#nomaromantic

First of all, I'm part of a system and I'm the host of that system, I'm the result of a fusion between our former host and our former co-host, we exist as three different individuals in a certain way, the closest way I can explain it is Garnet from Steven Universe. Also, something important is that we're both autistic, so how we interpret gender is quite peculiar, but we're both agender and transman at the same time.

The point we wanted to make is that, personally, we're more attracted to femininity and androgyny, but at the same time, we don't have a problem with dating men or with their gender being aligned with masculinity, but at the same time, dating someone extremely masculine makes us feel strange in a negative way, although when it's fictional/Imagined, we don't have any problem with it, which is strange, at least for us.

At first, we thought it might be linked to the fact that we're part of the AroAce spectrum, and our only and last partner (QRP) was someone with whom we'd had a very strong connection and attachment (this person was a trans man when we were dating; them's currently an agender person).

But we still wanted to see if there could be some kind of explanation or label that could describe these feelings.

I'm sorry for the inconvenience/gen

Not an inconvenience at all! This is exactly the kind of stuff we are looking to be asked.

So, you only brought up androgyny, femininity, and masculinity, so we assume you aren't attracted to neutrality, xeninity, outherinity, and aporinity.

This would be best described through laurian/berri- (berrisexual, berriromantic, berriplatonic, etc). It describes attraction to feminine genders, androgynous genders, with occasional attraction to masculine genders.

You can also use ply-/poly-. It describes attraction to some, but not all, genders. Berri- falls under poly-/ply-.

However, if you are attracted to all genders except for ones that are fully-aligned with masculinity, the following terms may be useful to you:

Noma-: Attraction to all genders except for men. This also falls under ply. Nomin-: Attraction to all genders except for masculine ones. Nominflexible may be more applicable, as you are attracted to masculine genders to an extent.

You could also be omni-. Omni- is a person who is attracted to all genders but has preferences or is attracted to them in different ways. In this case, it would be attraction to all genders, but only liking masculine genders if they aren't overtly masculine presenting.

And if you like all genders, but only when they are feminine-presenting or androgynous-presenting, flixi- may appeal to you.

Whether you are ply or omni, you can also identify as bi-. Bi is the attraction to 2 or more genders.

Noma- or noman- (nomasexual, nomanromantic, etc.): Having attraction to every gender but binary men; or feeling attraction to all genders except men.

Lesbian: Label for queer attraction to women (QLW/WLQ); being gay for women (gay4women); homo sapphic (WLW/NBLW); or nonman attracted to nonmen (NMLNM).

A romantic varient to nomasexual (nomaromantic) and trixensexual (trixenromantic) please!

Hope you're well!! And thank you :)

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Nomaromantic (also known as nobroromantic) is the attraction to all genders except binary men. Genders attracted to includes women, non-binary individuals, masculine aligned non-binary individuals, feminine aligned non-binary individuals, unaligned non-binary individuals, agender individuals, etc. The term was made with non-binary individuals in mind but binary individuals can use it.

Nowomaromantic (also known as nogalromantic) is the attraction to all genders except for binary women. Genders attracted to includes men, nonbinary people, masculine-aligned non-binary people, feminine-aligned non-binary people, unaligned non-binary people, agender people, etc. The term was made with non-binary people in mind but binary people can use it.

Trixenromantic or Trixenamoric refers to the exclusive attraction to women and nonbinary individuals. It could be considered a form of polysexual or bisexual. It mixes "trix" as in trixic, and "en" as in enby.

Torenromantic or Torenamoric is the exclusive attraction to men and nonbinary individuals. It could be considered a form of polysexual or bisexual. It mixes "tor" as in toric, and "en" as in enby.

I always gotta make the masc versions too or my autistic brain says it's not complete