I Won't Let Them Take Him

nip over to troy, bit of rough and tumble, big horse, bish bash bosh, back home to ithaca. simple as

Jean Grey’s unstoppable rage vs Peter Parker’s immovable kindness

starklings are funny bc the kids that look like catelyn are more like ned but the kids who look like ned are more like catelyn hashtag n+c=j is real

The joy I genuinely felt explaining to my family who Frank Castle is and why the movie did such a great job portraying him and his relationship with Peter/Spiderman, and why Peter sacrificing himself for Jean Grey was so fucking good because FINALLY someone is protecting her instead of treating her like a disobedient mutt that needs to be collared or put down, and Frank almost losing Peter because of his "shoot first, ask questions later" mentality having a bigger impact on Frank than any debate/argument they had about his use of lethal force, and Peter sharing his memory of Aunt May's unconditional love for him with Jean so that she can understand that his apology is not only sincere but he's always seen her as a person, and then Jean using her powers to keep him alive because he's the one person in her life since her sister died who showed genuine care and concern for her, I'M A MESS 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Everything that can remember, forgets...

its not my fault that sex noises and pain/fear noises sound exactly the same

I think when you correctly identify a trauma that is the base of a woe of yours it should just disappear. It should be like "aaahh. you got me" and vanish and leave 100 dollars behind

one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard (for myself, at least) is that if you're in a terrible mood and NOTHING is helping, then start doing the chores/responsibilities/job stuff/etc that you've been putting off. Will it put you in an even worse mood temporarily? Probably, but you're already pissed off, so you might as well double up on it at that point 😭 there's no loss. It's not like finally getting around to cleaning the house and scheduling appointments is going to ruin the good day that you aren't currently having to begin with 💀 And then, when the bad mood passes, you'll have gotten shit done and you'll feel a lot better later, even if in the moment you're having The Worst Time Ever about it.

Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.

Really though, what was that about? I don’t know is a valid answer. It communicates very clearly that the child cannot answer your question, and therefore maybe needs more help understanding the question/situation. Why do you try and push them to give an answer they don’t have? That stresses them out and it makes them feel like they’re being punished for not knowing something.

i thought i was the only one with an “i don’t know” problem because my parents made it seem it was the strangest and also most horrible thing in the world. i genuinely didn’t know and they got angry and that only blocked my thoughts more which meant i didn’t know the answer to anything else.

THIS ^^^

Also “I don’t know” is a commonly used sentence for children with ADHD/Autism. We DON’T know why we can’t do our homework. We DON’T know why we can’t eat certain foods sometimes. We DON’T know why we forgot to do a chore. It’s really distressing when you genuinely don’t know and people think you’re just lying or indifferent

rbing again to boost my description! please make sure to rb this with a description! its a bit painfully ironic to see a video about blind people without a description... yknow, so visually impaired people can access it