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Remember you are a human first. Before youâre an employee, a student, a cook, an artist, youâre a human being who deserves love, compassion, and understanding.

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that's not sex, this is lovemaking
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respected members of the board, do safe & fulfilling romantic relationships exist IRL?
yes
no
nuance
Hannibal Lecter + rolled-up sleeves

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The European Union already forced Apple to abandon its proprietary charging port and adopt USB-C across its entire iPhone lineup. It just did something bigger. A new EU mandate requires every smartphone sold in Europe including Apple devices to feature a battery that can be replaced by the user without specialist tools, without voiding a warranty, and without sending the device to a manufacturer approved service center. Batteries must maintain a minimum capacity threshold after a set number of charge cycles and replacement parts must remain available for up to ten years after a model goes on sale.
The consumer electronics industry built its current business model around batteries that degrade, cannot be replaced at home, and create a natural upgrade cycle every two to three years. The EU just legislated that model out of existence in the world's largest regulatory market.
Apple, Samsung, and every other manufacturer now faces a choice between redesigning their devices for the European market or accepting that their current hardware architecture is no longer legally sellable there.
Given that no company walks away from European consumers voluntarily the phones are going to change and once they change for Europe the rest of the world will ask why theirs still do not.
peruskoulu ja lukio: tiettyjen oppiaineiden ja kurssien oppitunnit on aina samassa luokassa. luokkien infrastruktuuri ja välineistÜ on räätälÜity spesifin aineen erityistarpeisiin ja vaatimuksiin.
yliopisto: kurssin x luento oli viime viikolla siivouskopissa, tällä viikolla vessassa. kurssilla on 43 osallistujaa? tough shit, saatte salin jossa on 11 istumapaikkaa. samaan tilaan on buukattu ristiin oikeuslääketieteen seminaari ja varhaiskasvatuksen luento. puolet luennosta kuluu siihen että äänentoisto saadaan toimimaan. projektori räjähtää kesken powerpoint-esityksen. homeitiÜillä on ikuinen opinto-oikeus.
peruskoulun ja lukion isommat oppiaineet: tiettyjen oppiaineiden ja kurssien oppitunnit on aina samassa luokassa. luokkien infrastruktuuri ja välineistÜ on räätälÜity spesifin aineen erityistarpeisiin ja vaatimuksiin.
peruskoulun islamintunnit: tunti oli viime viikolla siivouskopissa, tällä viikolla vessassa. tunnilla on 43 oppilasta luokka-asteilta 1-9 joista 13 erityisopetuksen pienryhmään oikeutettuja? tough shit, saatte luokan jossa on 11 istumapaikkaa ja rehtori on ehtinyt aina lähteä kotiin siinä vaiheessa kun tunti alkaa eli häneen ei saa yhteyttä. samaan tilaan on buukattu ristiin myÜs ekaluokan espanjantunti ja ysien terveystarkastukset. äänentoistoa ei ole nähty sen jälkeen kun kaupunki otti digiloikan. asbestilla on ikuinen opinto-oikeus.
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Many relationships would be a lot healthier if we romanticized honest, open and direct communication instead of idealizing the idea of a partner who's intuitively in tune with your every need. You don't need someone who can read your mind, you just need someone who's willing to listen when you speak.
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I have seen a young lady with her table loaded with volumes loaded of fictitious trash, poring day after day and night after night over highly wrought scenes and skillfully portrayed pictures of romance, until her cheeks grew pale, her eyes became wild and reckless, and her mind wandered and was lost â the light of intelligence passed behind a cloud, and her soul was forever benighted. She was insane, incurably insane from reading novels.
-- an anonymous pastor in 1864, on the greatest threat to young women

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respected members of the board, do safe & fulfilling romantic relationships exist IRL?
yes
no
nuance
The worst thing that ever happened to LGBT+ discussions was the attempt at creating rigid definitions for diverse experiences that often exist on a sliding scale, or are fluid. Some lesbians experience attraction to men. Some gay men, who were forced to marry women for their own safety, did really love their wives. Some people are man and woman at the same time. Your gender identity and sexual orientation can change over time. In the 70s it was common knowledge that bi women could also be lesbians. Some people defy categorization just by their existence. Some people choose to reject categorization.
can someone explain how a lesbian can be attracted to men????? i really dont get it
In this line of thinking âlesbianâ isnât an objective pseudo-taxonomic category - itâs a label that people choose to use. Both lines of thinking are valuable, but I think the latter is a lot more useful for community building.
When we view âlesbianâ as an opt-in label, rather than a category that one is born into, the main question that pops up is âwhy do people use this label?â The answer varies, but for most itâs due to an attraction to women and a lack of attraction to men.
However, âwomanâ and âmanâ are categories with a lot of variation within themselves, and very few people can say with 100% certainty that they will never experience attraction to one or the other. If a woman has only been attracted to women her whole life and has joined communities centered around this attraction and has advocated for the rights of WLW, is her lesbian identity negated if she (knowing full well that heâs male) finds a male crossdresser hot? What if sheâs sexually attracted to a few men, but could never be in a stable relationship with one, so she only dates women?
Labels like this need wiggle-room. If they donât allow for some fluidity of experience, only a fraction of a fraction of people would ever find them useful, and the communities built around them would be small, weak, and isolated, and full of nothing but echos.
In other words, such a statement presupposes that the âIâ exceeds its determination, and even produces that very excess in and by the act which seeks to exhaust the semantic field of that âI.â In the act which would disclose the true and full content of that âI,â a certain radical concealment is thereby produced. For it is always finally unclear what is meant by invoking the lesbian-signifier, since its signification is always to some degree out of oneâs control, but also because its specificity can only be demarcated by exclusions that return to disrupt its claim to coherence. What, if anything, can lesbians be said to share? And who will decide this question, and in the name of whom? If I claim to be a lesbian, I âcome outâ only to produce a different âcloset.â The âyouâ to whom I come out now has access to a different region of opacity. [âŚ] For being âoutâ always depends to some extent on being âinâ; it gains its meaning only within that polarity. Hence, being âoutâ must produce the closet again and again in order to maintain itself as âout.â In this sense, outness can only produce a new opacity; and the closet produces the promise of a disclosure that can, by definition, never come. Is this infinite postponement of the disclosure of âgayness,â produced by the very act of âcoming out,â to be lamented? Or is this very deferral of the signified to be valued, a site for the production of values, precisely because the term now takes on a life that cannot be, can never be, permanently controlled? â Judith Butler, âImitation and Gender Insubordination,â The Gay and Lesbian Studies Reader, 1993, pg. 309.
There is no magical biological marker for identity. You canât take your DNA and put it in a microscope and zoom way way in to find a little tag for Genderqueer Bisexual woman or Nonbinary Pansexual or Trans Lesbian or Agender He/Him Dyke.
Labels are a linguistic shorthand to try to quickly convey something about our experiences to other people. They are messy and complicated and contradictory and weird because WE are messy and complicated and contradictory and weird.
And âthat person is using the wrong labelâ is almost never a useful way to approach someone using a label in a way that is confusing or unfamiliar to you.
My coffee maker is such a faggot. Every time I use it it whines and moans and groans and pisses all over the place
i think they're called baristas
i think we should bring this back (with some amendments ofc) if we ever needed an "internet etiquette" for the younger generations, now is the moment to remind them. purity culture kills fandom
as well as the three laws of fandom:
Don't Like, Don't Read (DL;DR), Your Kink is not My Kink And That's OK (YKINMKATO) and Ship and Let Ship
đŁ Purity culture kills fandom! đŁ
NO ONE LIVING hasn't been squicked out by something. There's over 7 billion of us, my delights and disgusts aren't universal. So I move on. Don't like the ship? Move on. Don't like____? Move on.
I am not an exception. Neither are you. I don't like it I move on and shut my gob about it because everyone everywhere is squicked out by something and they need to put the thing down and justâŚmotor.
This but also:
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During this Pride Month, which has very much come from America to us, I'd like to tell you about some of Finnish queer history:
1903 Aino Malmberg published the first known lesbian short story in Finland, named "ystävyyttä" ("friendship").
1963 Christer Kihlman publishes a break trough novel Den blĂĽ modern ("blue mother"). One of the book's themes is homosexuality, and the book ended up winning the national literary price.
1966 Ilkka Taipale publishes a book "Sukupuoleton Suomi" ("genderless Finland"). In it a lawyer Herbert Gumpler criticizes the law that criminalized gay acts, because it left gay people vulnerable to extortion and violence.
1968 Keskusteluseura Psyke becomes the first registered queer association. It later starts to publish a magazine "96" for queer people.
These literary works and formal associations might seem boring compared to the "first pride was a riot" we hear from America. But the truth is that these published materials slowly moved people's opinions, and in 1971 "gay acts" were no longer a crime.
Also reminder that our nowadays well known and beloved gay icon Touko Laaksonen, "Tom of Finland" started his career in 1956 by publishing his art with that pen name in a magazine based in USA, because that stuff was still illegal in Finland, and even publishing with his real name could have got him into trouble before the law changed. But damn it he found a way to get them published anyway.
The moral of this history; never underestimate the power of a pen. A writing or a drawing can be a part of a change you want to see happening.
I continue to be annoyed by the fact that rather than peg the timing of the Helsinki Pride to any of these, or other local queer history events, the organisers chose the timing based the Stonewall riots.
Not only is it enough for the Americans to culturally colonise us, we eagerly do it ourselves.

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