SCHLOND POOFA

Especially if we're dealing with country-level shit. There's not one totally good country on the planet. Not one. Okay? So if you respond to a victory in the US or something cool that Norway did or positive news out of Germany with "yeah but [country] is a nightmare actually because [things that are happening]," you are not doing anybody any favors.

You're just being a tar pit.

And don't fucking turn this into apologia for the bad shit countries do. That's not what I'm fucking saying.

number of notes this post has: nearly 30,000

number of notes i thought it would get: idk, 15?

number of people it actually takes to start interpersonal bullshit according to the notes: average is probably around 11 lol

why i chose 100: i thought back to the only fandom i was ever in with 0 discourse (at least none that was scary), and it was for green lantern the animated series, a fandom made up of approximately 20 women, 10 non binary people, and a dream. which is probably why it got cancelled after one season, but i digress. so, probably less than 100, but more than 30

top three groups that have been mentioned in terms of hardcore wank: third place- religion second place- sports first place- yarn, apparently!

number of xkcd comics this post is getting compared to: 2 (915 and 1095)

not opening the comments

letting people be wrong

letting people be wrong about YOU

letting people have a bad impression of you (see above)

knowing when your input isn't needed

spotting bot comments

Annie Glass

sometimes you gotta show up to a fandom 4 years late with Starbucks