#codependentnomore

Remember, standards and expectations are not the same thing. ⠀ Perfectionist expectations only keeps people out and you disappointed. ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #amychanwrites #standards #bekind #motivationalwords #motivationalpost #motivationalspeakers #fyp #expectations #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #emotionalintelligence ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ (at Vancouver Convention Centre) https://www.instagram.com/p/CnfDN2nvEU5/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Also can be viewed as enabling versus supporting ❤️ thoughts ? 😘💝🥰💞❤️ #codependency #enabling #enabler #enablers #support #supportive #codependentnomore #codependent #codependencyrecovery #selfhelp #selfhealing #healthyboundaries #boundaries #boundariesarebeautiful #boundariesarehealthy #empaths #empath #supportivefriends #empathproblems https://www.instagram.com/p/COhUgkpntSL/?igshid=362086ygnku

- Devine Theory

Morning realness It’s time to #sethealthyboundaries I read this whole post an was taken back because most of my relationships be it friendship partnership just plain family life , has been like this , once I started setting boundaries and distance I became a problem or called crazy . Yet I felt free and happy leaving space for new experiences Thanks for this message confirmation and reminder Repost from @thetrapwitch • Message from spirit today. I’m going to leave this here ! This applies to all relationships that we have to recognize are abusive. In light of what happened last week with TS, this is highlighting idolatry, giving too much of yourself and to one sided relationships. There is a reason why the past few years also cults have risen back into the limelight. Watch the documentaries the Vow, the Way Down, Wild Wild Country, or just anything that makes you understand Dark Psychology. Please study narcissistic abuse and also codependency. The current climate is highlighting how we at times give ourselves as Tribute (hunger games reference). Listen. Two years ago I started implementing heavy #healthyboundaries with people I felt expected me to give myself as tribute! May your #ori continue to protect and guide you from what decisions need to be made on behalf of your destiny so you are not trapped in inner conflict or conflict with another that takes away your #innerpeace ! Ase 🙏🏼 thetrapwitch.com . . #bruja #brujas #brujasofinstagram #intuitiveguide #intuitiveguidance #intuitivehealer #intuitivehealing #mentalabuse #emotionalabuse #spiritualabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #codependency #codependencyrecovery #codependentnomore #selfsovereignty (at Queens, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWFqlSbLIVi/?utm_medium=tumblr

You. Season 3, episode 2 (i think. lol)

this image of each other ~ prints  

“They” being your parents, ex, friends, or whomever. They being the person in your life that made you believe your needs are conditional. Growing up, I recognized that my safety was dependent on my mom’s mood. Looking back on it the only word I can think of for my mother’s actions is “selfish.” Everything in the house was hers and she could take it away at any moment, depending on how she felt that day. I remember constantly hearing “you’re an ungrateful little bitch and I’m not going to buy groceries anymore. I’m just going to buy food for me and me alone. I was so much happier when I lived with my two cats. Don’t ever have kids, Marisa, they’re not worth the stress.” My earliest memory of this was when I was seven. My mom would use these threats of taking away food or taking the door off my bedroom or throwing out all my clothes into the driveway to “keep me in line,” to keep me submissive and under her control. To do what? I honestly don’t even remember. Looking back there’s just so much fear I just remember doing whatever she said to keep the peace. To this day I still look to my partner for permission to do seemingly normal things: turning on a light, listening to music, eating food. On one hand, it is important to be contentious and courteous—maybe the light will put a glare on the TV, maybe he doesn’t want to listen to music right now, maybe he was saving that food for later. On the other, I recognize I’m still relearning how to take up space in my own home. And every time I ask, he always replies “you don’t have to ask me; this is your home too.” And each time he says that I know he’s apologizing to my inner child that I even have to think for a second I need his permission to do something. #innerchildwork #reparenting #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #conditional #innerchildhealing #codependentnomore #cptsdrecovery #depressionrecocery #anxietyrelief #basicneeds #themotherwound #motherwound #emotionallyimmatureparents #cyclebreakers #generationaltrauma #youmatter (at San Francisco Bay Area) https://www.instagram.com/p/CLAeQz4DbAB/?igshid=1nf0osyddld5q

Who do you “post to be”? ✨Feminine women are careful to present just that. ✨Your energy attracts and you are responsible for it. ✨Older women please step up and teach the younger women how to release that masculine modern day energy. #heal #grow #selflove #selfcare #goddessenergy #ariesqueen #protectyourenergy #protectyourmentalhealth #peaceovereverything #novalidationneeded #validation #codependency #codependentnomore #Mindset #mindsetmentor #StephanieMajor #lifecoach #lifecoachforwomen #toxicnomore #toxicbehavior #feminineenergycoach #StephanieMajorConsulting #GoddessConsulting #PositiveVibes #womensupportingwomen #privatewomensclub #globalgoddesssociety (at Tallahassee, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/CNsZ1xpnjo4/?igshid=azcynh2fiytt