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shout out to the girls that hate their bodies but are trying really really hard to find the beauty and comfort in them because that shit is hard and takes a lot of time and is emotionally exhausting. i’m proud of y’all.
Sometimes you get a brief glimpse into the American worldview and decide that you don't want to know.
I cannot stress enough that this meme is entirely literal. there's no reference or subtext you don't know. these are simply the objectively most popular works of art from each denomination.
hold on a second. everybody rb this with your go-to movie theater snacks + beverage
idk man when i was a kid i remember a lot of adults saying "if you can read and follow directions, you can cook" so i was like yes i can do these two things. doesn't seem that hard. and it wasn't! so it just always surprises me when i see people of any age who are capable of reading and following directions bemoaning how impossibly hard cooking is. like i know i'm always on this hobbyhorse but it just seems like a lot of people have never developed basic life skills and instead of going "oh wow that's embarrassing, i should learn and catch up" they instead get defensive and turn it into a learned-helplessness thing where they CAN'T POSSIBLY be expected to learn something that's SOOOO HARD. and suddenly somehow we're the oppressors for thinking it's weird that a grown adult can't grill themselves a cheese.
At some point the gaps in your knowledge/abilities become your responsibility. Someone may have neglected to teach you or let you practice a skill, but when you are a grown adult the initiative to learn is on you. Keeping yourself stuck in a state of helplessness over the discomfort of making up a deficit becomes a choice you're making, and it's one that hurts you in the long run.
I think there's possibly an issue of needing instructions that are implicit rather than explicit in some recipes. Like a recipe might say "mince the garlic" and there are actually so many sub-steps in that--if you don't know how to separate a couple cloves from the bulb, set them on a cutting board that you use for aromatics bc you will never get fully rid of the smell, take a wide blade and hold it flat on top of the garlic, smack the flat of the blade firmly with the heel of your palm to smash the cloves open, then peel the skins off the cloves which should be easy ish now that they're busted open, then use the blade to chop the slightly flatted cloves, then change angle and chop them again, and keep doing that until the pieces of garlic are all teensie--then you're gonna struggle to just read and follow the directions.
And that's three words in a recipe--"mince the garlic"-- unpacked into the instructions someone might never have read.
Yes, these are closeable gaps, but someone might not even know where to begin, and I wouldn't blame them for being overwhelmed if they have to separately research and unpack every other sentence in a recipe.
And then there's the factor of tools--crappy, mid, quality, and just plain specialized cooking implements will have radically different effects. If you're new to this shit, you're not gonna know what to invest in vs what doesn't matter, or if your tools are shitty, or wrongly specialized, and are likely to blame yourself for tool issues.
And THEN there's the possible factor of being straight-up clumsy. If you have fine motor control issues, handling knives and fire is frightening for good reason. You have to find recipes modified specifically for you. (If that's you reading this btw, go ahead and look up "disability-friendly cooking," "knife-free cooking," or whatever aspect you struggle with. I promise you, whatever it is, others have gone before you.)
I love cooking, a lot of it is instinctual to me, it's genuinely a favorite hobby and I have honed my skills to the point that I would call myself a really fucking good cook, who can handle both low-energy "5 mins turns a ramen packet into a real banger" meals and "high complexity multi-hour prep" meals, and the range in between. This is to say that I am PRO-COOKING and PRO-LEARNING and I think it's very worthwhile, worth looking up "beginner recipe" and taking 101 cooking classes etc., but please let's not act like the learning curve isn't VERY STEEP, if you're starting from zero.
Anyway consider getting the book Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat. It explains a lot about how cooking works and will expand your comprehension whether you're a raw beginner or a seasoned chef.

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My wife and I volunteer at a community fridge and one of our policies is that we don’t judge what people take or how they take it. There’s a lot of disrespect going to on with the property and occasionally people take all of the food at once, and I’ve had people say Things about my Gender, but the minute you start telling people they can’t come to the fridge or they can’t take food, you’re fucking up the whole idea.
Over time, that continued kindness of just. Cleaning it. Turning up. Restocking the fridge and the larder. Not chasing people away for using it as a meeting spot or to smoke or drink. Saying hello as people turn up. Showing up at the farmer’s market to bring home the extra and be amongst the crowd.
It gathers interest, people help. The community joins in and starts to donate and begins to take a little pride in what was built. Maybe the guy that called me a tranny one time has started acting a little more sheepish around me and maybe he’ll take that lesson going forward.
When you let people be human and fuck up and let those discomforts interact in a way where nobody is going to corner anybody, they start to put their guard down. When they start to put their guard down and get to know you, they have a person to refer to when they’re thinking of other people like you. And maybe they see that other person as more human because of the human they know.
Two key things that have really stuck with me during this process are: “if you want a village, you must be a villager” and “inconvenience is the price we pay for community.” This does not mean you must disrupt your life every time someone needs something from you, but it does mean that sometimes you will have to go out of your way to pick up a piece of trash or stop an extra 90 seconds at the crosswalk to let someone cross or give up 15 minutes of your Tuesday to check in with a neighbor.
Community also doesn’t require physical labor from everyone. It can be offering your organizational skills to maintain a sign-up Google sheet, being the co-admin of a discord server, designing or printing signage, volunteering child, elder, or pet care, registering for Narcan or first-aid training, donating toiletries, craft supplies, or books to your local library or shelter, leaving out water or snacks for delivery drivers, and a million, billion other things.
Community is not all or nothing. Whatever you can commit to at whatever cadence still matters.
None of us are in this alone.
BTW, just to make sure everyone knows, this isn't just some internet rando commenting on her observations on the internet.
They are an Assistant Professor of Media Industries at New York University and literally just finished writing The Apple II Age: How the Computer Became Personal, a book on the history of the computer industry in the 70s.
This tweet isn't just an observation, it's the result of years of research and study. And it's absolutely true.
You are allowed to find things hot in theory while also never wanting to actually do them in real life btw. You can get off on whatever wild shit in your imagination and still prefer to be very vanilla in real life. Or not want to have sex at all in real life. You don't owe the universe anything in exchange for your dirty mind.
No, it is not too much to ask for. You're asking the wrong person.
Watched a documentary about abuse and advice one guy said to give children was, "Tell them that if someone is hurting them, to tell someone - and don't just tell one person. Tell as many people as possible, and keep telling as many people as possible until the abuse stops." and i really liked that
Bc so many ppl focus on the idea of telling A Trusted Adult, but even a well-meaning individual can fuck up and let abuse fall through the cracks or not know what to do
Whereas if a child tells LOADS of adults AND other kids, there's far less opportunity for an abuser to do damage control
Consistently telling their story and spreading it around disempowers the abuser to control and coerce the flow of information, or to utilise gaps and weaknesses in systems of reporting or welfare to isolate the child
Just really good advice. Not suprised I don't hear it more often.

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it's kinda comforting to me when my friends are a little annoying or longwinded or abrasive or tired and inarticulate, or they don't do the exact politest thing in every interaction, and stuff, because I know I'm sometimes annoying, or take up a more than my share of conversational space, or forget to ask them questions, etc etc, and... like, I'm always working to be nice to my friends and to get better and better at friend-ing, but it just makes me feel more human about it :}
anyway I love you friends plz know I'm not counting, in fact I feel great affection toward you even (especially) when conversations go less than Perfectly Ideal
I'm not proud to say it but this line from a 60 year old detective novel made me re-think some things about friendship
https://www.reuters.com/legal/litigation/muslim-man-stabbed-multiple-times-utah-over-his-religion-police-say-2026-07-15/
I had to do a little digging for this. The article leaves the victims name out but mentions a go fund me.
I was able to find an article mentioning his name that directly linked to his gofundme https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/crime/larsen-sohail-muslim-utah-stabbing-b3015105.html his name is Sohail if you have any money to help his recovery
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-sohails-recovery-after-hate-crime-attack please keep him in your thoughts and donate if you are able
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I remember when you used to be able to filter posts in a tag you were looking through by the type of post.
Unless instead of a feature that tumblr had and killed that was a feature that came from an extension. But I'm pretty sure it was the former.
Honestly it's just another point of annoyance in an increasingly visual (and specifically video-centric) social internet, when half the time what I really want to see are posts by people digging deep into their thoughts on things. It's like, the reason I like video essays is for the essays, not the video. Though the video can make the essay more digestible (to me specifically but also to people in general, sure). But honestly, especially with my Kobo that can pull articles down from Pocket Instapaper, I've lowkey been wanting to source more written essays rather than video essays, but still on similar topics. Might be a bit of a fool's errand there because some of the video essays I tend to enjoy work well in that medium in part /because/ they are videos. Like the ones that analyze movies or video games, and use footage therein as they do so.
And as much as I rail against it, I can't deny that the whole reason visually interesting media is taking over is /because/ it's eyecatching, /because/ it grabs and holds attention. It takes focus to read words on a page. You might just zone out to a video if you're not that interested, but bright and colorful and motion still keep you engaged. And now that internet speeds and bandwidth can (generally speaking) support it, it's off to the races. And then tiktok hit and it all really went to hell with algorithms and endlessly scrolling the skinner boxes.
Anyway. This post brought to you by the fact that I popped into a tag for a game on the off chance I'd find people talking about their OCs/builds and the best it could offer me was 99% gifs and pictures and 0 ways to narrow it down.
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Conservative beauty standards are back with a vengeance which means it's especially important to go out this summer with bellies out and bodies unshaved. Also be unapologetically disabled with mobility aids and wearable medical devices and stim toys and ear defenders and all that stuff. You need it. People need to see it. Everyone needs to be reminded that life is unquestioningly more enjoyable when you're not living inside an arbitrary set of rules created by people who are offended by all the wrong things.
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