#selfconcept

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This is one of those posts where I really go deep, so grab your coffee or tea and settle in.

I wasn’t born into luxury. For a few years (before I ran away from home), I lived a pretty normal life. nothing was missing, but there was nothing extra either. Luckily, my paternal grandmother always had a great mindset when it came to money. From a young age, I was taught to always choose the best, even if it took longer. I learned about good foods, etiquette, clothing brands, etc. That shaped how I started to think even with small things. For example: if I’m buying body soap and there’s a better brand that costs 25 cents more, I’m choosing the better one. If I have $100 to spend on food, I’m not going to save it, I’m going to eat the best I can with those $100. If I can manifest my SP writing out a full love declaration, I’m not going to settle for a “hey.”

For me, the scarcity state was when I lived in a mindset of “safety.” I wouldn’t show love to my SP because I was scared it would seem like “too much” (which, by the way, is exactly why I lost him before I manifested him back). It was when I would choose what to manifest based on what felt smaller, even when I wanted the bigger one. It was when I dreamed small instead of going after what I actually wanted. “But Ivy, how do I know if I’m in a scarcity state?” Just ask yourself: are you manifesting what you actually want, or what you think is “more possible”even if it’s less than what you desire? If you can have anything with the law and nothing has weight, because this isn’t physics then why are you choosing the smaller option? Is it because you don’t feel capable? Or worthy?

I am God. You are God. Do you think God would settle for half of what He wants? Do you think God would pick a house or an SP that’s “just okay” because God Himself doesn’t feel worthy of something better? No. Like I’m pagan. I don’t buy cheap champagne for an offering, I buy the best champagne and put it on my altar. My altar is secret, no one sees it, it’s not about ego. God doesn’t need champagne or offerings, but that’s how I show gratitude. That’s how I show that even in the smallest details, I choose the best. And “the best” isn’t just about money it’s the best self-concept, the best care, the best bath, the best night’s sleep. When you become used to being the best within yourself, you won’t accept anything less because you’re not worthy of anything less. I’m not saying this is some technique. It’s not. This is a reflection, one that, if it lands, might change something in you forever. Something that never goes back to the way it was.

They made a fake scar on her face ......

Scientists told a woman that they are making a visible scar on her cheek. they "applied" it with makeup and she saw it.....then secretly they wiped it off. she didn't know it was gone.

Then they sent her into a room full of strangers, to see their reaction to her scar and she came back broken.

"they kept staring at it." "i could feel them judging me." "nobody wanted to talk to me properly."

the scar wasn't there, it was never there, but her reality? it was completely shaped by it's presence in her mind....

people leaned away from her — she noticed.

conversations felt short — she felt it.

eyes moved — she clocked every single one.

except none of it was about the scar. it was all about the story she believed.

and here's where it gets devastating — you are doing this every single day. carrying scars nobody can see.

"i'm not smart enough." "i'm too much." "people always leave."

and then walking into rooms collecting evidence that proves it, not because it's true, because your mind decided it was, and reality just agreed,

the scar was never the problem, the belief was.

your mind is not reading the room, it is writing it. 🖤

𝒽𝑜𝓌 𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝑒 𝓊𝓃𝒻𝑜𝓇𝑔𝑒𝓉𝓉𝒶𝒷𝓁𝑒 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝓈𝒶𝓎𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒶 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝒹

୨୧ i am the girl who leaves people wondering. i don’t need to reveal everything. my silence is powerful. ୨୧ my beauty is like a secret. soft, understated, yet impossible to forget. ୨୧ i let them guess. not everyone deserves to know my thoughts, my plans, my life. ୨୧ when i speak, my words are deliberate, calm, and captivating. i am not rushed. ୨୧ i embrace mystery. I am unpredictable, multifaceted, never easy to define. ୨୧ i take my time to respond, to react, to decide. i am never rushed by others’ expectations. ୨୧ my presence feels like velvet. soft but captivating, lingering even after i’m gone. ୨୧ people feel my energy before they see me. calm, composed, magnetic.

☁️ 𝔢𝔫𝔦𝔤𝔪𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔤𝔦𝔯𝔩 𝔱𝔦𝔭𝔰:

✧ speak less, listen more. people reveal more when you’re quietly observant. ✧ keep your opinions to yourself sometimes, let them wonder what you’re thinking. ✧give subtle compliments, make them feel special without overdoing it. ✧ never over-explain yourself. mysterious girls don’t justify, they simply are. ✧ learn to give soft smiles and keep your gaze steady, like you know something they don’t. ✧ leave a signature scent. a subtle perfume that’s elegant and slightly sweet.

♡ 𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔡𝔶’𝔰 𝔭𝔢𝔯𝔰𝔬𝔫𝔞𝔩 𝔱𝔦𝔭𝔰:

keep a little notebook of your thoughts. never share everything with everyone.

practice quiet confidence. when you walk into a room, breathe in deeply, and take in the space like it’s yours.

always leave them wanting more. even if it’s in conversation, online, or just with your presence.

have one song that makes you feel beautiful, play it while getting ready.

they’ll remember you, not because you were the loudest, but because you left them wanting more.

Pick the image that pulls you in. You will know exactly which one to choose.

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1.Shadows are beginning to make way for a glimpse of sunlight.

It feels like you may have been intensely focused on one particular goal, problem, or area of life, to the point where your basic needs may have slipped into the background. Kind of like the student studying endlessly, so absorbed in the work that they forget to eat, rest, or take proper care of themselves. But this focus has not been wasted, the effort and concentration you have been pouring into this situation are starting to bear fruit, something you have been wanting is beginning to move toward you, you may start seeing the first signs of this during this month, with the full result coming within the next one to three months.

I also noted a shift toward your physical wellbeing, your attention begins to return to the body, eating better, exercising, etc..

So a good messays lays here: your work is paying off, but also take care of your body.

2. As the image suggests, something is hidden. This month will all be about uncovering this truth, this secret being kept from you. Something that has been unclear, concealed, begins to come into the light.

There is also an indication of something material coming in for you, this could be money, a gift, something that was owed to you, or some kind of unexpected support. It does seem it could be something substantial, something big. It will be a very good month, you will have lots of energy as well.

3. Glamour magic, spells, glow ups? Your're definitely working on your health, body, appearance this month. You could be changing up your beauty routine, taking better care of yourself, eating better, moving your body more, or just wanting to feel more confident in your own skin. It feels like you’re entering a glow-up phase, not only looks-wise, but also in how you carry yourself. Your mannerisms, your vibe, energy is changing as well.

I’m back after a long time of not posting, but I’m back to give you some motivation. I’ve finally understood how to instantly manifest. So I want to share some of my success stories of the past couple of years, to show you all that your manifestation will come true no matter what technique you use and to motivate you all. I’ll share some tips as well and the way I manifest now.

I’ll start of with my success stories!

1. Not gaining weight even when eating a lot. I also manifested getting abs and my butt being bigger. In general I always tell myself that I’m a skinny legend and I never gain weight.

2. I don’t have period cramps anymore. I used to have the worst period cramps ever, I felt like I would die every time I had them. I just affirmed that I didn’t have them and lived in the end. I took a nap in the wish fulfilled state, instead of waiting for the night and I woke up with zero cramps.

3. My hair always being healthy. This one I actually didn’t consciously manifest but I realize this just kinda shows how good my self concept and belief in myself is. I have bleached my hair 3 times and mind you I have almost extremely dark brown hair naturally, so I have to do multiple sessions usually. Also I almost always straighten my hair I naturally have curly hair btw. Basically every time someone told me my hair would fall out or would be fried I just said “no it won’t”. And guess what people constantly tell me my hair is so soft and looks so healthy and they ask me what my hair routine is.

4. SP. This one is so fun and makes me so happy thinking about. It’s about me manifesting one of my best friends. Almost 2 years ago I met this girl once and I was like “I’m gonna be friends with her”. I just told myself that I kept telling myself that “we’ll be close friends”, “we are best friends” etc.. not even 2 days later we started talking about deep stuff and exchanging socials and numbers. Thinking about it most of my success stories are just because I took instant “action” (in mind) by believing. I didn’t wait until I was home, until it was night time, I didn’t think about the technique too much. I just decided.

5. Small things. I’ve manifested seeing white butterflies. Seeing a bunch of red cars. The craziest thing about this is that it was a challenge I saw on twitter so I wanted to try. The second I started affirming the car that I swear was black suddenly had light on it and was bright red.

6. Popularity. Another thing I manifested is just meeting and knowing a lot of people. Everyone just keeps telling me how cool I am and I would hear that constantly and that they wanted to know me. People genuinely got shy telling me that lol.

7. This one is lowkey just petty. I stopped being friends with this girl and she because friends with someone else this year. We all used to follow each other on insta and then my ex friend and her new friend (who I also know) started unfollowing everyone else we knew. But the other girl still follows me and likes my stories every time I post myself. I remember just affirming that she still liked me. I just wanted to be petty.

8.mirroring my thoughts. I started affirming that I look like a cat and like a fox. I thought it wasn’t working until my friend said “you know you really have fox eyes like in general you look very cat like”. I almost started tweaking. Also same thing for everyone telling me I’m intimidating. I’ve just always assumed that I’m intimidating.

9. Two instant manifestations. 4 years ago I wanted to go to the fair but I didn’t have enough money. This time I visualized for 2 minutes and suddenly someone transferred €150 to my bank account and then somebody else sent me €100. I also back then affirmed “I have a 100 euros or more”. Then I had to affirm that my friend’s other friend would cancel. I just affirmed that and within 10 minutes she said “my friend isn’t picking up so let’s just go”. I always affirm in my favor I really don’t care about anybody else!

10. Seeing a specific car. I wanted to test myself again a couple of months ago. So there’s this one Ferrari that I saw once with a custom license plate so I affirmed that I would see it again. Guess what? I did! I saw it again after affirming for like 2 minutes.

I have sooo many more stories but I don’t want to make this any longer and you should find succes in yourself.

Tips and things I’ve realized.

#1

Today I actually realized the funniest thing ever that proves that everything is you pushed out and that LOA is real. I know it’ll sound weird lowkey but whatever. So I wanted to take a painkiller yesterday and I can’t swallow pills. I basically kept assuming that I couldn’t swallow it (not on purpose, just because that’s the old story repeating). But the funny thing about this, is that because I kept affirming that in my head. I couldn’t even swallow water anymore like I completely forgot how to. Now I understand that you give meaning to everything, even something as simply and easy as swallowing water can be a struggle if you assume you can’t.

#2

Tell yourself about manifestation. Record a voice memo, write it down etc… explain LOA or whatever to yourself you will find out you know much more and you will stop over consuming content , once you know that you actually understand manifestation.

#3

Stop waiting. Don’t wait for tonight to get into the void state, affirm for your desires, visualize… do it right now just affirm in your head. Because to me at least, it shows that time is real and you have to wait for a certain moment to get your manifestations. Which isn’t true you already have it.

#4

Wavering doesn’t exist. This might confuse some people but it helped me. Once I realized that “wavering” only existed because I assume it did, it made my life easier. Now I just know that I can’t waver and that my manifestations will come to me regardless.

#5

Wish fulfilled or just having it idk. For me this works so well. I used to go to sleep or affirm that I should “get” something. Now I affirm and go to sleep with the thoughts that I already have it.

#6

Reading others success stories might help you, but you are your only true proof of manifestation success.

#7

There are no rules. The only “rules” of truth in manifesting is whatever you consider a rule for yourself.

#8

Self concept? I realized that the reason what I always get my way. Is because I truly believe Im the greatest and I’m god. In my head and the way I carry myself I believe I’m the greatest person to ever walk the earth. I just really believe in myself that I have and deserve everything. Like I’m really cocky and I think we should all be cocky and arrogant in our head. Also I don’t let anything or anyone in the 3D walk over me. Like I’m the furthest thing from a push over or a people pleaser I’m quite the opposite.

#9

Honestly I just know that I’m not ending 2025 the way that I have ended all the other years. This time I actually I have such a strong belief that I will get my dream life. There is not other way around it. You have to ask yourself “will I believe in my manifestations and get what I want or will I end the year the same way I did every other year?”

This was a long post but I hope it has helped someone. Don’t worry about time it isn’t too late, you’re right where you need to be. You already have your manifestations.

If you have questions feel free to ask me!

Affirmations are facts. They’re not suggestions. They’re not wishes. They’re not “let’s hope this works.” They’re declarations of identity.

Why are you tiptoeing around your decision?

Why are you still negotiating with your old story?

Why are you entertaining thoughts that don’t even belong to you anymore? They don’t serve you.

if you say you have it, then you HAVE it.

That’s it. That’s how it works. That’s the whole Law.

You don’t get to claim something and then go back and ask, “Wait… is it working? What if it’s not?”

You are the creator. Why would you question your own creation?

Creation is finished. Let there be light, there it was. You’re not out here building Legos every day. The version of you who has it already exists. You’re just aligning with that identity. You are all there is.

You decide and it’s yours. You don’t wait to see results. Know it’s done. It’s either you have it or not. You don’t get to serve two masters. That’s not how it works.

So ask yourself: Do you want it or not?

Because if you do, be firm in your decision. Stop going back and forth. A real decision doesn’t shake nor flinch. It holds. It owns. It stays.

You’re the only one keeping the old story alive. You don’t water a seed and dig it up every 5 minutes to check if it’s growing. It is.

You don’t affirm then check it you’re “close.” Close to what? It’s done. It’s yours. Stand on that.

You said it’s yours? Then it’s fucking yours. Done. Period.

i believe that self concept plays a HUGE role in someones manifesting/shifting journey. and everyone always advocates working on your self concept. but rarely do i see someone give ways on how to work on your self concept. so ive decided to collect the activities that boost your self concept!

1. affirmations.

working on your self concept is ultimately manifesting a 'new' you, or the you, you want to be. so ofc affirmations would be on here. here are some affirmations that you could use

manifesting is so quick and easy i always get everything i want i am the creator of this reality everything works in my favor i manifest in 3 days or less i always win and succeed my life is a fairytale

etc.

i also wanna add that using words like 'ofcourse' 'how' 'why' when affirming is great

2. visualizing.

very similar to affirming, but... visualizing.

just imagining ur self in great situations, making ur self feel good. etc.

3. keep a clear mind.

THISSSS.

honestly having a clear, calm mind helps alot when it comes to manifesting / shifting. it decreases any negative thoughts, or any overwhelming nuanced feeling that you'd rather not have.

mediation, yoqa, journaling, working out, reading, cooking, just chilling with no distractions, showering..... all help with clearing your mind, which then can ease you with your journey and self concept/worth.

4. do what you feel like doing in the moment.

you want to script? script.

you want to affirm? affirm.

you want to cry? cry.

do what ever feels right at that moment in time.

you dont have to follow anyone else's formats or rules. js wtv u wanna do.

5. create playlists

i saw this on a tumblr post on here and its been somewhat a life changer. create playlists of songs that hype u up. music is scientifically proven to boost as well as lower ur mood.

listening to music with self concept affirmations like

7 rings - ariana grande

why is everyone so obsessed with me - ariana grande

etc

are all good examples of songs with self concept affirmations.

i'll prolly make a part 2 to this...

side note: IVE BEEN OBESSESED WITH LNGSHOT OMLLLLLLLLLLL