So much of what is “cringe” is just… earnest.
what if you made an honest expression of genuine human emotion and someone saw it!
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So much of what is “cringe” is just… earnest.
what if you made an honest expression of genuine human emotion and someone saw it!

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“i don’t hate this lolcow because they’re disabled i hate them because they’ve done bad things!” okay then why are all your comments about their mannerisms or physical appearance or hygiene
very controversial opinion here, but sometimes customer service workers are the problem 😶
no, you shouldn't be expected to be polite to customers because they're customers. you should be expected to be polite to customers because they are people
like, a person with a stutter trying to order or an old lady asking you for help with a chair is not rude customer behavior. you are not excused for being nasty to them because you work in customer service
The "just don't be an asshole" rule strikes again
you get little cultural (sometimes social justice-) memes about which categories of people you get to be systematically annoyed at- or mean to, or whatever little outlet for rightous rudeness and casual cruelty, but at the end of the day maybe just don't lose sight of "don't be an asshole"
I overheard a coworker at the college who works essentially customer service for students mocking people with a mean voice who want their names changed or fixed on their records. For what? Why? Why be an asshole over someone's NAME? Why is it bad to want your name correct on student records?
And the funniest part of that is I'm a student worker and my name is fucked in the system. So they were mocking me directly without knowing? 😭
I say this as someone who worked food service and retail for many, many years and is fully aware of how awful and soul destroying working customer service can be, but:
I think people also often forget that power dynamics don't always fully favor the customer, and sometimes power dynamics can be tilted in the favor of the customer service worker and subsequently abused. Able bodied customer service workers can be, and often are, ableist to disabled customers. White customer service workers can be, and often are, racist towards customers of color. Customer service workers who are men can be, and often are, sexist towards customers who are women. Customer service workers who are non-immigrants can be, and often are, xenophobic towards immigrant customers. Shall I go on? That's obviously not an exhaustive list and I could very well go on.
When I worked retail I had a co-worker scream at a little old lady and kick her out of the store because she spoke to him in a language he didn't speak. I saw her face as she was leaving and she looked so shaken up like she was about to cry. I've overheard so many of my co-workers calling customers racial slurs behind their back. Once again, I could go on, but I feel like my addition here is already getting long enough.
Yes, you should be able to stand up to customers who are being unreasonable jerks, you should be able to refuse service to customers who are being unreasonable jerks. But the ones who aren't doing anything harmful you should still be nice to, not because it's your job, but because they're a human being.
Substack as a platform is so immensely frustrating. It's encouraged a revival of independent, long(ish)form blogging, which is great, that's a genuine public service, but why couldn't this have happened on a site that's actually functional and readable? Why couldn't it have been on a site that allows you to load the text and scroll through it like a normal person instead of waiting on every scroll action for the browser to mine enough bitcoin to render the next two paragraphs? Why couldn't it have been on a site that does footnotes with the HTML anchor links that have been a solved problem for 30 years instead of a nonsensical js-based interface that doesn't work at all on my phone? Why couldn't it have had comments that you can just read instead of constantly clicking into subthreads and then losing your place when you go back and the page reloads?
I think part of the problem is the "newsletter" branding, a conceit that interferes with the site's actual function. Substack is a blogging platform that refuses to call itself one, which is probably related to its failure to implement very basic blogging features like tagging and searching. Building a functional blogging platform is actually not a massively difficult technical challenge, and it's not something that ever needed a bottom-up reinvention. Why can't you just realize what your site is for and then do it well?
WHY DOES EVERY SINGLE ONE HAVE A POP-UP ASKING YOU TO SUBSCRIBE BEFORE YOU'VE EVEN READ THE THING.
I just stumbled upon an Instagram reel that said something like "I'm probably trans but I'm too much of a misandrist to accept it" with thousands of likes (including a couple of irl friends of mine who know that I'm a trans man...) but sure the queer community doesn't have a problem with men and masculinity and the radfem rhetoric that's been allowed to prosper in queer and feminist spaces these past years is not harmful to trans men at all (/s)

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Also this is what I mean when I'm always harping on how black characters are often labeled uninteresting by fans and often *made* uninteresting by creators: I have said so many times that there is no reason xyz white boy character trope cannot be black.
Sephiroth is an interesting, complicated, complex, character who serves as a direct foil to at least two different characters within the story he resides- and technically he's only half white/white-passing because his dad sure is Asian, but the other two are 100% white.
And there's really no reason Seph, Aerith, and Zack can't be black. In fact, in the remake, Barrett being the party's only black guy is the next most sensitive to the planet's fluctuations of the humans, so there's even a strong implication that Barrett *being black* is closer to the Cetra than any of the rest of the party, which means Aerith *really* has no reason to not be at least half black.
And yet Aerith gets derided and abused by the fandom for being a woman (there's also no reason that any of these characters can't be women BUT I digress), and Barret gets completely ignored and neglected for being black.
Alabaster shares a lot of traits with Sephiroth- he's even described as handsome and thin and lanky within the narrative, and is just a little bit older than Seph at that. He shares much of the same traumas, he copes much along the same self-destructive lines, and he commits much of the same acts of mass destruction albeit in slightly different contexts due to the slightly different way their worlds work. The trope is very strong with both, and the major difference is that Sephiroth *didn't know and finds out and breaks* vs Alabaster who *did know and broke a long time ago and finally has had enough*.
But actually, their major difference is that Seph is extremely pale, almost artificially doll-like (much like Alabaster's beloved Antimony), while Bast is dark, dark, dark skinned, almost true black instead of brown, so black he's basically blue-black. They point out the irony in naming such a dark skinned man after a white stone more than once. He himself thinks it's funny. There's an implication that *he* named *himself* that.
Every time I say there's no reason that the innocent and somewhat naive and traumatized little girl can't be black, I will think of Damaya. Every time I see a Sansa Stark or Yennifer, I will think of Syenite. Every time I play as a woman whose entire life has been torn apart and she just has to keep putting one foot in front of the other because her only other option is to curl up somewhere and let herself die, I will think of Essun.
There's no reason these interesting and complex characters can't be black. There's no reason they can't be women. Hell, there's not even a reason they can't be trans- not with the plucky and nerdy and bubbly Tonkee.
Black people aren't a different species. We're just people.
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it doesn't even matter how good a service has been, if you make it really difficult to find the button to unsubscribe from it my impression is immediately fouled
So one of my beliefs about stories is that the good mechanics, tropes, whatever you call them, are discovered as much as invented. and there's no reason to believe the first person to discover it will use it well, anymore than the first person to discover sound recording was much of a singer.
Star Wars discovered that "psychic samurai in space" was a compelling idea. Miraculous discovered that double secret identity romances were compelling. Neither is actually very good, and the parts that get close are those gesturing at using the ideas well.
I don't think these are great literary motifs, more close to being newly discovered artificial flavoring. Popcorn entertainment's new flavor of butter. But they are satisfying, enjoyable.
I'm curious what other newly discovered things in writing we've seen over the last century.

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you can believe victims about what they experienced and also not want to torch the lives of the people they've accused without proof. that is a space you can walk in and usually it's not even that hard. I say this as a survivor of domestic violence. "believe victims" doesn't mean get torches and pitchforks any more than "innocent until proven guilty" means victims are lying. please please learn this "believe victims" isn't about the perpetrators it's about the victims
A lot of lesbians I know subscribe very intensely to the ideas that lesbian sexuality is fundamentally different from and better than straight cis man sexuality (the allowances specifically carve out all queer people as okay).
I’d just like to establish that basically everything they claim appeals only to straight men appeals to me also, and that I will relentlessly defend the honor of my noble hip bones & anime girls
#this is one of the pillar beliefs of radical feminists btw#bc lesbians wanted a reason for feminists to not be turned off by the idea of lesbian sex#they proposed it to be much more pure than sex involving men
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If the system ain't broke, don't fix it, I guess! Accounting may not be the oldest profession, but someone had to keep the books for them.
I mean, in theory I know that Excel is based on the structure of earlier accounting technology that's been around for hundreds of years -- what do we think we did to track commerce before computers? -- but it still kind of blows my mind to, for example, look at my ancestor's journal from a whaling voyage in 1770 and see spreadsheets in the back.
According to the book I'm reading, proto-Cuneiform writing seems to have actually started as spreadsheets to keep track of resources rather than as a way to record language or express ideas.
The administrators of that extremely early city had to keep track of lots of things, and doing this by memory alone was a nightmare. These spreadsheets were devised as a solution to that as an evolution of an earlier system that used clay tokens and balls.
Spreadsheets are older than written language as we currently understand it.
solipcyst is a puzzle game/visual novel about being a, really really bad therapist to vulnerable women. i am making it for the toxic yuri vn jam (phoenix wright-alikes are visual novels right) (rhetorical). as you can tell by my silly mockup i do not intend to use ai for this. i will instead be likely press ganging my lovely wife into making art assets for it, or i might use google images placeholders, we'll see, and doing all the writing and coding myself, since those are two things i like doing anyway.
anyway percieve my amazing digital mockup
Decided to splurge on Paralives, and I am beyond thrilled to report that I can make a fat Para with tits, a beard, AND acne across both face and body.
This shouldn't be as big a deal as it is, but did I tear up a little? MAYBE.
Literally my only complaint is that you can only select between she/her, he/him, and they/them pronouns. No neos, no option to add your own, no multiples. But it's early access and I have hope they'll add more if people request it. Which I will be doing.

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