forth pleasant feelings, you can use music (instrumental preferred) if that helps, (I personally like soft gentle piano music), and in that nice cozy feel good moment, simply affirm: “Something wonderful is happening for me today” or any variation of it. Say it a few times, again, with that lovely feeling you’ve brought forward, and you will soon be amazed of the many wonderful things that pop up for you, possibly even on the same day!

I love this technique for a number of reasons:

1. It’s easy and doesn’t require you to focus on any particular desire, taking away some of the pressure on manifesting

2. It feels good, and feeling good is always nice!

3. The wonderful things come in so fast, I have found for myself (so far) that they are usually ‘small’ things, but they feel amazing nonetheless

4. Bonus, one of the things I have found is that I just generally feel better in myself from using this affirmation, I feel more calm, relaxed and essentially have managed to drop all worry about my ‘bigger’ manifestation goals

So in conclusion, try it! And if you do, please check back and let me know how it worked for you. I’d love to hear more stories from everyone regarding their manifestation journey. As always, also happy to answer any questions or requests for a post.

I hope that this was helpful and that many wonderful things come into your life!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

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Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today I will talk some more about affirmations. They are my preferred method for manifesting, but as always, do whatever works best for you! This will be a short post where I will give some tips about how to word affirmations, and why.

“I AM” Statements  I know I have covered this before but to anyone who is new to my blog, it is worth repeating. I am statements are the most powerful form of affirmation because you are claiming yourself to be what it is that you are affirming. For example, you can say “I feel beautiful” and that is a wonderful statement in itself, but feelings tend to be fleeting, and I think we all know that there are days where we might feel more beautiful, and days we feel less beautiful. But if you say “I am beautiful”, you claim this state as a constant truth about yourself. You are beautiful, always, no matter what. So if you want your subconscious to accept an affirmation about yourself as truth, use “I am” statements and persist with them. Now feeling beautiful can certainly help, but even if you don’t, if you persist with this statement, you will naturally start changing your mind and start feeling more beautiful.

Definitive Statements / Absolute Statements You may have noticed that I use the word “always” and “definitely” or “inevitable/guaranteed” a lot in my posts, and that is not a coincidence. Research has shown that there are so called ‘power words’ that have a greater impact and leaves more of an impression in your mind, they are used a lot in commercials as they are more memorable. I like to use absolute statements to eliminate any doubt and give power and weight to my affirmations such as: “I am ALWAYS getting it right” “Things are ALWAYS working out in my favour” to name a few. Use strong, definitive and absolute statements for your affirmations and they will hold more conviction, to you, and to your subconscious mind. “I am always loved and adored” “My success is always guaranteed” “I am absolutely the best candidate for the job” 

I also like to use “of course” and “I know for a fact” to make my affirmations clear and doubt free. For example: “My specific person (SP) is so in love with me, OF COURSE he is, I am the best person he has ever known” “I know for a fact that my SP is so in love with me, of course he is” 

Why? As you may have noticed, I also like to put in the “why” in my affirmations, this is to eliminate any doubt or question from my subconscious mind. For example: “SP is so in love with me” and the why: “because I am absolutely perfect for him”. Remember that even though you may not believe these affirmations at first, persist, and you will naturally start believing in them over time.

Exaggerations Another little trick that I use is exaggerations. Exaggerate your affirmations to give them more weight and help you ignore disbelief, or previous evidence of unwanted circumstances. “Always” as previously mentioned is an exaggeration of a kind. For example “My SP is ALWAYS (or CONSTANTLY) texting and calling me” , now in reality, it is unlikely that this will ever translate to them blowing up your phone 24/7, but it what it should do, is increase the contact that you receive. 

As a disclaimer, it is possible that exaggerated affirmations do play out in full, so be mindful of that. If you affirm that your SP is ‘obsessed’ with you for example, it is absolutely possible that they will become obsessed with you, but if you, like me, also hold beliefs that obsessions are generally not healthy, then that may have a negative impact on your SP, which you may not want. 

But good news is, whatever you managed to create with your affirmations, obsession for example, can be changed with affirmations too. So if you are finding your SP calling you while you’re asleep every night, change your affirmations to something less exaggerated.

I hope this post was helpful and as always, any questions of requests for a post, leave a comment or an ask me (they can be anonymous) and I will do my best to answer it!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

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Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today I just wanted to share a quick little pep talk/rant regarding you specific person (SP).

How many times have you thought about them without sending them a text? Many, right? Okay, so if you can, why wouldn’t they? Why can’t your SP be thinking about you all the time, without letting you know (for now)?

How many times have you felt something about someone, and not told that person about it? Or at least waited, delayed, until you felt more sure, more right, or the right moment presented itself? So, if you have, then why not them? Why could they not be figuring out how much in love with you they are right this very moment? And they will let you know. It’s inevitable.

Your SP is fully capable of thinking and feeling exactly the way you are, without blowing up your phone this very second. So relax, take a breath. It is going to happen if you persist with your technique(s) and accept that manifestation is real and that it will happen for you.

I will write a post about mental diet eventually, and it’s not something you have to do, but something you can do, that might help you. So here’s a suggestion for you. Next time you think about your SP and you wonder “what are they doing?”, how about YOU DECIDE what it is that they are doing? 

I do this all the time usually in affirmation form saying things like “It feels so good to know that my SP is thinking about me right now, of course they are, they are so in love with me”. “I love knowing that my SP thinks about me all the time, of course they do, they are so in love with me”  “I bet my SP is thinking about me right now, I bet he’s thinking about reaching out because they are missing me so much” And I let myself feel it to be real. I soak in it.

Play with it, have fun with it, give yourself exactly what it is that you want. And keep giving it to yourself, over and over again. Tell your new story, exactly the way you want it to be. Persist in it. It will show up.

I hope that this post was helpful to you. Remember that you can always leave a comment or an anonymous ask me if you have any questions or suggestions on a post that you would like to see!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

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Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today we are going to be talking about: Self concept. What is it, does it matter, and how do you improve it?

Self concept is quite simply how you view and see yourself. Do you feel confident? Beautiful? Intelligent? Clumsy? Capable? Strong? Weak? Whatever it is, and it will be a multitude of things, that is your self concept. Now when people talk about self concept in manifestation circles it’s usually in a way to say that a person should have a good self concept (positive beliefs about oneself) and if you don’t (you have multiple negative beliefs about yourself) you should work to change it during your manifestation journey. 

Do you need a ‘good’ self concept to manifest good things? HELL NO. That is quite frankly a ridiculous belief. I wasn’t going to jump straight into this next part but I think it’s appropriate. Your self concept only matters when it directly contradicts what it is you desire to manifest.

Here’s an example. You want to manifest a relationship with a specific person (SP). Your self concept is quite frankly quite crappy. You think that you are ugly compared to most people. Could you still manifest a relationship with these beliefs? YES, absolutely. But, if you think that you are ugly AND that you cannot manifest a relationship because you are ‘ugly’, then that is the only time that your self concept stands in your way. You can be the biggest asshole on this planet and still manifest all that you want, as long as you believe that you can. So if you can agree that ‘less attractive’ people or people with shitty personalities, can have and get into a relationship, then you do not need to walk around and think that your shit does not smell to get what you want.

So to repeat: Your self concept only matters when what you believe about yourself is tied to your belief to your ability to get what you want. If you do not think you can manifest a relationship (or money or whatever it is) because you are ‘this’ or ‘that’, then you should work to change that belief. The reason why you are not getting what you want is NEVER because you are not ‘worthy’ or ‘deserving’, shitty people manifest tonnes of money and get SPs all the time. Your worth does not determine your ability to manifest, only if you believe it does. Only you can hold yourself back from what it is that you want.

Now, why self concept is so popular is simply because of this, I think, and a lot of other people think, that YOU (person who is reading this right now) should feel good about yourself, in every way. Because that feels awesome. But you don’t need to feel or be awesome to manifest anything. But I think you should think that you are awesome. But only if you want to.

But again, this is a bit of a running theme in my posts, to take away the pressure from the process, you don’t have to be do or say anything specifically to get what you want. You simply need to want it, use any preferred technique of choice to manifest, persist with that technique, and it will be yours, guaranteed. 

So if you do want to work on your self concept, cause quite frankly, it does more good than damage if you do (and it feels hella good). Here are some of my tips. My tips come as per usual from an affirmative perspective, but you can use scripting, SATS (state akin to sleep), visualisations and/or self-hypnosis for the same results.  

1. Do it gradually and accept that it happens gradually. Some people are really good at shifting states as quick as snapping your fingers, but especially if you are new, practice makes perfect, so give yourself time and be patient.

2. Use “I am” affirmations to target the areas you wish to improve. Remember that you absolutely do not need to believe a single word that you are affirming when you start off, repetition builds belief, so just keep repeating you affirmations. “I am beautiful” “I am a master at manifesting” “I am worthy of all that I desire”, “I am always winning”, “I am irresistible” 

Side note: You will quickly be able to tell that this is working because people will show up and reflect these new affirmations and beliefs back to you. Sometimes they will say your affirmation back to you, word for word. It might not be your SP at first, but do not let that deter you, let that be proof that it is working. And if that rando you dated 6 months ago pops up and says “You’re beautiful” then you best believe that is what your SP think of you as well!

3. Use affirmations to build acceptance and patience towards yourself and the 3D. My favourite affirmations are: “I am always getting it right” “I always know exactly the right thing to say and do” and “Everything is always working out in my favour, always” 

Point 3 is actually super important and that could be an entire post on its own, but it is by far one of the most vital things I have learned about manifestation myself and it is this: I will always get WHAT I want, but I do not get to decide HOW I get it. Now why this is so important is because sometimes, the path to get where you want to go, will include ‘negative’ events. 

I actually have a great example of this recently which blew my mind quite frankly, but reaffirmed all the belief I have in manifestation. So one of my daily affirmations is: “I always get what I want” and I saw evidence of this just the other day. 

Long story short, a conversation took place between me and my SP which led me to have some questions, questions I wanted answers to. But I was too scared to ask, because I felt that the answer might upset me. But I wanted to know. And since I always get what I want, yesterday me and my SP ended up having a little argument over text, during the duration of, the answers to my questions was brought up in the conversation, quite naturally. I did not ask, push or prod in any way, yet there they were, the answers I wanted 3 days ago.

First after the argument I felt confused, why did this happen? But then it hit me like a tonne of bricks, I wanted to know, and now I know. I got what I wanted, and I did not need to do anything in particular to get the answers, it happened, naturally on its own. That’s manifestation made simple. You have a desire, you believe you can have it, and BOOM, it arrives, always, without fail, but you rarely get to have much influence on the HOW it arrives. 

My previous post was about circumstances do not matter, and they do not. So every time a ‘negative’ event pops up, you can decide what it means for you. I decided that, well, everything is always working out in my favour. So if me and SP have a fight and don’t see each other for a couple of weeks, I simply believe he falls deeper in love with me while we are apart and I shake any negative feeling about that right off. Because I trust in the process and I trust that my desired outcome is a done deal. But this belief has been built over time, so give it time. Be patient. You will naturally start changing the way you think and perceive about the world as you go along, guaranteed. 

I hope that this post was helpful to you. Please feel free to drop any comments or ask me’s if you want anything clarified or if you want to request a post about a specific subject. 

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

If you'd like to donate to my channel/blog I gratefully receive energy donations via Paypal, every little helps! 🧡

For anyone that feels so inclined I do have an Etsy Shop for readings.

Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Very important disclaimer at the end of the text!

So today we will be talking about why circumstances do not matter, because they don’t. The short answer is very simple, the circumstances do not matter because YOU created them. 

Yup, you heard me. The circumstances that you are in right now? You created it. You manifested your entire reality up until this point, mostly by default and on autopilot. When you were a child you were heavily influenced by your caretakers, your upbringing and the people closest to you at that time, and the believes and assumptions that formed throughout the years, then started creating your reality on auto-pilot. 

So because you created these very circumstances, you can re-create and change them. It really is that simple when it all comes down to it. To make sure this post does not get too long I will focus on a specific person (SP) scenario to use as an example to illustrate my point. 

So say you met an SP. Your pre-existing assumptions and beliefs has this person showing up in a specific way. Perhaps they’re quite non-committal as you have been saying to yourself for quite some time now, that most (all) men you meet are non-committal, guys don’t want to settle down etc. Your inner talk and the way you speak to others about men and dating (swap genders as needed to suit your own life experience), match this assumption. Maybe some men are committal, obviously some are, but in your experience, they mostly aren’t, at least not the men you meet and date.

So your new SP will most likely show up this way, non-committal. Now this is where things get a little bit more interesting. Not only are they not jumping into a relationship with you, they are now also showing signs and behaviours, the way they act, the way they speak, ‘proves’ to you that they are non-committal.

Any decent man (person) should maintain consistent communication, doesn’t have to be all day everyday, but there should be some level of consistency, right? Most of us hold that belief, as well as the dates should be quite consistent, maybe 1-2 dates a week. If they’re not consistent then “they’re just not that into you”. Except that’s a belief. And belief creates reality. 

Now your SP probably ends up doing these things. Non-consistent. Maybe they cancel a date, maybe they straight up tell you that they’re emotionally unavailable or some crap like that. So you are now seeing ‘signs’ ‘evidence’ and ‘proof’ that your SP just isn’t that into you and non-committal.

But manifestation teaches us this: the assumptions (beliefs) come first, and the evidence of it later. It is not seeing then believing, it is believing then seeing. What this means is that your SP shows up and behaves in the way you believe they will, and for the most part, before we become aware of this, these are our subconscious beliefs that are operating in the background.

So your circumstances do not matter, because you have the power to change them by changing your beliefs and your assumptions about your reality.

So for this example above, how do we change this? How do we get our SP to be committed to us. Well first, decide that you want them to. Second, decide that it is possible and that you can experience commitment with your SP. If you get stuck on this second part, then you need to ask yourself why you do not think this is possible, and work to change that belief. Let’s go through some potential beliefs together and why they are ‘wrong’:

1. People don’t change, if SP does not like me enough now, they never will - Categorically false, there are countless of examples throughout all of human history of people changing their mind, or falling in love with someone they only thought of as a friend for a long time, or catching feelings for someone they’ve been sleeping with. People change, all the time. And again, people show up according to your beliefs. Any assumption, even ‘false’, if persisted in, will harden into fact.

2. Other people can get commitment, but not me, because ‘reason’ - Whatever that reason is, throw it in the bin and replace it with “I am easily committed to, of course I am, any man/woman/person/other would love to be with me” and now persist in this new assumption, it will become your reality.

3. My SP does not love me because they said they don’t or they showed up in a way that ‘proves’ that they don’t - Okay, maybe that was true, don’t try to fight it, but decide right here right now that is not your reality and not what you will experience moving forward. Replace the way they showed up with affirmations, visualisations or scripting that tells your new story. I’m an affirmation junkie so I would go with something like: “I am the girlfriend of SP, they are so in love with me, of course they are” and “I am always treated like a queen by my SP, of course I am, he is so in love with me”. And again, decide that this is now how they will show up and treat you. 

Every time the 3D shows you something ‘different’, just shake your head and say ‘I know my reality, you can’t fool me’ and go back to your affirmations and stay very clear with yourself on what it is you want and what you will accept for your reality from now on. 

4. I am not worthy/deserving of love/commitment - You are, but you don’t have to be. Plenty of assholes in this world are married, so why not you? I’m not saying you’re an asshole, not at all, but clearly it doesn’t matter if you are or not. Plenty of people love a variety of different people for a variety of different reasons. You are and will be loved for exactly who you are. But take the pressure away from having to be any kind of way by saying “If an asshole can get married, so can I”

If you do want to work on yourself with affirmations, I am going to write that post next (self concept), which will be posted on Wednesday. 

The key to all manifestations is: persistence. You gotta commit to your new reality as hard as you want your SP to commit to you and stick with it, no matter what your current reality looks like and is showing you. There are countless of examples of famous musicians and athletes who persisted in their beliefs that they were going to make it big or win, and many of them were in very bad/poor situations but they never gave up on their beliefs, and it happened for them. 

Now when it comes to an SP, luckily, it won’t require years of hard work and training, in fact, it could happen as quickly as within days or weeks. It is important however to try and not get impatient and to not compare yourself to anyone else’s progress and story. Be inspired, and motivated by others success stories, let them remind you that everything is possible, including for you and keep persisting and working on your new beliefs.

DISCLAIMER: Now, I feel the need to acknowledge that having past traumatic experiences is a very sensitive topic, should not be taken lightly and not dismissed so easily as to say ‘you can just change it’ or ‘change now’. Even though we can all create better circumstances for ourselves, depending on our past, this can take a lot of work and one should never dismiss the possibility of seeking and getting professional help if it is felt that it is needed. Not everyone can just change their mindset and beliefs on their own just like that and there is nothing wrong with getting some help along the way. Do what feels best and right for you. 

I myself have seen many doctors, been on many pills and suffered C-PTSD, depression and anxiety for many years. In the end the pills are not what helped fix the underlying issues, but it certainly helped from time to time to get some relief from the symptoms, like an aspirin when you have a headache. I will still take an aspirin even though I believe I can manifest any headache away, just because sometimes that’s just easier. Don’t make it harder on yourself than you need to, if help is available, accept it, in fact, you can think of it as a gift from the Universe to help you on your journey to the most amazing life experience. You deserve all the best, and any helping hand along the way is a blessing, not a crutch and not a sign of weakness.

I hope this post was helpful to you in some kind of way!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

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Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today we will be talking about: doubt.

I think we all know what doubt is so I will skip the part where I explain the meaning of the word. So how do you deal with doubt when it arises during your manifestation process?

First I will start off by saying this: It is perfectly normal to feel doubt, even if you have successfully manifested many desires before, doubt may still appear. Doubt will not cancel your manifestation or set back your progress. Remind yourself of this when doubt creeps in. Doubt is perfectly normal and it will not ruin your manifestation.

Giving doubt less importance by repeating the above, helps lessen it, and does help it become more infrequent. Doubt still pops up for me occasionally, but it is so small, and it is so easily dismissed by repeating the above plus a handful of other affirmations that I use such as “I am the creator of my reality and I always get what I want”. 

It is normal to feel doubt along the way because even though you create your reality through your imagination, you do not, and can not, micro-manage all the steps and events along the way that brings your manifestation to you. This not knowing what goes on ‘behind the scenes’ so to speak, this uncertainty, can sometimes create a shadow called doubt. This shadow, as well as the one behind you when you are standing outside, are both perfectly normal and natural, but just as your own shadow, it is just there, it does not change your reality, it does not interfere or ruin with it, it simply exists. 

Your only job is to: persist. That’s it. Persist with your chosen technique and decide that your ability to manifest is far greater than any shadow or doubt that creeps up along the way. The doubt will lessen and be less important over time. It does not need to stop existing completely, because it holds no power over you or your desired outcome, regardless of how many times you perceive it, so there is no need to try and force the doubt to disappear just as you can not make the shadow behind you disappear, you can simply choose to not focus on it.

One more thing you can do if you feel any doubt is to do some more research regarding manifestation, read some blogs, listen to some YouTube videos, read or re-read the works of Neville Goddard, Joseph Murphy, Florence Scovel Shinn, Abraham Hicks or whichever teacher that has resonated the most with you regarding the law of belief or the law of attraction. Wanting some reassurance is also natural and normal and should not be frowned upon. Do whatever you want or need to do to feel calm, at peace, and more confident in your ability to consciously co-create your reality.

So when in doubt: persist with your new assumptions and do any self-soothing that helps you move past it. Knowledge is power, and repetition builds belief, so there is nothing wrong with re-visiting the topic of how your mind creates your reality as many times as you might need.

I hope this post was helpful and as always, leave a comment or drop me an ask me if you have any questions or suggestions for another post.

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

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Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today we will be talking about affirmations. What are they, how are they used, do they work and what is the best way to use it?

The simplest way to explain what an affirmation is: a repeated word or phrase out loud or in your mind. That’s it really. It can be anything that you say (or think) repeatedly. This repetition can be in the same moment, or it can be something you think regularly over the days, weeks, months and years of your life. These affirmations when not used deliberately are often the expression of your own conscious and subconscious beliefs about yourself and the reality you live in.

An example of an affirmation could be something as simple as: “I suck” and “I never win”. You probably say (or think) these things because that is how you feel and that is what you believe. Now the beautiful thing about affirmations, is that you can consciously choose to change them, and with repetition, they become your new beliefs. 

As it has been said many times before, a belief is simply a thought that you keep thinking. So if you change your thoughts, you can change your beliefs, and thus change your reality accordingly. 

So do affirmations work? Absolutely. It may take some time, depending on your already existing beliefs and how persistent you are, but repeated often enough, an affirmation can change your existing beliefs and you will see evidence of it soon enough.

If you want to try it out, you can start small, say something like “I am always appreciated” 10 minutes every day for a few days and it won’t be long, less than a week probably, before someone in your life says something about how they appreciate you or something that you did, and/or you may start noticing people saying “Thank you” more often when they normally wouldn’t in the same circumstances. As an example, a colleague that never says thank you for the work that you do suddenly says thank you for the same thing you have done 1000 times before without any appreciation from them.

So what are the best ways to use affirmations? Other than just repeatedly there are a few ways to use them:

In a drowsy state - This is when you affirm for your desire (either out loud or in your mind) while you are about to fall asleep or right after you wake up. This could also be in a hypnotic or self hypnotic state. When your conscious mind is relaxed, your subconscious mind will accept your affirmations more easily, thus speeding up the process.

Robotic Affirming - This is when you simply affirm repeatedly without emotion (like a robot) as much as you can throughout the day, again, either out loud or in your mind. With ‘enough’ repetition (the amount may vary from person to person) your subconscious mind will ‘learn’ your new affirmations, accept them as ‘fact’, and your reality will change accordingly.

With Feeling - This is when you affirm while at the same time bringing forth the feeling of the wish fulfilled while affirming. Really bringing out the emotions of happiness, joy, satisfaction, whatever it may be to really give ‘weight’ to your affirmations. This is supposed to help your subconscious mind accept your affirmations as true. I don’t know if that is true or not, but feeling good feels, well, good, so adding emotions to your affirmations when you are able to can feel very pleasant.  

Recorded Affirmations - This is when you listen to a recording of affirmations, either some one else’s (plenty on YouTube!) or you making a recording yourself of your affirmations that you then listen to on repeat.

Written Affirmations - So this would be akin to scripting, but simply, write down an affirmation, or a few of them, repeatedly. Doing it via some magical number of times ‘555′ or ‘333′ really isn’t necessary, only the act of repetition, and ideally, believing it, should make it work but even belief isn’t necessary, only repetition. My favourite way of doing this in the past was to identify a single sentence that captured my desire and writing it down 15 times every day. An example of this could be “I am (your name) and I am (in a relationship with SP) or (working for - name of dream company -) or (a successful singer/writer/artist)” 

So which one is the best one? Whichever one works the best for you! Which ever method suits you and your life best. For some, robotic affirming can feel mentally exhausting and perhaps the drowsy method feels best, for others, robotic affirming feels the easiest. In essence, all ways of using affirmations should work as long as you persist with them.

The method I use is: All of the above! I don’t really use scripting anymore but I have used it in the past and I have seen results from it. I have my own recorded affirmations that I sleep to every night and I also listen to them here and there during the day (when I commute or play video games sometimes). I also affirm throughout the day here and there, not always the same affirmations as my recorded ones, but a mixture of my recorded affirmations and affirmations to bring out the best qualities in myself as well (weight loss and confidence mostly). I do robotic affirming, and sometimes I really really feel the feelings when I affirm simply because it feels really good and does make it feel very real. 

The more you use affirmations, the easier and more natural it becomes. The repetition will serve to change the way you think and perceive yourself and the world around you according to your affirmations, and your 3D reality will start to reflect your new beliefs to you. It is very common for people to hear someone else say their affirmations to them, in part or whole, this is one way you can see the effect that your affirmations are having on your reality.

So what are some key points and tips about affirmations?

1. Try to use present tense affirmations as much as possible that state that your desire is real and here right now. Don’t affirm “I will have a new shiny blue car” instead affirm “I am the owner of a new shiny blue car”. I like affirmations such as “I love my new shiny blue car” because when I do want to do affirmations with feeling, having the emotion in the affirmation is helpful to me (but you do you!) 

2. “I am” affirmations. Use “I am” affirmations because saying “I am” indicates that you are the thing you are affirming, that is you and that is your reality right here, right now. “I am beautiful” “I am successful”  “I am a winner” “I am in the most wonderful relationship” “I am always treated like a priority” “I am a millionaire” “I am so rich I can go wherever I want whenever I want”. Whatever it may be, you ARE that, thus “I am” that, whatever you wish to be and whatever life you wish to experience, make it personal, because it is personal, it is you and your life.

3. Unless needed for whatever reason, try not to change your affirmations too much. Write down a list of affirmations that are as specific as possible to your desire and only change it if you are either feeling they are written wrong for your desired outcome, or, you find that you have changed your mind about your desire, either partially or completely. This is perfectly normal. When you start, you may start small because you don’t feel capable of more, but as your confidence and belief grows, you often find yourself ‘allowing’ yourself to desire bigger and better things for yourself and thus ask for them.

4. Was covered in point 3 but, write down a list of affirmations that are as specific as possible to your desire. Some like to keep it short and sweet and use no more than 2-4 affirmations, which could be great especially if you are new to this. Me personally have a much longer list of affirmations because I am super-specific about the type of relationship I want to manifest so my affirmations cover all of the aspects of that. But again, do what feels right and what feels like would work best for you. You can always develop and change your methods along the way if you want to. There are no limitations. 

5. Be careful what you wish for. If you go down this road of changing your assumptions, and you persist, you will get what you ask for. If you ask for a relationship, you will get a relationship, but if you also have negative beliefs about relationships, those beliefs will also manifest in your new relationship as well. If you believe that nothing ever works out for you, then that will also happen, no matter how many new partners you manifest as long as you have that belief.

Point 5 leads me to this very important final part of this post, and that is, you can manifest anything you want, your beliefs create your reality. And because of that, it is vital to know and understand what those beliefs are, and I would often recommend to tackle any negative beliefs and limiting beliefs that exist within you alongside (or before) using any method and technique to manifest first. 

Doing them side by side is just fine, that’s what I do. My affirmations include statements such as “I am always treated with love, kindness and respect” and “I am the creator of my reality” and “I always get what I want” to help tackle any negative assumption that may be present in the background that would prevent me from having the most loving experience with my SP.

I hope this post was helpful and as always, if you have any questions, want any clarification or simply have a request for my next post, post a comment or leave me an Ask Me!

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

If you'd like to donate to my channel/blog I gratefully receive energy donations via Paypal, every little helps! 🧡

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Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today is not so much an explanatory post, simply a reminder, for you, as well as for myself. Today I want to talk about patience & persistence.

Let me get this out of the way first: Do you have to be chill and patient in order to manifest your desired outcome? HELL NO. But does it feel better to be chill about it, and does it help you to remain in the state of the wish fulfilled? Well, yes. Does patience come more naturally the more you practice manifestation and the more you occupy the state of the person who has their desire? Also, very much yes.

I wouldn’t tell anyone to try and force a feeling, any feeling, and that includes patience. If you are feeling impatient, remember this, it is natural. Of course we want what we want, and we want it now. But as long as you remember something else that is even more important, then you are all good, and that thing is: Regardless of how you are feeling, your manifestation is a done deal, it already exists and you will see/hold your desire in the 3D, it is inevitable. Until it does, as I’ve said many times before, return to your imagination and keep giving yourself that experience of your desire being fulfilled, over and over again.

Through your imagination, and repeated affirmations, you can re-create your reality exactly how you want. I know how frustrating and annoying the 3D world can be but as I wrote in last week’s post “Conventional Action”, you always have the power to assign the meaning to anything and everything that goes on in your life. And I would encourage you to get as ‘delusional’ as you want. Your specific person (SP) didn’t text you back? They are hella in love with you and thinks about you ALL THE TIME. That’s all you need to know really. Go back to what it is that you want, find that feeling within yourself, practice going there, seeing it, writing about it, or talking/thinking about it (affirmations) to yourself, time and time again. 

You aren’t delusional, you created the reality you have seen up until now, so now you can re-create it however you want. But you need to remain persistent and faithful to your new state (the person who has their desire fulfilled), and IT WILL COME. It has to. It’s the law. 

One last little tip from me is to write a progress journal every day, write down any and all progress you see, any crumb of evidence that you are the god and creator of your reality, and any signs you have seen where your new assumptions are mirrored back to you. Could be from a conversation you had with someone, or some video you randomly stumbled across or a song that played in the car. Doesn’t matter how big or little, track the signs you see. This will serve as a helpful reminder and reinforce your belief in your manifesting abilities. You can also use your daily journaling process to include some scripting.

For example, if you are manifesting an SP but did not hear from them that day, shamelessly throw in a couple of sentences about how they were thinking of you non-stop that day and that they are missing you like crazy. Remember, this is your reality, you create it, you shape it, through your assumptions and your beliefs. That’s all you need to know.

You don’t have to be patient, but I hope this post has helped you to remember to keep bringing yourself back to your God self, the creator, the operant power of your reality. And, most importantly, doesn’t matter how many times you feel impatient, frustrated, annoyed, cry etc. Just let it out then go back to your imagination. Nothing can prevent you from having what you want but you.

I am taking requests for future posts if there is anything specific or general you want to ask about manifestation, law of attraction or the law of assumption, just drop me a comment or an ask me :)

I now offer email coaching on my Etsy Shop for anyone who needs help, assistance, guidance or just a cheerleader for their manifestation journey.

You can email me or use the “ask me” function for anything that might be on your mind, or on your heart. I am here for you all, always. Please note that the Ask Me’s are only open for dream interpretation, general questions or advice at this time.

Please consider supporting my intention & affirmation art business in return for my time and energy by making a purchase or sharing my shop on any of your social media, every page click helps my business grow and I appreciate all of your support.

You can get a sticker for about $2 and if you make a purchase and send me an email to let me know what you bought I will happily give you a free 3 card reading for a question of your choice or 1 free email for manifestation coaching, regardless of the cost of your purchase! 🧡

If you'd like to donate to my channel/blog I gratefully receive energy donations via Paypal, every little helps! 🧡

For anyone that feels so inclined I do have an Etsy Shop for readings.

Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜