if you are a non-binary person it is VERY important that you throw away ideas of being valid and being "real". we are in the age where having pronoun pins and liking steven universe is the biggest offense because that's too clocky but misgendering random people is okay. like you genuinely do not have to care if you are a theymab or not, that's not your concern. it has absolutely zero to do with you, you're beyond that now.
most of the world and systems that we have now are working to deny our existence and hurt us, that does not become morally correct just because the person who is invalidating you is on twitter and calls themselves a transsexual. and I hate that we have regressed so fast that diet transmed ass rhetoric is hard to push back against. they will say the same things you would see kalvin garrah say but slip in a cissexual here and there to pretend they are clocking shit.
you gotta stop debating and arguing with people who shit on other trans people like that. makes them think that their takes are legitimate and worth putting on an equal playing ground. you do not need to entertain convos with people who think being gendered correctly is a privilege you have to earn. most of them do not have that much energy and bass in their voice when it comes to cis people, genuinely.
to get a picture of how idiotic it is, imagine organizing a safe space for trans people in real life and then calling the young trans person that walked in a theyfab because they wore a lesboy pin. most of these people have the common sense to not do that in real life because they know they sound weird as fuck. there's bigger fish to fry.
