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as a person under the agender/nonbinary umbrella I actually think the recently increased focus on a nonbinary person’s agab is insanely fucking uncomfortable and blatantly exorsexist. Stop trying to sort NB people into boxes of amab vs afab, transfem vs transmasc, tma vs tme, etc etc. It is not praxis or activism to keep attempting to binarize people whose entire identities are built around the fact that they DO NOT ADHERE to a binary. You are just being a fucking tar pit #sorry
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hello tumblr user, in front of you is a canonically they/them using non-binary character— and you're already making fourty paragraph "theories" on how they're Actually a trans woman/a trans man. Jesus christ I didn't even get to finish my explanation.
The whole point of destroying the gender binary is actually destroying the gender binary. Not replacing “female” with “afab” and “male” with “amab” and pretending like that isn’t the exact same thing.
Why, exactly, do you need to know if a nonbinary person is “afab” or “amab”? Do you not realize that’s what you are asking when you demand to know if they are “tme” or “tma”? That you’re invalidating their identity by essentially asking “are you a girl enby or a boy enby?”
Why are you using “afab” to describe menstruation, larger breasts, vaginas, and uteruses and “amab” to describe penises, testes, and Adam’s apples? The actual meaning of those terms is just “what letter did the doctors mark on this piece of paper”. Do you not know that trans people on HRT will have traits that don’t match their agab? That some intersex people assigned to one gender or another *never* had these traits? That none of these traits are universal even among cis men and cis women?
Have you thought these opinions through?
"Okay, I support your transition, but did you have to choose such a BASIC whiteboy name-" That's transphobic btw. You're not funny, you're making your trans friend feel unwelcome.
"I support your gender, but I don't support you calling yourself GERTRUDE-" Transphobic. And just assholish. You're a bad friend/family member/coworker/whatever to this person if you say that.
"It's fine if you're nonbinary, but that does NOT mean you have to make your name fucking SOCKS-" Surprise surprise, it's transphobic even when you think they're weird! I shouldn't have had to tell you that.
No, it doesn't mean that you don't support transgender people as a whole. You likely aren't a transphobic person. But yes, it's a transphobic action.
Someone is expressing a part of themselves to you and being vulnerable. For many trans people, their name is closely tied to their identity and gender. So, yeah, being weird about a trans person's name isn't cutesy and funny, you're a fucking dick. Like that's also mean to do to a cis person with a weird name wtf? Don't be mean? It's literally so easy
Androqueerphobia
The term is organized as; Andro + queerphobia - to emphasize that this is a subset of queerphobia, not a subset of "misandry" which is a word that has been thoroughly poisoned by reactionary groups such as MRAs, incels, MGTOW, anti-SJWs, and others.
Definition: Bigotry against queer masculinity & queer manhood. Such as what is faced by butches, nonbinary people, transmasculine people & trans men, intersex men, and men/mascs who are gender nonconforming or otherwise genderqueer.
These are all forms of gender identity, expression, presentation & existence that are distinct from cisnormative patriarchal manhood, and posess proximity to femininity in some way, whether it be societally-imposed or from within. Because of this, queer masculinity & queer manhood is marginalized under patriarchy.
This term is meant to enmesh with similar terms used in queer discussion and is not meant to replace anything. It does not have an ideological backing aside from the belief that queer masculinity and manhood is gender-marginalized and those affected deserve a term to talk about that.
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Why cant we ever bring up the endless bullying of nonbinary folks without this fucking shit
"Other members of the community are bullying us for our gender and presentation"
"Have you considered it's deserved because they could be transphobic to trans woman?"
This is enraging honestly. I could type paragraphs to how folks treat us for asking to not be bullied but honestly I think anyone who cares doesn't need it.
Stop telling trans people they deserve mistreatment
bashing my head in WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE SO EAGER TO BINARIZE NON-BINARY CHARACTERS??? NOT EVERY NONBINARY CHARACTER NEEDS TO BE TRANSFEM! NOT EVERY NONBINARY CHARACTER NEEDS TO BE TRANSMASC! WHY CANT YOU PEOPLE JUST LET NON-BINARY CHARACTERS BE NON-BINARY WITHOUT TRYING TO SHOVE THEM INTO THE NEWEST "PROGRESSIVE" BINARY OF THE WEEK
seeing deltarune fanart from a russian artist and going to their telegram is like a russian roulette to see if they're transphobic or not. i saw a very popular krusie fanartist flat out say they see kris as an "androgynous boy". screenshot + translation of a case like that (the artist in question here is eidinazavr):
(i'm pretty sure you've seen their art)
