Like all you have to say, is like: I don't think any off the available options are suitable for me, it's too expensive for me, I am not comfortable with the surgery, I have medical restrictions, I am fine with what I have, or like the million other completely valid reasons. But the moment it goes into hating on the results, or surgery, or calling it ugly etc, that's when I get mad.

Like I have seen so much of like calling it ugly or like a swollen sausage. Like my horrible summer child, a fucking sausage and two easter eggs painted by a four year old, would be better then what I have there right now.

Then when bisexuals spoke up and were like "hey we actually do experience homophobia because we are often perceived as queer. Also I'm really uncomfortable with how I'm being treated in my own community" but I responded by spouting statistics about corrective rape and violence against lesbians (despite the fact they never denied the suffering of lesbians), while ignoring their actual objection, we could agree that would be a horrible and biphobic thing to do?

^ I don't do stuff like this normally but I saw a mutual reposts this + think Deltarune fans should be extremely wary interacting with this user.

He has drawn multiple Carol x Dess artworks & fantasizes about their dynamic publicly on BlueSky, however, he deleted the artworks after backlash. He claims he is "coping" with trauma but this does not excuse the obviously fetishistic & sexualised artwork he has made.

I was worried about making a post like this but I do not feel comfortable with this user having an audience in the Deltarune community, as someone with a sibling who loves Deltarune.

Trigger warning for: incest, implied sexual abuse/rape under the cut ⬇️

The response has been overwhelming so I moved to my reblog account. I was scared to open my inbox bc I know what certain users can be like but I'm pleasantly surprised.

I know that Salem is a huge account & has a lot of fans so I may have made a portion of this website my enemy, however, I'd rather be disliked than let someone who's drawn incest roam freely in a community with a sizeable fanbase of minors. It would've been dishonest at best to hold onto everything & stay quiet. I'm glad people are in agreement that this is a genuine issue at least ❤️

^ I don't do stuff like this normally but I saw a mutual reposts this + think Deltarune fans should be extremely wary interacting with this user.

He has drawn multiple Carol x Dess artworks & fantasizes about their dynamic publicly on BlueSky, however, he deleted the artworks after backlash. He claims he is "coping" with trauma but this does not excuse the obviously fetishistic & sexualised artwork he has made.

I was worried about making a post like this but I do not feel comfortable with this user having an audience in the Deltarune community, as someone with a sibling who loves Deltarune.

Trigger warning for: incest, implied sexual abuse/rape under the cut ⬇️

Like are we deadass??? We're okay with racists using black people's art?? We're okay with racists changing the original context of the song?? We're all okay with racists taking a black mans song out of context on juneteenth?!?!?!?

What matters to me in regards to bigotry is if they treat others badly based on immutable traits in everyday life, not in the privacy of their own bedrooms or in adult only-gated kink communities online.

All forms of kinkplay, but especially BDSM, are founded on consent and safety.

If something gets too heavy in regards to the couple's impactplay, whether or not it involves a kink you don't like, the concept of safewords exist to stop the play immediately to assess what went wrong.

If something was a little too raw in regards to the couple's degredation kinkplay, whether or not it involves a kink you don't like, the concept of aftercare exists to help the pair review their sessions to address what insults they were and weren't comfortable with.

Alongside consent and safety, risk-awareness is paramount to all kinkplay activities. So even if a couple decide to forgo safewords and/or aftercare, they are still able to assess the risks in doing so and can leave the relationship if their styles don't align.

Because if one person refuses to let the other leave or bring what should've been harmless roleplay into everyday life against their consent, then that person would be correctly identified as an abuser. Regardless of their skin color or whether or not they enjoy a kink you don't like.

if someone is only racist amongst their friends, is it judgmental to say that they're racist? they're not racist anywhere else right? how about if they're only racist on the internet, but not in real life? if they're only racist on a private forum but normal everywhere else, does it stop making the racism racist? if a white guy yells nigger in a forest and nobody is around to hear it... etc. etc. etc. the foundation of the idea that bigotry as expressed in sex is simply different from other expressions of bigotry is cognitive dissonance the whole way down.

All forms of kinkplay, but especially BDSM, are founded on consent and safety.

this is a giant cope. the reason why these kinks require everyone to harp on about how much they care about consent and safety is because they are so easily abused and continue to be so. the framework that these principles are fundamental to the practice simply exists to allow people to No True Scotsman their way out of acknowledging how rampant abuse is within kink dynamics by simply asserting that the people using them to abuse others aren't doing Real kink. they're Bad people doing Wrong and Abusive kink, there couldn't possibly be anything wrong with kink itself!

in spite of harping on about how consent and safety are paramount, in the same way that most society seeks to protect rapists and abusers while ostracising and blaming their victims, kink communities protect those who violate these "foundational" rules and actively work to push out their victims. the whole missing stair allegory was first written because a BDSM community that the guy who coined it belonged to kept a literal rapist around rather than rocking the boat. because that is what our misogynistic society does, and kink communities are no exception, even if many people like to pretend they're somehow better.

the fact that you're even bringing up safewords feels like kind of a joke. even active kink practitioners have written at length about how a safeword isn't some sort of panacea for all the potential of "consent accidents". here is just one point: if someone is deeply uncomfortable, in pain, or triggered, their first instinct is not to reach in their mind to yell Pineapple, it is to use the language they use in their everyday life. here here's a decade old article that I don't even fully agree with of a woman talking about that exact thing.

"I feel like my penis/my Manhood as a symbol is smaller than Black man's" becomes "Black men have oversized penises and are sexually insatiable beasts."

"I am sexually attracted to, fetishizing, and feel entitled to Black women's bodies" becomes "well she's asking for it, look at how she looks, Black women are always more openly sexual."

"I am afraid of approaching Black men" becomes "Black men are a threat."

"I am afraid of approaching Black women" becomes "Black women are always angry."

"I am not smart enough/not qualifed enough/can't beat my white counterparts professionally" becomes "DEI and affirmative action are letting those Blacks steal my position in school/jobs!"

you said "white women are not fighting for liberation. They are fighting for equal access to white supremacy. White gays are not fighting for LGBT rights they’re fighting for equal access to white privilege. Poor whites are not fighting for economic equality, they’re fighting for equal access to white privilege..."

when you say they're not fighting for X, they're fighting for equal access to white privilege what does that mean exactly? my current interpretation is that white supremacy is baked into a lot of modern western society and as it currently stands seeking equality in this society would mean benefiting from white supremacy, am I correct in this reading?

While it is true that white supremacy is a core pillar of the modern world, when non-white minorities are seeking equality, particularly when Black people are seeking equality, there is a certain level of “undoing “that is required for that equality to come about. So it would not be accurate to say that equality equates to benefiting from white supremacy in that when Black people achieve equality, there is a natural undoing of white supremacist structures.  the dream of the oppressed is not equality under white supremacist standards, but rather true equality outside of those norms. 

The Proud Merch owning Pedophile, Zoophile, Necrophile, and Little Girl Lover Ellie Barrow of Kirkwood Community College from Marion, Iowa,

OOPS!

hey so like. “I don’t give a shit if children are exposed to sexual content” I literally have the most damning screenshot rn.

@decentpersonsuggestions @britts-galaxy-brain so you guys have the most recent archived version. We can’t get rid of these folk fast enough for the safety of others. I’ll be reporting to the college tomorrow and requesting police intervention. Child autonomy eh? Interesting choice of words.