Asexuality and sex. Asexuality and if aces have sex. Asexuality and a sex drive, the spectrum of asexuality, the spectrum of different attitudes on sex… these are all important topics. I’ve written a lot about them already. I was driven to write them initially because my own experience didn’t fit what I read about and I couldn’t seem to find something that talked about the nuances. I found lots of people, but one collective source — I didn’t find that until later. I wanted to make one; I wanted to sort it out and write it down. So I did.
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This is a quick read and I highly recommend it. What does it mean to be ace? How to we contextualize aceness? Are we doing each other a service by taking an almost voyeuristic lens to asexuality — evaluating each other’s identities by the deeply personal ways we do or don’t pursue pleasure? What are we losing by doing that? Things to think about.
