🏳️‍⚧️ he/them 5'1" 40s fat white bi mostly MLM 👬

says a lot of nsfw stuff

and uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

hmmmmmm

I didn't know that

First off I would recommend adding the 'knight kink' and 'knight nsft' tags to your filters, that should keep most of the unwanted content off your dash

Then I would add, be not afraid to use the block button liberally

It is not mean or judgy to block someone, you are not bullying anyone or excluding them or causing a scene or 'starting something'. You are literally just making smart decisions about what you do and don't want to appear on your dash.

Blocking a user simply because you would prefer not to see some of the content they are posting, for any reason, is always 1000% okay.

I am arachnophobic so I immediately block anyone who posts anything about spiders because do not want. Those posters aren't bad people! I want them to live their best lives and find spider loving friends so they can all geek out about how great spiders are together! I'm so glad that there are people in the world who love spiders enough to make up for how bad I have to scream when I see one! I'm grateful to them for existing and I absolutely do not want their hobby on my dash.

Anyone who is old enough to be posting nsfw stuff should also be mature enough to understand that some users are going to block them just to keep the nsfw stuff off their feeds. They will not feel offended if they should somehow ever realise you've blocked them (but they almost certainly will just never realise you've blocked them).

(i am less than 5 feet tall...)

At 5'1" have literally never dated anyone shorter than me nor even anyone the same height

Including all the way back to when I was 14 and had a "sometimes we hold hands when nobody is looking" thing going on with the girl next door, she was 12 and already fucking taller than me

based on this post:

And body autonomy does include things that you don’t personally like either. I was prompted to write this post after a series of bad takes from progressives, but one of them was re-hashing the Sabrina Carpenter album cover drama with “I don’t think it’s conservative of me to think that the album cover is a bad look when we’ve seen images of women being abused in this way” because I do actually think you’ve failed to understand feminism by projecting your morals onto a woman who was consensually expressing her own autonomy just because she expressed it in a way that you didn’t like or that made you uncomfortable.

Body autonomy also means unhealthy choices. Body autonomy also means regret rates. Body autonomy also means freedom of sexuality. Body autonomy also means mutilation. If you believe body autonomy has limitations and exceptions, then your feminism is most likely surface level.

What counts as mutilation is purely subjective, and based on someone’s own discomfort, and should have absolutely no tangible impact on what someone else can choose to do with their body.

“It’s not anti-feminist to not want people to mutilate themselves” it literally is, because you’re drawing your own line on what counts as mutilation based on personal preferences and taking away the control and autonomy of someone you do not know in order to play saviour and “protect” them.

And if you can’t hear how you sound exactly like the fucking patriarchy, then I can’t help you.

I didn’t see it as Shane being upset or angry with Ilya or him being traumatised by the lack of affection (I’ve genuinely seen this take.) - I saw it as Shane being upset/angry with himself for wanting more. He types out the text, deletes it, and then says ‘fuck’- because he’s started to realise he wants more, whatever ‘more’ is, and cannot have it.

At this point in the narrative, Shane is still in denial about his feelings, still not putting a name to them. The feelings are there- he just can’t articulate them. For me, it perfectly compliments the scene where Ilya is staring himself down in the mirror during the Rose Landry shit- Ilya is angry at himself, not Shane.

Neither one of them thinks they could have more with the other, because it’s an impossible situation- it doesn’t stop them wanting.

It’s crucial as well to note that neither of them really blames the other- that’s why each time there’s a setback, they’re incredibly quick to forgive. They both understand what the situation is.

I feel like saying Shane was led on or taken advantage of completely strips him of his agency. They both take what they can get of the other, whenever they can get it, because it’s a comfort to both of them.

But these days, as my hair grows to kiss my shoulders, I find great comfort in it. As my shaggy haircut grows out, I am left with longer and longer layers that I am, once again, able to braid -- and oh, how I adore braids in my hair.

I braid my hair with my eyes closed and my breath soft. I think of love. I think of kinship. I think of trees, and rivers, and the sun above me. I weave together the strands of my hair with a silent prayer of devotion to myself and the world I live in.

Braids give me the biggest swell of euphoria in my chest. Braids make me feel so masculine and androgynous and feminine at the same time. They make me feel strong. They make me feel tender. They make me feel like myself.