Sea-chord

An interesting game where you are presented with 10 artifacts from the MET. You have to place where the artifact is from and what time period it is from. Each artifact scores up to 10,000 points, and you lose points the further away your guess is and how far off in time you are. You can only play once a day. Thanks to @baebeylik for showing this to me.

Today I scored really well. Yesterday ... not so much.

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63.577 · top 52% of players today!

Shambhu does not look too happy.

Ann Macbeth 

every march 15 in rome they restage the assassination at torre argentina. you know. the literal ruins of the curia of pompey. the exact place where it actually happened in 44 BCE.

and then they put his body on a litter and do a whole funeral procession through the city. with professional mourners and everything. they literally blocked traffic for this.

like imagine missing your bus because rome decided to re-kill julius caesar today.

I don't mean obvious examples like "well duh everyone's heard the name Jesus Christ" (although that does still affect us! Walk into a room with 100 Mexican women and say "Necesito María?" and at least a third of them will stand up!), but things like...notice how they can still reenact the exact same walk as 2000 years ago? These are still the streets those senators walked. That same stage was in a grand building and stained with blood. The onlookers here are in modern clothes and holding cameras, but the crowds and the noise and the shouting and the sound of ten thousand footsteps? That's exactly the same. That's what it really would have been like.

When history is a real, visceral, bloody, beating thing, not relegated to dusty books and associated mostly with nerds and being boring, it's so much easier to see how it's not a matter of "beginning, middle, and end" but rather a messy and continuous confluence of actions that might only matter for five minutes or might echo across five millennia and there's no way to know when it happens which it's going to be. Half a dozen people might see this addition and go "huh. Neat" and then the thought gets relegated to the depths of tumblr, or someone might see it and go ".....oh shit this is cool" and decide to look into it more and fifteen years from now they're getting a Ph.D in history and just uncovered some major historical context that literally rewrites the history books, and nobody ever even knows it was because a random person on Tumblr got really excited about an assassination of Caesar reenactment.

Learn more history. Bring more history to life.

in my case it definitely helps that I teach kids martial arts classes at a boxing gym with a lot of women. so little boys just factually cannot tell me that girls can't fight or aren't strong or something, because they're constantly surrounded by proof that isn't true. also rules are very different in a boxing gym so if a kid is being a little shit I'm allowed to pick them up and put them in upside down air jail. you probably can't do this in most contexts.

I think the biggest thing is that they need to see men and other boys listening to women. they're following the example that's been set for that. at home maybe their dad never listens to their mom, but when they show up at my class all the other boys are following my instructions. peer pressure is real and you can use it to your advantage. I make a point to tell the biggest buffest manliest dudes what to do in front of the little boys. now this works because those dudes already listen to me, but getting any dudes to follow your instructions could probably work.

the best punishment is the natural consequences of your behavior. if a kid isn't going to listen to me, he doesn't get to do class. this works because class is fun and he wants to kick stuff and hit people with noodles. kids want to have fun more than they want to misbehave. as long as listening to me is more fun than misbehaving, they'll listen.

because these boys are learning this behavior from their dads, the dads also tend to be the kind of tough strict emotionally distant parents that would yell at "girly" behavior or crying. even when I'm strict with the kids, I never yell, I obviously never hurt them, and I always listen. they want to yap at me about pokemon or youtubers. it can be tough when they're really sexist at the beginning but eventually they will show you something that their dad wouldn't approve of, whether they want a pink noodle or quietly mention they like a girly show. this is the part where you simultaneously act like it's no big deal while encouraging it. you need show it's completely normal for a boy to want or like that. if you can, bring up another boy or man they know who likes the same thing. I always show off my nails to the kids and bring over the guy who also paints his nails. you'll probably get "boys can do that?" comments and I usually just go "well he's a boy and he did it, so unless his hand falls off right now I think it's okay"

for me, it's always eventually gotten to a point where the boys realize that everyone else thinks it's normal to listen to women, and that if they want to have fun they need to listen too. they also realize that these people and these women are nicer and listen to them more than their dad does. they notice how all these nice people that make them happy talk to women very differently than their dad does. when those boys yelled at their dads for being rude to me, I made a point to thank them and say that they were right and their dads were rude.