#cisoutherine

[PT: Stop treating fem and masc as the only way to be non-binary. /End PT]

Fem and masc enben are real, important members of the community. I am a masc enban myself. But people *cannot* keep pushing this "are you a masc enby or a fem enby?" concept. People cannot keep treating fem and masc as the only two gender types that exist.

Stop excluding androgynous enben.

Stop excluding neutral enben.

Stop excluding null enben.

Stop excluding genderless enben.

Stop excluding xenine enben.

Stop excluding outherine enben

Stop excluding aporine enben.

Stop excluding culturally gendered enben

Stop excluding unlabeled enben.

Stop excluding multigender enben.

Stop excluding multitrans/multicis enben.

And while we're on the topic of treating enben like they have only two categories - lesbian/uranian and straight enben are completely real, and deserve to have a place in the community. HOWEVER, please stop neglecting enben (and binary people attracted to enben) who don't fall into those categories. Please stop neglecting diamoric orientations [link].

Please stop neglecting feminamoric, viramoric, symmaic, contraic, ceteramoric, tria, etc, etc. Please stop labelling every single NBLNB, NBLW, and NBLM relationship as "lesbian", "uranian", and "straight."

Please stop acting like every enban should be comfortable using the gay-straight identities.

Also, stop acting like every enban uses they/them (or that every man uses he/him or every woman uses she/her) pronouns, and stop calling enben "theys." It's very othering to hear "men, women, and theys" and exclusionary towards enben who do not use they/them. Enby/enban, person, enbies/enben, and people are all *right there.*

cisaporine, cisfemmasc, cisoutherine

cisneumasc, cismavmasc, cisxenmasc

cisneufem, cismavfem, cisxenfem

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Cisfem non-binary, cismasc non-binary, cisandrogynous, cisneutral, cisnull, cisgenderless, cisxenine, cisoutherine, cisaporine, cismultigender, cismulti, and cisunlabeled people exist.

This could be due to being intersex and raised with multiple socially imposed genders, or an unclear socially imposed gender.

This could be due to being socially imposed as a cultural gender that does not fall into the Western binary.

This could be due to being plural, and having formed in the innerworld with a non-binary gender that has been present from the very start, having never experienced any socially imposed gender and thus feeling as though no transition ever occured.

This could be due to so many things.

Yes, non-binary people are often transgender or cistrans.