βpeople pleasers are all manipulative self-martyring assholes who need to get a gripβ people pleasing is a pattern of behaviour that develops as a fear response because of what has happened when youβve failed to please others. and sure this can be detrimental to being able to have healthy relationships as an adult and it should be something that is slowly worked on over time. but letβs not pretend every people pleaser on the planet is doing it because theyβre sick and twisted on purpose























