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We should talk about the strong overlap between ableism and exorsexism
This might be because I find that my gender is deeply intertwined with my autism but I find a lot of exorsexism deeply ableist against neurodivergent people.
Exorsexism frequently manifests as "These people who see the world in a different way and communicate differently are stupid and freaks!"
And I don't think I have to explain why this belief has its roots in ableism
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"You TMEs need to listen to trans women when they erase your experiences and say they want you dead because of your AGAB!!!!!"
No 💖💖💖☺️☺️☺️
I don't actually ✨✨✨✨🩷🩷🩷🩷
Someone being trans does not make them correct💖💖💖💖✨✨✨✨
I think you should listen to nonbinary and intersex people when they tell you that the terminology and attitudes your spouting are intersexist and exorsexist✨✨✨✨✨✨✨☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Just love how "AFAB nonbinary" can either mean woman-lite or transmasc-lite depending on whichever can be used to disparage you the most.
I hate it when I say something like "despite my gender fluidity I am almost always perceived and treated like a girl and I experience a ton of misogyny because of it"
And then get told "um actually, you're misgendering yourself! You're basically saying 'we can always tell' because you're a transphobic misogynist!"
And it's like, no!
Recognizing how I'm treated does not equate to me agreeing with my treatment
I am very visibly female and am not uncomfortable with that fact because I don't think breasts and hips automatically mean "woman". But some radfems who have one vision of how a "tme" looks and acts (androgynous, always passes as a man, uncomfortable or defensive about their asab) get really don't like it when I say that because it challenges their idea of who in the trans community experiences misogyny.
Yes a lot of nonbinary people feel uncomfortable saying that they have prominent sex characteristics or worry that their bodies aren't "androgynous" enough in other trans peoples eyes. But just because I went through years of therapy so I could feel ok in my body and not care about being seen as a girl that doesn't mean my experience is any less valid than yours.
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hate it when people ask me if I'm a boy or a girl
I am not a cat
I do not enjoy it in boxes
Sometimes being afab in the trans community really stings
I am frequently the target of transphobia in my community, been seen as a predator for using the bathroom because I dont neatly fit into the gender binary.
I was sexually assaulted at my school by another student (explicitly because I told him I was trans and he thought I was lying so he grabbed my genitals to check) and the boy got off Scott free because he "didn't know about trans people"
I often feel that I am discriminated against for existing in a female body and also for expressing my gender fluidity in that female body
And then when I try to share this I get talked over and told that actually because I am afab I'm privileged.
A lot of the time it feels like I'm being ignored by the community that's supposed to have my back
And some trans women use their transfem status to say "um, I actually think that your not really oppressed and if you disagree with me than your talking over a trans woman"
Like, imagine if I were in an argument with a cis woman about feminism and she described her experiences of misogyny and being attacked for her sex and I said "um actually because your cis you are privileged and don't experience the same level of oppression I do"
And then if she tried to argue with me I said "hey! you are talking over a trans person! How could you!"
Can we agree that would be shitty?
Yes?
So why can't we agree that the first example is shitty?
no matter how many years a nonbinary person exists as nonbinary out to the world, others will refuse to acknowledge their entire every-day existence and livelihood if they’re not a walking nonbinary stereotype, and even then, they will be blamed for any kind of hurdle, struggle, road block or even discrimination and violence they had faced, currently face or will continue to face.
