waiting for my spaceship to come back for me

heartwarming: your mutual is 30

“why are you, as someone in their 30s, still on tumblr” oh so you think you’re gonna be normal when you’re my age? you think you’re gonna be CURED?? you think the witches’ curse will have been lifted by then?? cmon now

stop calling it a girl dinner and call it by its formal name: Fend For Yourself dinner in an ingredients household

sometimes its like. i would love to not have to think about gender and misogyny all the time but on account of us living on the Gender and Misogyny Planet i cant do that. so

it's sorta funny (ignoring the horrors) that cis people can't be trusted with a deadname. any time someone tells me theirs I've forgotten it five minutes later, if you had names for your toes that would be far more interesting to me, but cis people get real "if you give a mouse a cookie" about it it

the notes on this have cis people trying to justify themselves and trans people worried every cis person will be like this and i just want to say that i'm a cis person who has gone by a nickname of my birth name for my entire life and it is not that hard to apply the same principles to trans people's deadnames. like i also go by a different name than the one on my birth certificate. i have a few people who still call me it (it's a family name, my grandparents use it) the same way that a trans person who's not out to everyone might. if you can call someone tom instead of thomas or liz instead of elizabeth then you can call trans people by their names without being weird, there's no excuse

this disability pride month lets be kinder to folks with moral ocd . no more “if you really care about this minority , you’ll reblog this post” , “someone will die if you don’t reblog this” , etc etc , and all other kinds of guilt tripping reblog bait . at the VERY LEAST tag your reblog bait so we can filter it out and avoid unnecessary spirals . it’s 2026 , we need to move past using guilt to get engagement .

if you live in the US, all of them!

Reblog this and tell me what was your biggest crying over a piece of fiction. You can be vague if you don't want to spoil.

btw. your search for the most morally upright and ethical piece of media that has the most correct “representation” will destroy your ability to find the most profound and beautiful and human of stories. and may even destroy the stories themselves before they are created. if you even care.

one thing you need to know about 2014. is that what does the fox say was playing pretty much everywhere you went. and everybody was just relieved it wasn't blurred lines

I canot stress enough that those were the only 2 songs in 2014