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This is not a little doodle. This. THIS. This is fucking MAGIC. You have captured pure wonder and whimsy and romance and bliss and that almost melancholy wholeness when you look up at the sky and just feel the smallness of your being and the grandness of the universe. All this captured with a loverβs eye. We cannot see her face but I feel the tender passionate ardour for this petite but mighty creature in the world. While at the same time I feel the bittersweet swoon of wanting to be gazed upon myself with such whole and overwhemling admiration and love. It is goddamn masterful.
I am fucking following your tumblr charliebowater you are amazing.
I often think about that post that was a fake dating profile for a cat that was all about chickens, like wanting someone with posable thumbs for opening chickens.
As in almost all cases, this isn't a case of a computer DELIBERATELY being made to discriminate, it's a case of a computer RECKLESSLY being made to discriminate. Which isn't even a tiny bit better, but is an important distinction for when we talk about the dangers of this kind of thing.
AI is trained off of available data. Available data is about the real world, where racism and sexism and all that shit exists. Unless you carefully put effort into making sure that bigotry is EXCLUDED from the training, it will by default be included.
We've known this forever. There is no excuse. They don't bother, or they do a shitty job at it, because they want to make more money and carefully curating your own custom dataset without racism in it is not only extremely difficult, but very expensive.
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So funny story actually. One of my friends was hooking up with this girl, they were friends with benefits. She needed a date for some work party so he agreed to go with her. Turns out her dad owns like 3 dental practices and she worked as the business manager for one of them.
Anyway my friend had some not so nice teeth and during dinner the father of his fwb was like βyou work where you work, you sleep with him and his teeth look like that? Get him an appointment.βand then bounced. So his fwb made him an appointment at the practice she managed and my friend ended up needing like 3k worth of dental work and his friend with benefits just gave it to him for free.
So that is the story of how my friend not only got sex, but dental out of the friends with benefits deal.
Men who talk shit about gold diggers underestimate the grit it takes to put up with an insufferable man, even when money is involved. We should be thanking them for their service like they are veterans.
so do people know that multiple trans people across the US have reported that their pharmacists have arbitrarily denied them testosterone prescriptions, either because "you need authorization" or "company policy" or, in states where its legal, because they don't feel comfortable giving it to them.
i wouldn't be surprised if its also common for this to happen with estrogen, i found one news story on a trans woman experiencing this, but looking it up there seems to be a LOT of cases of this happening with testosterone. which makes me suspect people feel empowered to do this with T in particular because of its criminalized status. regardless, i do not see this brought up much! and i think we should discuss it more, at the very least to prepare people in case they experience this, so they know how to handle the situation.
examples below the cut for length:
Walgreens says pharmacist was uncomfortable with injection method
For Tristan Martin, a 34-year-old trans man living in North Austin, that fear became a reality last week when a Walgreens pharmacist refused to fill his testosterone prescription.
Martin says his pharmacistβs explanation for not filling his prescription was that she was uncomfortable with the doctorβs instruction that the medicine be administered subcutaneously, meaning as a shallow injection under the skin. But, as Martin explained to the pharmacist, heβs taken the same meds for four years, with the same method, and never heard such an objection. Plus, Martin said that the pharmacist was only being asked to provide the testosterone itself, not the equipment necessary to administer it. He later attempted to reach Walgreensβ pharmacy department and store manager to ask about the situation but wasnβt able to reach anyone and never got any calls back.
A store employee told the Chronicle they could not address the dispute. Tristanβs wife, Hayden Martin, said she received an apology from a Walgreens regional healthcare supervisor, after the supervisor contacted her on May 23. βHe said there was absolutely wrongdoing and that itβs going to get figured out,β Hayden said. βHe said he was going to reach out to the higher-ups and heβs going to let me know by Friday what happens.β
Hayden Martin told us she was able to contact the pharmacist in question two days after the refusal to fill the prescription. βShe would not give a reason as to why she felt the doctor was wrong,β Hayden said. βAnd she said, βIβm not comfortable filling it for βher.β So automatically the assumption is that itβs just an issue of her not being comfortable with the fact that itβs testosterone for a trans man. So I, of course, asked her if this was the reason β because heβs a trans man β and she got very defensive and denied it. And then I tried asking for her name and her license number and she said, βWell, thatβs not important information.ββ
Walgreens Pharmacist Denies Gender Affirming Meds, But Other Options Exist
Recently, one of our readers, who wishes to go unnamed, sent us the following email:
On the 24th when I went to pick up my testosterone prescription at the Walgreens on Lomas & Carlisle, I was asked by the pharmacist why I took it, and when I told him it was gender affirming, he told me he wouldnβt fill it going forwardβ¦ I want other trans+ folks in our neighborhood to know that this is not a safe pharmacy (I donβt regret reacting by sobbing loudly in the middle of a Walgreens, but I donβt want anyone else to have to go through that), and I want all our cis neighbors to know that this is a thing that is happening.
We reached out to the Walgreens location, and the person who answered (and who we will keep anonymous) confirmed that there is a pharmacist on staff who refuses to fill prescriptions for gender affirming medication due to their beliefs. However, they clarified that other pharmacists at the location would fill a gender affirming prescription if they were on duty, or the prescription could be filled at other Walgreens locations. Unfortunately, they were not able to provide further information as to the pharmacistβs name or when their shifts might be.
A year after KC investigation, another trans customer turned away from Costco pharmacy
The cityβs Civil Rights and Equal Opportunity Department launched an investigation in October 2022 after a Star report about five transgender and nonbinary people who said they were denied their prescribed testosterone at the pharmacy. Costco denied the allegations. [...]
Dave, whose name has been changed in this story to protect his identity as a transgender man, was grocery shopping at the Linwood Boulevard Costco on Monday when he decided to pick up some syringes.
Dave has used insulin syringes for years to take his prescribed testosterone β their thin needles make his regular injections less painful.
These small syringes donβt require a prescription, making them easy to obtain β and Costco offers a bulk pack of 100 at a nice discount compared to other pharmacies.
At first, the transaction was painless: Dave asked for a pack of syringes and an employee asked him his preferred size and gauge. But when he mentioned that he uses them to inject testosterone, the tone of the conversation shifted abruptly.
βThey got weird about it,β Dave said. βThe pharmacist, I guess, overheard and she came out and sheβs like, this wonβt work for testosterone.β
Dave explained that he has used these syringes for his testosterone injections for years β and has even bought the same syringes at that Costco pharmacy before for the same purpose.
Insulin syringes are regularly used to inject low doses of testosterone. But despite being an over-the-counter product, the pharmacist insisted that Dave needed a prescription before she would sell them to him.
βSheβs like, well, we wonβt sell it to you unless you have your doctor call it in,β Dave recalled. He stepped aside to call his doctorβs office, but they were closed for Mondayβs holiday. βI didnβt feel like arguing (with the pharmacist). So I just left.β
An assistant general manager at the Linwood Costco said Wednesday that he was not aware of the incident and couldnβt comment on it.
A pharmacy employee said that she and her coworkers are not authorized to speak to the media. A request for comment from Costcoβs corporate office was not immediately answered.
Dave called the Missouri Pharmacy Board Tuesday and was told that syringes only require a prescription if they bear the label βfor Rx only,β which his syringes didnβt.
Beyond that, he said he was told that the state gives pharmacists discretion over what they choose to dispense, as long as they donβt violate federal anti-discrimination laws.
On a Saturday night two years ago, Stann Fransisco was driving back home to New Mexico after visiting their parents ...
βCriminalization has made it easy for pharmacists to deny my [testosterone] prescription, which has happened to me many times,β Artemis McGettigan, a trans student in Dearborn, Michigan, told Filter. β[Pharmacists] have told me in the past that βItβs corporate policy, theyβre not allowed to fill that type of prescription β¦ but I knew that was false because other CVS locations, for example, were able to fill it.β A CVS media representative told Filter that its policies βdo not prohibit our pharmacies from filling testosterone prescriptions.β
CVS Pharmacist refused to fill my T
I have been on T for coming up on 3 years. Iβve never had any problems with any pharmacy Iβve gone to. I recently had to switch pharmacies and for over two weeks this pharmacist at CVS has given me the run around. βI need to talk with your doctor about why you need itβ (which Iβve never had happen before). And then the next day would say βI need prior authβ. Itβs been so long without my T that my period came back today and I am freaking out. So I sent a very frantic message to my doctors office. They called me about an hour later telling me the pharmacist sounded fishy and said βIβm not comfortable filling this prescription.β Ok? Your job isnβt to judge my prescription your job is to give me the medication my doctor decided I needed. The doctors office was nice enough to transfer everything to a different CVS close by and even apologized for not getting the pharmacists name. We did call to get his name. My partner is very nice and called corporate to file a complaint and the corporate pharmacist on the phone said that they do have grounds to deny a prescription only if there is not enough info or itβs fake. So they reported it as discrimination. Unfortunately I canβt take legal action or I would. Sorry this is more of a rant than anything. This should be illegal and nobody should work in healthcare if theyβre going to gate-keep health. I truly hope this man gets fired. Iβm trying to file a report to the state board of pharmacists because he can have his license revoked for discrimination. Thanks for listening.
My pharmacy tried to deny me my testosterone
So I called in my prescription on the 2nd and they told me that it would be ready on the 5th. Itβs the 8th today so I called and asked if it was ready yet and the pharmacist told me I needed prior authorization and that my insurance wouldnβt cover it. Thing is, my insurance has covered it for the past two months, which is when I first started T. The pharmacist told me to call my doctor and get the authorization so I did and my doctor said that thereβs no issues on her end, no authorization needed, and that my insurance still covers my prescription so sheβs not sure why he would say that. I end up calling them back and end up speaking to the lady who took my original prescription and she was like βOh my god. I donβt know why he said that to you. Iβm seeing a refill request but nothing that requires an authorization. Iβm gonna send this in today and it should be ready by Fridayβ. I think itβs hilarious too that when I told him my name, he was like βoh youβre (my grandparentβs names) granddaughter!β
CVS for years refused to sell me the needles I need for my T injections (prescription was not required, but they lied and said one was), would say they were out of stock (not when I see the box right there), loudly asked why I need my T when other patient convos were done quietly or not at all, deliberately gave me insulin needles (I need much larger) or sometimes only 1 needle for a multi-dose prescription. (Even for 1 dose, you should have at least 2 needles -- one to draw with and one to inject.) They also "dropped" my vial a few times.
Any one of these could be ignorance/accidents, but these each happened multiple times from 3 locations.
If your clinic does its own dispensing, I highly recommend switching to that for your prescription. If you are worried about needles, get your provider to include the needle info on the scrip. And if you *really* have issues with the needles, buy them in bulk online.
This happens to me all the time. CVS almost universally refuses to fill testosterone prescriptions for gender dysphoria where I live, they make every excuse they can to seem like they're being reasonable. My doctor and I had to shop around for a pharmacy that would fill it, and I have to drive pretty far to the cool chill pharmacy. I live in fear for the day they too start denying my prescription and I have to drive all the way to the costco pharmacy.
Pharmacies are allowed to do this and there's nothing you can do about it.
In 2019, I asked queer people how it felt visiting museums that failed to include queer content.
These were some of their answers:
but when they were represented, they said:
Queer history matters!
We chatted this week on our podcast about these answers β what good queer representation looks like, whatβs changed since 2019, and what still needs to change.
I do need to be serious for just a moment and say that I felt this way for over 2 decades before biting the bullet and saving up for a sleep study. It turned out I had a life long crippling sleep disorder
It has done me irreparable damage not sleeping well for the first 20 years of my life. It IS worth figuring out if there is a deeper underlying issue if you feel like you are not sleeping well. Even knowing if there is something wrong medically or not is a great stepping stone to either managing symptoms if you are going without treatment or figuring out what next might be causing poor sleep.
I sleep SO MUCH BETTER NOW. I wake up and FEEL like I have slept that sleep. I started dreaming, something that I could count on one hand over 20 years before getting treatment. My bones, muscles, and joints hurt less, my eating habits leveled out, I am more emotionally stable and able to focus.
Everyone harps that sleep is important, and logically you probably know that
*takes you gently by the shoulders*
Not sleeping well will literally destroy your body and mind. Please, please, please do the work to figure out how to give yourself the best sleep possible
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It's especially frustrating because republicans support extremely unpopular policies all the time and when polling shows they're unpopular they don't give up or change their minds, they double down and force the other team to compromise or even give up instead.
They are a band of feckless goons who won't stand up for the policies they claim to support. The moment they face the smallest amount of pushback on anything they go further to the right and start talking about how actually they support anti-trans policies and hate immigrants too.
Republicans straight-up make terrorist threats against random entities that are even remotely adjacent to trans people, like children's hospitals or beer companies, and they just give up and drop trans people at the whims of the terrorists.
Would be nice if the rest of that country didn't readily bend the knee to bullies all the time.
Support for gay marriage among Republicans is higher today than it was among Democrats 26 years ago.
And I don't think it's because the gay lobby gave up and went, "Well, I guess we're just going to have to accept that this issue is always going to be too dangerous to take a stand on."
From what I recall similar things happened with issues like interracial marriage. You have to actually fight for unpopular but correct things for them to become less unpopular.
Yeah it's fucking astonishing. When Gay Marriage was a big national debate, the conservative, anti-gay folks said,
"Unlike the civil rights movement, which was based on prejudice over something that doesn't really matter, homosexuality strikes at some of our most fundamental intuitions and beliefs about the nature of men, women, and society, so the left is crazy if they think the issue will ever be anything but deeply controversial."
And now, about a decade later, we get,
"Unlike the movements for civil rights and gay rights, the trans movement involves such complex and foundational issues in human psychology that etc etc."
Genuinely what do people like this think is going to happen if they adopt and legitimize the framing of their opponents at the expense of their own base in an increasingly polarized world?
We saw that work out in the UK. Starmer gets into power primarily due to the other side fucking up, moves to the right, alienates his own base and even invites them to leave if they disagree with his policies, becomes extremely unpopular, resigns after loading the guns the fascists will use to persecute minorities in the near future.
Lower wages for people under 21 should be textbook discrimination. A 22 year old gets Β£12.71 an hour and a 17 year old gets Β£8 an hour for doing the same exact job, in spite of the fact that a 17 year old could be living independently while being forced to work only part time due to being required to be in education. Oh also 18-20 year olds only get Β£10.85 an hour. Just because. You can join the army you can get married you get have kids. But sowwy you actually get significantly less because we arbitrarily decided so
I used to work alongside kids as a 21 year old and it shattered me to learn how much they were making. These kids were doing pretty much the same job as me other than me having a couple more responsibilities which really werenβt worth me getting Β£5 more than them. Itβs actually fucking disgusting
Next up someone is going to claim that the Narnia series isn't kids books.
Kids books is probably not the best way to word it, you can enjoy them at every age, including your childhood, as you get older you may find new truths in them, but they're still good for any age.
I want you to understand this. I NEED you to understand this. My mother read me the hobbit as bedtime story, and I started pushing myself to read before pre-school so I could in fact read the hobbit for myself instead of having to wait for bedtime.
I didn't do so right away but jesus wept I PUSHED myself to learn to read SPECIFICALLY so I could read The Hobbit! It is, in fact, a children's story! And children only see page count as 'there is a lot of this fun story to read!'
I don't understand why they're freaked out by book length. A kid can read one 300-page book or six 50-page books and it's the same amount of reading. Scholastic's bread and butter has traditionally been long, LONG series of relatively short children's books; it's known that bookworm kids like to read a lot. Nobody blinks an eye at a kid reading all sixty-ish Animorphs books or a bookshelf's worth of Goosebumps or The Babysitter's Club. But if the pages are stuck together into thicker books then suddenly that's difficult for a kid? 300 pages isn't even all that big for children's fantasy.
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The worst part of anti industrial rhetoric is this assumption that everyone would be better off if all goods were made at home, sorry, I think women deserve to have a life outside of spinning
Someone has to spin the wool and wash the dishes and churn the butter and do all of the menial labor that makes human society survive, and historically, that labor has been done by women
it really is annoying as hell how someone will talk about how poor people can't avoid ethically dubious products because of how being poor works and then someone with a two story house in the suburbs will take that to mean they can order harry potter books through a drone delivery from amazon and if you criticize that you're a bigot
something so incredible about a zionist going to bat for a book series that had discourse about the hook nosed goblin bankers before the terf shit was even a major discussion
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