Hello!! I currently don't have a nickname I like going by, so just call me whatever you think fits I guess.
I will never delete this account suddenly without warning. If it disappears, there is most likely another reason
I use any pronouns except for he/him, but here are my pronouns is my order of preferences:
Really like: She/Her
Like: It/Its, They/Them (Haven't been referred to with It/Its enough times to know which one of those two I prefer over the other, so feel free to use it/its, I want to know how I feel about it better. Please.)
Haven't ever been referred to with any neopronouns, and as such I don't know how I'd feel about them, so just consider them neutral for right now
Pronouns page here for more in-depth I suppose
Any serious stuff that you might not want to see whether it's politics or vent posts or whatever else will be tagged "#unfun stuff" as long as I remember. If I don't, then please tell me. Block this tag if you're using this website as an escape from reality and don't wanna think about that while on here or just don't want to see it for other reasons.
Any donation asks will be blocked, I can't donate and they just make me feel bad.
Perhaps neurodivergent, specifically autistic. I do not have an official diagnosis, so take it with a grain of salt, however through peer review™ I think I can still safely say that there is quite a big chance.
Trans girl :3
Furry? Maybe? Idk, depends on definition of the word I suppose
Introverted and quite socially awkward and not good at conversations
This I tend to write very long messages very often to make sure I convey everything I wanna convey, so am sorry about that.
Main interests are Undertale/Deltarune (And all other Toby Fox stuff) along with AUs of them, In Stars and Time, The Hatchetfield Universe by Team Starkid, and Minecraft, specifically the Life Series but also just in general. I really like talking about all of these. Analyses, theories, and everything else!! Please talk to be about any of these!!
I’m also pretty interested in Celeste, Life is Strange, Slay the Princess and EPIC: The Musical. None of them are major interests at the moment, however they have been in the past and I still like them a lot.
I also like writing and programming and making digital music and making pixel art and I am constantly working on multiple projects (Both original and fan projects) regarding any and all of these so you can ask me about that too if you want, though some of my bigger projects I will most likely be a bit secretive about as I typically am planning on doing something with them in the future and wouldn’t want to spoil too much beforehand then.
DNI: Anyone who doesn’t follow DNIs
^Joke
Actually though, I don’t have a DNI because I don’t believe that they are productive, however here are a few of my more controversial stances so if you feel that any of these are block-worthy or such then you can do as such. I know that these are opinions that people potentially could have on their DNI so here’s an easy access for you to check for that:
- While I don’t do pro-shipping (Or much of shipping at all) I am completely fine with proshippers and do not think there is anything wrong with putting fictional characters in relationships that would be bad in real life.
- I support alterhumans and systems and anything of the sort. This includes endo- and willogenic systems too.
- I believe that transmisandry (Or transandrophobia or whatever other words you want to use) is a real thing as much as transmisogyny is, and I believe that the labels of TMA/TME are harmful a majority of the time.
- Using contradictory labels is fine. Using no labels is fine. Using multiple labels is fine.
- Even if a trans person is a horrible person, you should still gender them correctly. Not doing so means that 1. You don’t see trans people as their gender because you wouldn’t misgender a horrible cis person and 2. You either don’t think trans rights are human rights or you don’t think that all humans deserve human rights
- Thoughts are morally neutral. No one is evil because of their thoughts as long as they don’t take action on them. This includes every type of attraction, as long as it stays in your head, you’re not evil or a bad person for having them.
- While I believe that some deaths are good, and wish death upon some people and would celebrate if they died (See: Trump) I do not believe that anyone should have the sole power to decide who lives and dies. This includes myself.
List of tags that I use frequently:
#asks: For any asks I receive. On asks I also add a tag which is the username of whoever sent the ask. If it’s an anon I just use #anonymous
#deltarune, #undertale, #in stars and time: These are the only fandoms that I actually tag every time I reblog/post about them, except for one which we'll get to later. Why do I not do this for any others? I don’t really know tbh. The Deltarune and In Stars and Time tags came from not wanting to spoil, and Undertale got added cause I tagged Deltarune already
#unfun stuff: This is a tag I try to use whenever I talk about serious stuff or such. You can block it to avoid vent posts and other negative posts. I might forget to use this sometimes. Then please tell me and I’ll update the post.
#Good Night!!: Since I make a post saying good night or something similar to it every night, I have made a tag for it, being this. You can block this if you find the good night posts annoying
#fuck AI: I use this often enough to add it here I think. It’s for any posts that are about Generative AI. I am firmly against it.
#I am reading homestuck now I guess: This is for my blind reactions to homestuck. As of updating this post, I am on around page 3800. I make posts about what I believe will happen or about reactions and stuff about it sometimes. They get this tag.
I try to trigger warn everything that would need to be trigger warned, but sometimes I forget. Please please please tell me if I do so that I can change it.
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I'm pretty annoyed at this post making the rounds, so I've decided to correct a bit of misinformation and misconception about how Tumblr as a platform perpetuates transphobia. Because there's a lot of things to criticize about Tumblr's rainbowashing, but I consistently see users criticizing the wrong things, often due to a misunderstanding of how social media platforms operate.
First off, lets talk about the idea of Tumblr staff "removing the trans colors from the flag".
The argument that staff made a brand new flag just to strip the trans colors off the real one is ignorant at best and disingenuous at worst. That's not a new flag, that's the Philadelphia Pride Flag. The Progress Pride Flag is free to use for non-commercial purposes and small businesses, but large companies—like Tumblr—would have to contact the creator to discuss licensing. Them using the Philadelphia Pride Flag—which has been published directly by a US government organization, and thus not copyrightable—has nothing to do with excluding trans people and everything to do with money. Obviously there is criticism to be made here: although Tumblr hasn't been doing too hot financially, they would have the money to support an independent queer creator. It's hypocritical of them to roll out a pride event feature like this while jumping through hoops to not give money to a queer artist.
Another argument I've seen made on that post is that Tumblr allegedly updated the animation to include the trans and intersex flags, as a response to "the backlash" (the new version is pictured below).
I personally doubt this. First off, "the backlash" wasn't even remotely big enough to prompt action from staff. A 90k notes post is not going to back staff into a corner. Especially when the thing they're being accused of—deliberately removing the trans color from the progress flag—isn't even true.
In fact, the trans flag was included in this feature from the very start. On browser, the flag you are shown changes based on the tags of the post: posts tagged as #lesbian will show a lesbian flag when liked, posts tagged as #intersex will show the intersex flag, etc. Posts with multiple LGBT tags will show a random flag among the labels tagged, and posts with more generic tags (like #queer or #lgbt) will show the Philadelphia Pride Flag. As far as I can tell this was always the case on browser: trans and intersex people were included from the get-go. You can see this feature being highlighted in this post and this post.
On the mobile app there is only one flag animation that will play regardless of the tag: the one pictured in the previous screenshot, with the Philadelphia Pride Flag being followed by the trans and intersex colors. I suspect that what's happening here is that the user originally alleging that staff removed the trans flag was on browser, while the users assuming it had been changed on a later date where using the app. Unfortunately I don't have a way of checking this, and there is a possibility staff had originally included only the Philadelphia Pride Flag on mobile and then decided to add the trans and intersex flags for the sake of being inclusive. However, if that's the case, it's just them making the app more consistent with the browser experience, definitely not them "trying to cover their tracks" like some users suggested.
And here we get to the topic of the posts I'm criticizing being tagged as mature, and how this ties in with trans people on this platform being disproportionately affected by bans (which is something that truly does happen, just not in the way people think—I'll get to that later). Some folks have been using what I debunked earlier as evidence of staff being transphobic and purposely targeting trans people. This argument highlights a fundamental misunderstanding of how Staff works: Staff is not this one cohesive entity, but it's rather made up of an engineering team, and a design/art team, and a public relations team (these are the folks that run the Staff account and reply to user feedback. On a side note: it's important to bring your feedback to them, but being an asshole is pointless. They're not the ones doing the things you are upset about in the first place), and a moderation team. This feature would have been rolled out by the art/design team with the support of the engineering team, so even if it was transphobic—which it is not—it would have had nothing to do with the moderators.
So here is the billion dollar question: Is Tumblr moderation transphobic? Yes, but not in the way most users think. There is this common belief that the people working as moderators for Tumblr are actively transphobic, and purposefully banning trans people—in particular trans women. This is not the case, at least not at scale. Like most large social medias, Tumblr uses a centralized hybrid moderation system. To put it simply: the process of flagging posts as mature (and it seems also banning users, unfortunately) is automated, with humans doing mostly reviews on the decisions that automated system takes. The algorithm doing the moderation is centralized, which means it was developed by people contracted by Tumblr, for Tumbr and Tumblr only, and that the public does not have access to its inner workings. We also know Tumblr has been aggressively downsizing its staff in the past few years, with headlines describing it as "running on a skeleton crew" as far back as 2023. From my understanding, there is less than 100 people currently working to push fixes and new features to Tumblr, and although the number of moderators is unclear, I doubt it's enough for the more than 130 million active monthly users. All this to say that posts are currently almost exclusively flagged by the automatic moderation system. It is possible to ask for manual review, but I don't think there is enough staff to actually go through all the requests.
So this is an issue of the automated moderation system, it's not a matter of staff being actively transphobic. Discrimination towards LGBT users was not hard-coded into the system, but rather a product of unconscious bias in development and pollution in the training data— likely caused by porn bots taking over LGBT tags—, and it is fixable. The automated moderator system targeting queer people was actually acknowledged in a January 2022 settlement, in which Tumblr committed to hiring an expert in LGBT discrimination and to take tangible steps to address the issue. Which is great, but things like this are not a one-and-done, and with how big the staff downsizing was since 2022 I doubt they're still keeping up with it.
We don't need to make up this whole conspiracy about Tumblr staff being transphobic and going out of their way to make life of trans users worst. Even if they're not purposely targeting trans people, the system still disproportionately affects trans users, and thus is transphobic. Fixing the issue is possible, and it's important that we make ourselves heard, but the constant speculation and baseless accusations towards staff are not helping the cause.
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I hate the like, modern tiktokification of CAPTIONS. Flashing one word at a time super quickly, usually with some annoying bouncy effect on each word. Put the entire goddamn sentence (or appropriate chunk of the sentence) on the screen and let me read.
"autistic people need instructions for every simple task" okay how about we talk about the neurotypicals not following clear instructions. what do you mean it didn't work the way you wanted, i gave you the instructions. oh you didn't follow them? you didn't see where i clearly indicated the directions you were supposed to follow for this task? and you're shocked it didn't turn out right? you decided to pull a Jared I'm 19 and go rogue? you're surprised the road less travelled isn't fucking paved because no one travels it? do you get off on this
And how about neurotypicals often suck at giving instructions, insinuating more than half of what‘s supposed to be done, understand even less than that of why something is done, and transfer information that isn’t applicable.
Autistic people being difficult because they tend to approach problems differently and get flak for not doing it ‘correctly’ even when following instructions as closely as possible, and then asking minute instructions because they want to avoid that very scenario?
Neurotypicals asking “why’d you do it that way?” when they mean “this isn’t how I wanted it to be done” and then getting angry when the person begins explaining their thought process on why they did it that way.
Neurotypicals criticising how things are done or pointing out how they should be done before even checking how they were done, basically assuming it was done wrong/lacking.
Hey hi, BA in linguistics and had a work-study position in an ESL clinic.
Neurotypical people are shit at giving instructions...and it doesn't just suck for us in odd-brain-out community. It also sucks for anyone who doesn't share the culturally/experientially encoded assumptions that get left out of said instructions. That causes problems for people like, say, non-native English speakers or immigrants or people with disabilities affecting hearing and speech.
Whenever I give instructions (and I have frequent client interactions at work that require me to do so), I try to think about how to convey the information in the clearest, least contextually dependent way possible. Where possible I give brief explanations about WHY something needs to be done one specific way so my requests don't come off as arbitrary. When you have the privilege to go through life assuming everyone else thinks the same way you do? You don't learn that skill.
my mother so desperately wants to understand the current undertale comic situation because she can tell that i’m getting a lot of engagement and she is truly the most supportive parent in the world but it is truly genuinely impossible to explain what the hell is happening there to a woman who has never played a video game before in her life
as a transfem, neurodivergent artist ill probably get a lot of backlash for this but im opening a cosmic gate and unleashing a horde of terrible worm-like beasts and their hunger will soon consume the entire galaxy
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I went to sleep at a reasonable time yesterday so that makes up for every night I've stayed up too long and means that I can keep staying up late now, right?
I’m sorry for adding directly to a post but I went to a wedding once where the groom’s name was Loren and the bride’s name was Lauren and at the end the officiant was all “introducing Loren [surname] and Lauren [surname], husband and wife” and the entire assembled lost it
also sorry for adding on but at my high school there was a Dominic and a Dominique who were dating and everyone just called them “Dom and Dommer” which is honestly the funniest shit ever
Did I ever talk abt the time i was at a bdsm club and one of the pups was on all fours and barking and being cute and the dom on scene was like “hi puppy! Do you do any tricks?” And he said “I can beatbox!”
I was like. Doubled over incapacitated laughing the entire time. He was really good and a big sweetheart and I felt kinda bad but I couldn’t stop thinking “why the am I getting the beatboxing puppy unskippable cutscene at the bdsm club”
For anyone who hasn't seen them before, Hidden Search Operators are handy tricks you can use when you're either searching or filtering AO3.
summary: string is a generic way of explaining that you can search AO3 for a specific word that appears in a summary. You can do this from the search bar in the header, from the Any Field box at the top of the Advanced Search form, or from the Search Within Results box at the bottom of the filter menu.
Examples:
summary: Bruce
summary: "Bruce Banner"
summary: Bruce OR summary: Banner OR summary: Hulk
You need to put quotation marks around your search term if it is more than one word. The quotes make sure that the site searches for those two words together.
The other two operators listed work best in the Search Within Results box.
expected_number_of_chapters: 1 will return results where every fic has only 1 chapter currently posted.
You can use expected_number_of_chapters: -1 if you want results where every fic has more than 1 chapter currently posted.
otp:true will return results where there is only 1 relationship tag on the fic. If you want results where there are 2+ relationship tags (and no fics with only 1 relationship tag) then you can use otp:false
This page is so beautiful and honestly I hope it reaches and helps any new people that are just starting out on Ao3 because it's helping me and I’ve been using the site for 5+ years now
I saw your tags @jackdaw-sprite and I figured I could offer you some help? You've got a few options to find fics that are actually about your fave who is often sidelined.
My own personal go-to is to use the Search Within Results filter. You can find the filters by clicking/tapping on any tag. If you're on a wide screen like a laptop, they'll be on the right hand side of the screen. If you're on a narrow screen like a phone, you'll need to press the Filters button at the top of the page to open up the menu.
In that menu, scroll down until you're near the bottom. That's where you can find the box labelled Search Within Results. In that box, you can type
summary: Renhardt OR summary: Rendog
When you filter for that result, you'll get 19 fics with that name mentioned in the summary, and if the name is in the summary you've got MUCH higher chances of them being central to the fic.
There's also a way to find fics with a tag in the X position. Fan coders have had this same issue, and so they've created userscripts that you can add to your web browser (like an extension). Here are a few that might be helpful for you to try:
AO3 Actually Relevant Characters - Sorts and highlights works based on how relevant the tagged character seems in the work's tags and summary.
AO3: Prioritise my Faves - Hide work if chosen tags are late in sequence, or if blacklisted tags are early
AO3 Secondary Character & Pairing Filter - Replaces works with placeholder if the tags you want aren't the first few tags, with option to show work.
Editing to add: this version of the post has a syntax error in it. To remove oneshots with a filter, use
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